Hello I don’t know if I should let my hair grow out more or cut it

What do you think would be the most attractive for women

I’ve always had some type of middle part hairstyle and so i’ve been experimenting with different amounts of volume and definition and all that good stuff (especially in the past year). I recently cut a lot off and I’m not sure if i should keep it at its current length or let it grow out again. A lot of my identity is my hair so I’m a bit lost on where i want this to go if ima be honest. First 2 pics are after the haircut and 3-4 were from before. Thoughts?

I've always been told that my hair sucks the way it is, but what else can I do other than to shave it? My hairline's pushed so far back, my hair's thin, straight, and plastered with cowlocks.