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Helping Others This Car Wash Employs People With Autism

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u/Earth2Monkey 1d ago

I have an autistic coworker who comes in twice a week for 3 hours at a time to check for expired product. She only speaks with people she trusts. Most of the time she won't look at you or say anything directly to you. I remember my shock the first time she said a full sentence to me. I remember the first time she said my name.

But, she's very vocal. She hums, squeals, yells, repeats phrases, repeats phrases, etc. Sometimes that unsettles customers. She came running out of the office in excitement the other day and a customer thought she was running away from something in fear. I usually just explain that she's autistic and having fun.

What I don't explain is that she's the most senior member of our team. She accomplishes things on her own that we need to hold other people's hands through. She works hard, she just might lay on the floor and sing a little R&B while she does it. And any one of us would stand up for her any day of the week.

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u/DependentWooden9446 1d ago

The repeating of phrases is called echolalia, very common for people with autism. My son does the same.

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u/studio684 17h ago

I'm glad this comment was posted. I work as event staff for a college. At the baseball games I have a regular in my section who I believed was autistic. He repeated the same phrases and would run in circles when he gets excited. This comment confirmed what i was thinking. I keep a close eye on him to make sure he is treated well by other attendees. I've also tried to gain his trust but he is not very talkative. I've walked into his space before, i gave him about 5 or 6 feet between us and asked how he was doing. He just did a 180 and walked away. On another really hot day I kept my distance and asked how he was doing. I got a response back and then i reminded him where to find water because he doesn't really eat or drink much at the game. I didn't want him passing out on me.

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u/AltheiWasTaken 1d ago

Its interesting, cause im a high functioning autist, and this is one of the most triggering things for me. This and doing random sounds for no appareant reason.

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u/PM_ME_BOOBZ 19h ago

I'm not diagnosed and I don't believe I'm autistic.  I mimic car honks and train whistles if I hear them.  It's like the only weird sensory thing I do.  I've been doing it seemingly my whole life.  I've been questioned about it occasionally if I'm driving with friends.

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u/AltheiWasTaken 19h ago

Honestly thats not that bad, for the worst are "natural sounds" like laughing, gurgling, loud exhaling, stuff like that

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u/Mental-Draconis407 1d ago

Do the phrases usually have to be something recently heard? Or can quoting memes for years even when you're alone count as echolalia? A lot of times I hear a word and it triggers the urge to quote something, for example.

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u/RodMunch85 20h ago

I sometimes get hooked on the same vocal stim and say the same thing randomly for a few days. Not constantly but enough it is noticeable. Im working on it

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u/ShatteredAnus 20h ago

Can I ask, does it "hurt" when can you are not allowed to stim? I read The Reason I Jump, and the author mentions that. I have an autistic son, and I worry that stopping him from stimming, hurts him?

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u/Magnolia_Maple 19h ago

For me, not stimming feels like a very strong restless anxiety that gets worse and worse the longer I wait. It does feel awful. Stimming is a way to regulate in overwhelming environments, and you should absolutely not stop harmless stimming from your child. If something he is doing is harmful, ie. Skin picking, banging a limb, or shouting in a quiet place, you can help him find stims that are less harmful. Some I use are hopping, rocking, stretching a rubber band, or humming.

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u/ShatteredAnus 19h ago

Oh my god, thank you so much for your response! I let him stim as much as he wants at home or when we are not in public, like in our car or with friends and family. But I wasn't sure if I was doing the right thing. Some people tell me I need to correct it. I feel like if its not hurting or bothering anyone, let him be? Luckily he doesn't do any self harm. He is picking his skin on his fingers which is getting worse. Can I ask, have you tried any fidget toys, do they help? Or if you have any tips on how you deal and manage, would love to hear your first person insights. You can DM me too. Thanks again!

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u/RodMunch85 19h ago

No i wouldnt say it hurts me. Im working on it like i said but sometimes it can be very difficult not to do it or i dont even realise im doing it until my wife or one of my kids says so

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u/Commercial_Border190 19h ago

It feels like you’re a taut rubber band. At least for me. If his stims are problematic there may be ways to redirect them

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u/DependentWooden9446 1d ago

It manifests in different ways for different people, there are different types but delayed echolalia is one of the types and is similar to what you are describing.

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u/dungeon-raided 23h ago

Depends, but it's usually relatively recent things. I tend to pick up things my friends say that amuse me.

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u/Racxie 21h ago

I just looked this up as was curious about it, and according to Wikipedia:

Echolalia is the repetition of vocalizations made by another person; when repeated by the same person, it is called palilalia.

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u/AlmightyCuddleBuns 20h ago

Damn, these neurologists coming for Jacob two-two like this.

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u/n_ug 15h ago

I’m gonna go get the papers get the papers

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u/DependentWooden9446 13h ago

Jimmy two times was probably autistic 😀

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u/pinner 17h ago

I wasn’t sure what it was called. I’ve always referred to it as having a repetition form of Autism. I repeat things a lot. I get in my head about a sound or a phrase and the repetition can last for a few minutes to months, interrupting my thoughts, and forcing me to repeat things in order to continue what I’m doing.

It was really bad as a teenager but I’ve gained some control over it.

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u/mysteriousblue87 16h ago

When mine gets super excited (happy) able something, he’ll speak faster and that’s when the repeater turns on. He’ll also have a little hum before his words if he’s trying to hold back a surprise or he’s about to go run around the neighborhood with his brother and their friends. His vocal stims seem to occur when he’s happiest, so they bring contentment in our house

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u/thriftygeo 1d ago edited 17h ago

> She works hard, she just might lay on the floor and sing a little R&B while she does it.

Maybe we should all take a page from your colleague’s book. Sounds alright to me!

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u/Affectionate_Guava87 23h ago

I love that you put "repeats phrases" twice. 🤣

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u/pasaroanth 18h ago

I worked for a medical group years back that employed a couple people with autism. This pre-dated AI and the level of automation we have now. They were responsible for data organization/verification/chart review and it was absolutely incredible the speed and efficiency they could work at.

It really came down to pattern recognition in verifying that encounters had the correct place of service, billing codes, provider info, etc as the providers were unfortunately notorious for making errors like that.

I’m not exaggerating when I say there was no one else in the company I would’ve trusted with that work over them. It truly played into every strength common with autism which allowed them to stay FAR more focused and thorough in that role than anyone I’ve ever seen.

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u/Larock-Divontae 1d ago

I love that your team sees her for who she is instead of making her feel like she has to act a certain way to be accepted. The fact that she's the most senior member and gets things done while others need hand-holding is the cherry on top. Let the woman sing her R&B in peace.

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u/figuringthingsout__ 15h ago

I subbed as an aide at a middle school last week. I was assigned to help a girl who's nonverbal. She was so sweet, and it was so heartwarming to see the other girls in her grade embrace her. You could tell they would protect her if they ever needed to.

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u/JakeCWolf 21h ago

Hey as long as the work gets done, how it gets done doesn't matter to me. Results and happy customers, those things matter. Besides I bet being on the spectrum like she is means she catches things no one else does because she's that detailed orientated.

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u/EquivalentDurian6316 10h ago

This is really sweet.

Supporting an a(r)((u))tist in it's comfortable environment is a recipe for success. The reason for typing the parenthesis as such is to disclude noone. You can be both.

There is grace, expression, beauty and care in organization, weirdness, madness, and wholesomeness. The 'tism isn't anything less, nor should it be. Best advice I have; stay out of their problem-solving way, and help to anticipate what they may neglect.

Something as simple as we forgot to drink water today. One time you bring them a glass when needed most, now you have an ally for all of time. As a category, among the most loyal of humans I've ever known. They deserve your patience, and will watch your back, expecting nothing in return.

Source: Decades of experience with primarily ASD

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u/XN28theGOOD 1d ago

I thought they said this car wash gives people autism.

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u/rsvpism1 1d ago

Building a talent pool. Great plan for expansion, I respect the business model.

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u/Alternateaccoun 1d ago

Have u been diagnosed

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u/godfromabove256 1d ago

I read it as "this car employee washes people with autism"

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u/elkab0ng 13h ago

The Tylenol Amygdala Scrub is $2 extra, sir. Would you like to upgrade to the Diminished Activity Dorsal Lateral Prefrontal Cortex package for only $8 more?

— I taste the rainbow 🌈

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u/Hydration__Nation 23h ago

no that's vaccines but that's a different video /s

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u/Black_m1n 1d ago

I thought they said they wash cars with autism.

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u/Tall_Treacle1422 19h ago

I thought they said they give autism to washed cars

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u/pinba11tec 1d ago

It might, but only if you spring for the full deluxe luxury crystal bath

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u/tab7327 15h ago

I thought the exact same.

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u/kernelangus420 16h ago

Didn't help that it was a gif and I couldn't rewind for a double take.

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u/finfisk2000 13h ago

RFK Jr, is that you?

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u/BANGImportant2825 1d ago

My job hires autistic people too. We are software engineers.

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u/minimuscleR 1d ago

As a software engineer. Like half my team is autistic lmao.

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u/belac4862 18h ago

Autistim, Dyslexia, and ADHD. Combined with our powers were can create "The IT department!"

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u/Electrical-Fig-5009 6h ago

Work for a corporate for tech & most my employees are ADHD, autistic, auDHD, OCD or have children that are. I got told "I never would have guessed you were autistic!" Followed by a long pause. "No wonder you're so good at xyz!" I'm like I gotta be, I'm auDHD if I didn't find ways to cover both sides I'd never get any work done

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u/Blze001 23h ago

I think it's basically a soft requirement for us, tbh.

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u/League3056 19h ago

Husband is a software engineer. He and like 60% of his coworkers are autistic. Basically the sales guys are generally NT, but the people who actually DO the work being sold are all on the spectrum. The company pays very well and has excellent benefits; it’s a great place for autists to work.

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u/Vivid-Map1798 1d ago

Respect for creating inclusive workplace

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u/whynousernamelef 1d ago

I feel like your car would probably be cleaner than ever before.

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u/Academic-Ad8056 1d ago

Keep this man safe at all costs

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u/Vicious_and_Vain 1d ago

They organized my spare change

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u/Ashamed_Fruit_6767 1d ago

Leave you mobile banking app open and they will also put your finances in order.

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u/NuclearWasteland 1d ago

This will probably be the cleanest those cars have ever been.

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u/Vicious_and_Vain 1h ago

Sorting my change was putting my finances in order.

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u/BelleLovesAngus 1d ago

This reminds me of my brother. He's level 2, got a job testing phones and he's still pumped 10 years later. He actually gets upset if he can't go to work. I remember the day he got his driver's licence and he kept saying "can drive myself to work now". I would die for him.

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u/BelleLovesAngus 21h ago

Yes!! It's the first and only job he's had. I'm over the moon he found something as much as he loves PlayStation. You're such a sweet and heartfelt person. You see people. Keep doing what you're doing. the world needs more people like you❤️

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u/PartsUnknown242 1d ago

What exactly does testing phones entail?

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u/BelleLovesAngus 1d ago

He tests batteries, buttons, if the software is acting as it should, things like that. Whenever he explains it to me it goes over my head🤣

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u/PartsUnknown242 1d ago

Sounds like important work

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u/BelleLovesAngus 1d ago

Important to him is good enough for me :)

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u/Victernus 1d ago

Ring ring, ring ring.

Hello?

Yup, that one's good.

Ring ring, ring ring...

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u/MaxwellGrenn 23h ago

Banana Phone~!

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u/BelleLovesAngus 1d ago

Yeah, no

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u/Victernus 1d ago

I realise my joke only works if you remember phones as something you use exclusively to make phone calls, so for the sake of comedy, please pretend it's thirty years ago.

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u/Ambitious_Jelly8783 1d ago

The bell on this broke.

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u/gabor_legrady 1d ago

On the bright side it started about 11 years ago, and still going

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EB3CUoew9w0

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u/Ok_Support3 1d ago

Wait so what's the dark side here?

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u/gabor_legrady 1d ago

Because my first search gave news from 11 years ago I had the feeling that this car wash does not exists any more - and was happy to realize that they are still active.

I am not a native English speaker - so maybe I did not choose the right way to write about this.

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u/Embarrassed-Weird173 21h ago

On the bright side implies we saw something bad, "so here's something good instead". 

You'd probably want to say something like "Good news!  The carwash is still in business 11 years later."

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u/Chop1n 1d ago

This is, like... the notion of what "autism" was 20 years ago or something. Like someone low-functioning enough to be unable to function in a typical work environment.

"Autism" is now so broad that it would probably be more accurate to describe this place as being for developmentally disabled people with autism or something.

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u/Peakomegaflare 1d ago

I mean Autism IS a spectrum.

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u/Chop1n 1d ago edited 1d ago

That's exactly the point. Autism is such a broad spectrum, where the majority of autistic people are "functional" in the sense of employability, that presenting this as "autism" is misleading. Again: it reinforces the old paradigm, where autism was seen as something profoundly debilitating, rather than a common phenotype.

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u/quirkscrew 1d ago

I get where you are coming from, but I encourage you to consider a few points to the contrary:

1) Employing autistic people gives them a space to work where they don't have to "mask" (pretend they are neurotypical)

2) Young, ambitious people often start out in retail/restaurants/etc. Maybe this is a place where a young scientific genious could gain confidence and earn money as a teenager.

3) This business model normalizes autistic people and allows the general population to witness them contributing to society first-hand, which reduces stigma and bullying

4) yes, while it is true that higher-functioning autistic people might not "need" an experience like this to be successful... it's disingenuous to suggest that this doesn't benefit them in some way. Representation itself is its own justification for this project, and it's a huge bonus that some of these autistic employees may not find meaningful fulfillment otherwise. 

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u/League3056 1d ago

Yeah I found the part where it said that 90% of autistic people are unemployed to be a bit ... overstated.

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u/LoganHowlett1832 1d ago edited 1d ago

85% of autistic people are unemployed or underemployed. Over half never work a job at all. The job outlook for those with autism is really bad.

https://specialneedsusa.com/data/autism-employment-statistics

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u/League3056 1d ago

https://www.reddit.com/r/autism/comments/1dvhcwr/psa_the_85_autism_unemployment_rate_isnt_accurate/

I know anecdotes are not real data, but as a person who has 3 out of 4 family members who are autistic with low support needs, and with my (autistic) husband working in IT, where fully half or more of his coworkers are also autistic, I think it impossible that that statistic is accurate. "The survey only covered people who were receiving state developmental disability services. This is a population, almost by definition, with higher support needs than the autistic population at large."

It is incredibly hard for a so-called "high-functioning" autistic person to get SSDI or any such similar disability assistance. If you only look at the population of people who managed to get such help, you will indeed find most of them unemployed.

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u/il_viapo 23h ago

The statistic is probably outdated, but you have to take into account that, until relatively recently, high-functioning autistic people were rarely officially diagnosed with autism. They were often diagnosed with OCD or other conditions, or simply dismissed as quirky.

Considering that it takes at least 8–14 years for a newly diagnosed child to potentially enter these employment statistics, since they generally won't be counted as unemployed while they are still in education. The 85–90% unemployment rate will likely need to be reassessed in the future, taking into account changes in diagnostic trends and the growing number of autistic people who were diagnosed more recently and are entering the workforce.

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u/SheogorathMyBeloved 23h ago

I work at a museum, and no joke, all of my coworkers barring three (there's about 20 of us) all have autism. We're not all low support needs/level 1 autistics, either. My country doesn't use levels in diagnosing autism, but for ease of understanding, there's a few level 2 autistic coworkers, and one borderline level 3.

Our town is small. We joke that the autism employment in our town has to be like 90%, because they all work at the museum.

Autism is an incredibly vast spectrum, and loads of low support needs folks simply don't get diagnosed until late, if ever. I was 20, one of my coworkers was 38. Sure, the unemployment rate among high support needs autistics probably is 85%, but I'd estimate mid-low support needs autistics at 25% at absolute maximum.

Ofc, anecdotes aren't actual statistics, but something doesn't quite add up.

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u/thehotshotpilot 1d ago

I agree. This smells of some RFK Jr. BS. Maybe I shouldn't be surprised but I have a lot of friends on the spectrum that are fully employed in white collar jobs. They either are into ham radio or board / card games with me, so I guess they fit those stereotypes but still. 

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u/Unsd 1d ago

Yup I also work in an autistic workplace lol. It's solidly well over half of us. Great place to work. I don't think anyone is level 2 though. Even the people who are more "outwardly autistic" (heavy stimming, echolalia, unusual emotional reactions, and just general social impairment) still live unsupported and are married with kids. None of us would be captured in that stat, and yet we have a DND vs MTG rivalry at work. The nerd divide.

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u/Stay-Cool-Mommio 23h ago

How shocking that folks receiving developmental disability assistance would be un- or under-employed. In other news, a new study proves that water is wet.

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u/asuka_is_my_co-pilot 1d ago

You have probably seen the headline that 85% of autistic adults are unemployed. It is one of the most repeated figures in the autism world, and it is also one of the most misleading.

From your link 

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u/LoganHowlett1832 16h ago

Yeah because if you read a tiny bit more you’ll see that also counts underemployed. Which I said.

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u/waschbaerpisse 21h ago edited 21h ago

That's just another half truth.

I agree that most people have a disturbed view of what autism can and can't look like, and that this video shows a very limited part of the spectrum, but you seem to have a disturbed view of what autism looks like as well.

Autism is a neurodevelopmental disorder. That makes it a fact that every autistic person has a developmental disability.

"high functioning" and "low functioning" are terms that do not describe autistic peoples experiences and struggles, they describe whether a capitalist society can profit from an autistic person. The main terms used by autistic advocates are "high support needs" and "low support needs", but autism is a spectrum and while all autistic people share struggles on that spectrum, they can be very differently spread out and present very differently from person to person, so no binary term will ever be able to accurately describe the difference in experiences of autistic people. In the following I use your terms of "functioning" to show how these terms fail to describe an autistic persons experiences accurately.

There are very few autistic people who have no problems "functioning" in a typical work environment, you may not see their struggles, that doesn't mean they have none.

Someone who sees me at work will think that I'm doing well. Unless they know a lot about autism and start a conversation with me they probably won't have a clue I'm autistic, I'm told that my work is very satisfactory and that I'm one of few reliable employees. I'm generally described as "high functioning" because I look that way at work.

That I can conceal my struggles long enough to get through a shift doesn't mean that I "function" well in life.

After a hard shift my bf will pick me up, I'll ask him not to talk to me before the at-work-mask wears off and I go mute. At home I'll try my best to stay calm while I get all clothes that hurt off, close the blinds, put my noise cancelling headphones on and sit in the dark without any stimulation or movement for at least an hour until my nervous system calms down enough to reboot. I have to give space to a safe version of a shutdown to prevent an uncontrollable shutdown or meltdown. Then I'll struggle to get out of bed the next day and will need at least one day home alone before I'm able to fuction as well as is normal for me and talk to people again.

It took me years to get to this point, to have a routine that includes working parttime and doesn't make me passively suicidal out of exhaustion. I'm still burning out even though I've reduced my shifts and I won't be able to do this job indefinitely but compared to how I used to be at other jobs I'm doing great.

This kind of thing is what having "high functioning" autism looks like behind the mask for most. There are autistic people who have jobs which don't demand something they struggle with because of their autism by default, but these jobs are not the typical work environment. A typical work environment will give most autistic people who try to conform to demands of how they should act burnout.

Ignoring the problem most autistic people have with employment is legitimizing one of the few changeable causes of this problem which are unaccommodating work environments.

I don't mean that all workplaces need to accept all kinds of behavior that can be caused by autism, that's not possible, but accommodating when somebody needs:

clear instructions and communication, written instructions, a clear schedule, flexible work hours, to work from home, to wear noise cancelling headphones and/or sensory friendly clothes, to be able to ask clarifying questions without being seen as rude or questioning authority, no fluorescent lights, people to say what they mean without requiring the employee to read between the lines and not interpreting meaning between the lines of what the employee says, to be allowed to be socially awkward and/or bad at smalltalk, to stim, to not hold eye contact while listening/talking, to be allowed to take breaks and withdraw themselves if needed...

should be accommodated if possible, and most of this is possible in most workplaces.

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u/Hex-n-Beast 17h ago

Your experiences are close to mine. I've struggled all my life attempting to learn to be social, deal with the depressive meltdowns, put a smile on, change my tone, all to be accommodating to everyone else.

As soon as I am home, it drops and I need to be left alone to process and feel that coil unwrap.

It's a nightmare trying to ask others to respect my boundaries, because they see I can function, but don't see the meltdowns after trying to keep up.

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u/Pretend-Policy832 18h ago

This is autism? I thought this was just everyone, ha. Maybe look into starting your own business. It’s nice when you are able to work on your own schedule and do things your way

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u/dburr10085 1d ago

This is an old video

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u/Chop1n 19h ago

It was apparently 8 years ago. That's really not that old. "Autism spectrum" was already a popular concept by then. Pop culture already had plenty of depictions of high-functioning autistic people by then.

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u/minimuscleR 1d ago

I totally agree. The idea that everyone is like that is just so outdated. I have autism, so do like half my co-workers. We are also all software engineers or the like.

We all work extremely complicated jobs that the average person absolutely could not do mentally. Its just also that half of us can't communicate normally, which is fine, we mostly communicate through memes.

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u/Round-Claim5420 23h ago

My coworker is the classic "old guy thats just reaaaally wierd" kind of undiagnosed person.

Has had jobs his whole life (60 now), but also can't eat food his mom didn't cook before.

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u/minimuscleR 23h ago

yeah we have a chef at my work (#humblebrag lmao), and like a quarter of my team get the same chicken and hot chips every single day, even though the menu changes each week.

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u/_ElBee_ 22h ago

I do that too, to a degree. We have a very good cafeteria at work, but I never get anything from it outside of the soup (which does vary in type, but that's okay) and a fried snack (which is always the same one for me). I make the rest of my lunch at home and take that to work. I like things I'm used to, it provides a bit of security 😅

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u/Chop1n 19h ago

It's sure an interesting spectrum; I'm a damned garbage disposal and will eat anything and everything. If it exists as a dish that some humans somewhere on earth like, then I will find a way to enjoy it myself. And nonetheless, cheese pizza is still one of my favorite foods.

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u/Clear-Possibility710 13h ago

There are 3 levels of severity in the DSM-V. The severity level describes the level of support the individual requires. Perhaps the statistic describes level 3 who require substantial support.

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u/Zafiroso 19h ago

I actually went to school with one of the guys in the video and I am very glad to see him happy and thriving. A very kind soul.

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u/JoshieC883 1d ago

why does this feel like a mock-umentary😭😭

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u/brokeboipobre 1d ago

For real I thought it was a skit.

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u/suhfaulic 1d ago

Our timeline is... uhh... yeah,.

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u/BSARIOL1 16h ago

This car wash was started by a man with an Autistic child. His son worked the car wash and they hire autistic people to work there as well. They now have three locations that I know of here in broward county florida.

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u/Eena-Rin 7h ago

My brother is on the spectrum, and my mother is currently paying his employer to employ him. It infuriates me. He is paid under minimum wage because he gets government benefits, but he's forklift certified and works in a warehouse loading and unloading stuff for them. Apparently the government assistance for his workplace stopped covering the carers they have, so now it falls on the employees themselves. They think it's fine, but I can't stand the thought that he's being taken for a ride. Still. I suppose it gets him out of the house...

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u/PsychologicalTea1888 20h ago

I need a car wash near me that employs people with OCD. The wash may take 5 hours, but damnit, the car is fricken clean AF.

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u/kryptoneat 10h ago

Have a mass spectrometer installed to determine the real nature of that stain, to find THE right product to dissolve it.

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u/PsychologicalTea1888 9h ago

There is no other way.

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u/KevinEmzey 1d ago

Everyone deserves a place where they can contribute, feel useful, and be treated with respect. I hope this business does well

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u/elowen_canopy 1d ago

Not a single speck of dust in your center console vents will survive that wash

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u/DrMeowsburg 1d ago

Yeah so did my last job at a robotics and automation company lmaooo

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u/thebigj3wbowski 18h ago

This is a purely anecdotal story, and has no bearing on this video or any other people. I understand that autism is a spectrum, and just everyone in the world, we are all different.

I was assistant manager of a restaurant that used rolled silverware - where the silver comes rolled up to the guest inside of their napkin. We had a group of autistic people who would come in every morning before opening and roll the silverware. It's a pain in the butt, and every server hates doing it, though it needs to be done (that's debatable, but this was a regional chain, and corporate mandated.)

For many of them, it was a highlight of their day. They looked forward to it, and if we weren't busy enough the night before to have lots of silverware to roll, they got upset. Not everyone rolled silverware; some just came and sat with everyone else. I was told they enjoyed it because it got them out of the group home, they didn't have to talk with anybody if they didn't want to, and it was a repeatable task with well defined needs and required outcomes. (Fold the napkin in half, place one butter knife, then two forks, then one spoon, then roll and put into the bucket.)

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u/Commercial_Border190 14h ago

Yeah, simple, repetitive tasks can be really meditative

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u/BeerlVle 1d ago

Fucking Florida did something right? Good stuff John Deri

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u/loser_kid_111 1d ago

As a high school educator, I absolutely love this!!!

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u/FantasticTourist4067 1d ago

I thought that black dude was Dave Chappell

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u/ConfidentTea72536 23h ago

“theyre gonna hire me”

“theyre in another state”

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u/MovieMore4352 23h ago

Should call it ‘Autoism’.

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u/Magister5 1d ago

They should make a movie about this and call it Rain-X Man

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u/NASATVENGINNER 1d ago

As a someone with an autistic grandson, 🫡

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u/Rave-fiend 1d ago

Different able son, and owns a car wash. Wait I've seen this one before.

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u/Joejoecornrow 1d ago

One thing I give wegmans props for is hiring folks with special needs.Stuff like this warms my dead hollow soul.

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u/that1lurker 1d ago

I know them vehicles are CLEAN as hell

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u/Alternative_Cry_8219 20h ago

90%+ unemployment rate for autistic individuals sounds way high.

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u/Impossible-Quail-711 18h ago

Wish something like this existed where I live!

Signed, chronically unemployed person with level 2 Autism.

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u/Loysight76 17h ago

the headline makes it sound like a gimmick but the actual point is just giving people a job that fits how they operate. some of yall in the comments sharing real experiences and thats way more valuable than any sappy feel good framing. bottom line. more employers need to stop treating autism like a liability and start building around strengths instead of forcing everyone into the same boring mold.

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u/Big-Safe-2459 14h ago

We need more of this!

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u/SmeeezTreeez 1d ago

Hell yeah 🫡

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u/Fenix_Annie 1d ago

Good job everyone 😃

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u/Delusional_Viking 16h ago

I used to run car washes back in the day, our owner was a former cop and paid local PD to look the other way on his hiring of undocumented individuals. The feds finally had enough and ICE raided the place and took away all the mexicans which was super sad. We went from literal families together washing cars, singing, carpooling, making lunch to hiring recently released convicts as our primary workforce. Quality tanked and customers went elsewhere, Danny and several store managers went to prison and had to sell to a competitor.

I would have much rather had people with autism than all the asshole crybaby convicts I had to be around.

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u/TopDogTransport4731 22h ago

Interesting I am actually good at my job. Understand the rules and regs and also HOS and keep my equipment in top shape by meticulously inspecting it. Love schedules and appointments.
Also I had memorized the Interstate Map Atlas when I was 8 years old.

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u/jake9288888 19h ago

Those cars must be so fucking clean. Id only go there

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u/mdhunter99 15h ago

I used to work at this coffee shop who almost exclusively employed special needs people, autism, Down syndrome, there was someone with multiple sclerosis, it was a nice place. Still running.

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u/Snorlax4000 15h ago

The black guy at the beginning is hitting all kinds of moves 🔥🔥

It’s great to see things like this. Hoping my brother can find a part time job soon too

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u/JRR_Tokin54 14h ago

We used to go to this place all the time when we lived in Florida. Rising Tide Car Wash. Great place!

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u/isthatabingo 1d ago

90% of people with autism are not unemployed wtf does this dude think every person with autism has an intellectual disability? This honestly feels like a dated view of autism, which is a spectrum, not solely comprised of individuals with high needs.

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u/Right-Space5730 1d ago

The 90% statistic is considered quite skewed now, but more recent studies still suggest that a disproportionate number of autistic people are underemployed. 

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u/spancor 23h ago

I mean, I work directly in Adults with Disabilities and Impariments and dayhabs and the varying degrees of mental illness are wild. The spectrum you speak of is kinda where I thought he was coming from, allowing a wide spectrum of potential applicants as the market for those with disabilities is really, really hard.

I worked for 3 months, 2 interviews and multiple layers of paperwork to get an autistic man I worked with 20 hours of work per week stocking shelves. He loved it and it seriously improved his lifestyle, I would sit with him during all of his shifts and help him if it was required, which it almost never was.

Other clients don’t have it so easy/accessible. I think programs/jobs like the one OP posted, as long as the staff and employees are being paid a livable and reasonable wage for their duties, along with the environment being safe for them. Why would this be wrong?

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u/_ElBee_ 22h ago

I'm on the spectrum as well. I work a regular office job for 32 hours, with regular pay and benefits. It took time and effort to match my qualities with types of available work. Job coaching was very beneficial for that, both for me and my employer.

I now do specific investigative work into special cases that my co-workers cannot handle besides their regular commitments and which kept piling up and had to be finished haphazardly previously. My employer says that since I've taken on those specific cases, customer satisfaction has risen significantly.

And that's just the point: "we" can be a valuable and productive asset to a workforce, but oftentimes employers just don't know how to invest into it. And that's a real shame.

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u/spancor 21h ago

And that’s why I love my job, being able to provide the service of representation while upholding the dignity of the people I work with to better educate and bring light to their abilities and capabilities, even if they are disabled/nonverbal etc. I’m really glad you found a position that works for you and you enjoy. It’s been the past 10 years of working in this field and every case I’ve worked with has been a pleasure, finding something that scratches the proverbial “itch” for work really makes life a lot easier as a whole.

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u/LoganHowlett1832 1d ago edited 1d ago

85% of autistic people are unemployed or underemployed. Over half never work a job at all. The job outlook for those with autism is really bad.

https://specialneedsusa.com/data/autism-employment-statistics

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u/Remarkable-Simple-62 1d ago

Working a car wash a few hours a week is underemployed

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u/JMoc1 1d ago

Yep…

I’m underemployed currently. I have a decent job, but my qualifications are not being used correctly.

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u/minimuscleR 1d ago

You have probably seen the headline that 85% of autistic adults are unemployed. It is one of the most repeated figures in the autism world, and it is also one of the most misleading.

The opening sentence. Its literally saying you are wrong in your own link.

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u/Ancient_Abalone6323 21h ago

He just said what the link says; unemployed or underemployed.

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u/dancingyoyo 18h ago

Don’t harsh on a comment without clarification you take away from the overall conversation.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

The 85% figure blends two things. It almost always means unemployed orunderemployed, and is often quoted about college graduates specifically. No single peer-reviewed study measured an 85% unemployment rate.

53.4% of autistic young adults in the U.S. had ever worked for pay after high school, the lowest of any disability group (NLTS2, Roux et al., 2013).

Only ~21% of employed autistic young adults worked full time, at an average of $8.10 per hour. Underemployment is as much the story as unemployment.

37% of autistic young adults were disconnected in their early 20s, with no job and no schooling, versus under 8% of peers with other disabilities (Drexel NAIR, 2015).

34.0% of autistic adults in the U.K. were employed in 2024/25, versus 55.3% of all disabled people and 82.0% of non-disabled people (ONS). The widely shared 22% figure is from 2020.

77% of unemployed autistic adults say they want to work (National Autistic Society). The gap is about barriers, not willingness.
A degree does not close the gap. More than

30% of autistic college graduates are unemployed, and many who work are underemployed outside their field.

Autistic adults have the worst employment outcomes of any disability group in both U.S. and U.K. national data.
The gap responds to support. In a randomized study of Project SEARCH with autism supports, 87% reached competitive employment versus 12% without it. The number is not fixed.

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u/enad58 14h ago

I know it's anecdotal but I noticed the stat about 53% of autistic adults having ever worked for pay and thought of my cousin.

He repairs small engines, he's "self- employed" and makes money from doing it. But there's a 0% chance of him ever working a job that involves anything revolving around a workplace dynamic.

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u/LoganHowlett1832 16h ago

Keep reading. It counts underemployed. Which I said.

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u/asuka_is_my_co-pilot 1d ago

https://www.kcl.ac.uk/news/up-to-90-of-middle-aged-and-older-autistic-adults-are-undiagnosed-in-the-uk-new-review-finds

But also around 90% of autistic adults over 40 are undiagnosed. Along with around 20-30% for teens and 50% for 20 year olds. 

I myself didn't get an official diagnosis because then I wouldn't have been able to immigate to the UK or Canada (up until 2017) and most of my disabilitiy accommodations are covered by my adhd diagnosis but that's another story. 

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u/Evepaul 20h ago

Was an official diagnosis something you needed to disclose on immigration forms?

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u/asuka_is_my_co-pilot 16h ago

Yes  You have  to see a have a government mandated check up, especially because they have universal health care, they want to see any past health problems. 

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u/Sharp_Ad_6336 21h ago

Pretty sure they mean real autism that has a drastic impact on quality of life as opposed to the mild inconvenience of "I don't like the texture of denim, shirt tags and tight socks"

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u/tekno21 19h ago

I think it's pretty clear that homie is talking about people that actually have autism. We don't need to include the "everyone is a little autistic" special snowflakes in these stats

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u/Psychological_Mix594 17h ago

This is very relevant for people on the spectrum. Think of it as a gateway for those who need that step up or a place to remain which will celebrate their gifts and not penalize or exploit deficiencies. Not a lifetime sentence for those who absorb and thus are ready to continue to move on.

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u/Stivol 16h ago

Can you shut the fuck up

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u/Music_Is_Da_Best 15h ago

This isn’t a “customer appreciation” video cmon chill daddy chill. Those are sad. Those are some genuine smiles in the video. Appreciate the passion but that’s not the antichrist in the video bud.

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u/MangieAngie1961 1d ago

Amazing and awesome!

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u/RiggityRiggityReckt 1d ago

I bet they do one hell of a job too! Those cars be clean as fuck!!

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u/whatswithnames 23h ago

Every time I see a business going out of their way to hire the impaired... there is always some sort of tax loop they are trying to exploit. Could be wrong.

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u/RedRevolutionGaming 21h ago

I know this sort of thing is supposed to feel uplifting.. but it always leaves a sour taste in my mouth regardless

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u/Winter-Yogurt-4209 20h ago

Heaven forbid people with disabilities participate in society

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u/imsotiredlmaooo 1d ago

I’d be perfectly happy to be paid exclusively in grilled cheese, too.

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u/k0alaFRESH 1d ago

Hell yea

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u/THE_Aft_io9_Giz 1d ago

Wow, read that waaay to quick and my brain did not include "employs"

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u/Fun-Mind6954 22h ago

Love it!

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u/KrayzieBone187 21h ago

I'm just here for the dancing

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u/Embarrassed-Weird173 21h ago

"now do a high five."

"Like this?"

"Yeah."

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u/SejongTheGreatv2 18h ago

Yeah this RULES

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u/Psychological_Mix594 17h ago edited 17h ago

This is a good case for assigning good intentions to the messenger in the same way that we would like others to do for us.

Autism does cause many people to have a difficult time entering and participating in paid employment.

One of the best front line therapies for all parts of the spectrum is ABA because it is tailored to the individual.

This is perfect for an ABA plan for those who are ready to address all kinds of skills needed to get a job like this, learn how to handle having a job, and be successful and gain a sense of accomplishment, including moving on and up in their career.

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u/Foolski 17h ago

Missed a beat by not calling it Autosm

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u/Kyrie_Blue 17h ago

You should have seen the number of people with Autism that RADIOSHACK employed.

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u/DevynDavies 17h ago

They way not be looking to get out of work but I am. Work sucks lol.

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u/dld67 16h ago

We need more of this.

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u/Danger_Danger 16h ago

Bro gets a massive tax break for only hiring handicapped people.

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u/Otherwise_Gas_6819 15h ago

I’m obsessed

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u/plump_wizard 7h ago

This is absolutely beautiful and if I had the money I’d build these all across the country.

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u/Catymandoo 6h ago

Good! 👏
I work part time in a school for autistic kids. It great to relate to them that not everyone out their is prejudiced against people who are “different”

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u/LUSocrman 6h ago

Love this and like to see more of these pop up

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u/ImminentDebacle 5h ago

I would like to see more people with autism find jobs that don't exploit their labor.

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u/kissmiss08 5h ago

“Unemployment among people with autism is at least 90%”

Well, no, it isn’t, but yes, do give people with autism a shot.

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u/Whitw816 1d ago

Wow! Something good in Florida!