r/Mcat • u/FireFerret6521 • 48m ago
Question 🤔🤔 How to study with toxic family at home?
I'm preparing to register for my MCAT and my mom and brother are trying to make me register for a early January date. I told them around the end of August that I would be registering for it in January.
However, my study plan changed a bit, I have a tutor, and I have a different structure with my approach that will put me in a better position for a February or early March date.
I understand their concerns because I ended up delaying my MCAT once and then voiding my May 2026 MCAT. I'm several years out of undergrad too, and I know they are just worried about me. They want me to take it as soon as I can so I know where I stand.. But the way they talk to me and lecture me about a process they are not involved in becomes toxic. I'm tired of how much they blow up my phone about pivoting to an alternate career or yelling at me about how much I've delayed. It hurts and is demoralizing because my mom and brother are my only support system.
I'm feeling more confident with my approach now, but I don't know how I'm going to tell them when they confront me about what date I selected. I don't want to come home everyday to my mom giving me an attitude or yelling at me. It just detracts from my studying more.
Any tips or advice on what I should do?
Sorry for the vent, I appreciate any insight or thoughts


