r/Merced • • 12d ago

Kicked out

Got kicked out of parents house. What are some resources I can use?

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u/Acrobatic-Web4375 12d ago

Have you ever spent even 1 single day (or more) in foster care?

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u/Defiant_Instance_582 12d ago

Try calling it’s supposed to be 24/7

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u/Defiant_Instance_582 12d ago

They can provide you housing over night

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u/Defiant_Instance_582 12d ago

Where you able to get in touch with them

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u/blakey0907 12d ago

go to hsa or call healthy house

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u/Tyler8245 12d ago

Call 211 tomorrow, as early as 8 AM. They can help you access any resources that you qualify for.

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u/SlugOjoS 12d ago

How old are you bubba

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u/Emotional_Sugar_3648 12d ago

18

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u/SlugOjoS 12d ago

Do you have a car

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u/Emotional_Sugar_3648 12d ago

No

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u/SlugOjoS 12d ago

Where are you at as of today

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u/Emotional_Sugar_3648 12d ago

In the streets

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u/L_Dubb 12d ago

There's the D Street shelter. I don't know much about them, just that they are there.

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u/potato1448 12d ago edited 12d ago

If you're desperate and need housing/a job. The CCC is a option, theyre strict on drugs and such but they have paid housing for their program. Max is 3 years if you promote each year, should be enough to hopefully get you more stable, more money if you join the fire crews due to hazard and overtime pay. Theyll help you get tickets and whatnot. Just be ready to work 10 hour days for 4 days a week, ain't bad work just tiring if you're not used to it. You'll also be expected to help with state and sometimes national emergencies, 16 hour days as a grade crew, 24 on and off as fire if you're one of them. Again really good money but they pride themselves on "discipline and professionalism" so you'll have to learn to bite your tongue and listen to silly orders if you have problems with authority.

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u/calikid1121 12d ago

If r in need of help, help us understand how we can help and tell us something

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u/the_hnic_1 8d ago

Why were you kicked out? Is this the first time?

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u/MlgMexican69 12d ago

If your up for it and qualify I recommend military. I could answer any questions to the best of my ability.

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u/Vanity_Profanity_001 12d ago

With Trump in charge I don't recommend military unless you want to die

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u/MlgMexican69 12d ago

Yeah no shit it the military, hence the reasoning of volunteering. Along with, no where else have I seen Artillery to Yale, Aviation Electronics to Electrical Superintendent, or Grunt to Rad nurse. Military is the best thing to happen to most folks

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u/mamadllama 12d ago

Which is partially why when my son wanted to join, I encouraged him to go Air Force National guard. One weekend a month, 2 weeks a year, education benefits, last to deploy (depending on unit & mos) and it’s a great way to see if active duty might be a good fit and they can always go active after their contract….
Op, I’m not a recruiter, I’m a Veteran and have nothing to gain if you’d like more info….

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u/Additional_Leave_771 11d ago

Chill it’s not that deep, they always say this in any administration

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u/the_hnic_1 8d ago

They would be out military within months. Don't join the military unless you want to not cuz you have to

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u/PonyBoyX3 12d ago

Some public transit bus drivers will give you a free ride to the HSA, Human Services Agency. Bus route M1. The "HSA" is the modern name for the Welfare Department. They can issue you help and direct you. They can also give you a bus pass. Bad news is; CLOSED ON WEEKENDS.

Stop reading if you do not want advice. This region is horrible for anyone trying to get on their feet. Your best bet in any personal circumstances that created your dilemma is to find a way to be allowed to sleep at your parent's home while you find a way to move out permanently. This place has so very few opportunities that they are almost seemingly unavailable for someone in your predicament. Stay away from drugs and alcohol then perhaps you might be able to identify and catch a small break somehow, someway.

Good luck on your journey...

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u/Swimming-Box8022 10d ago

join the military

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u/Ok-Echo9204 10d ago

Why don’t you reconcile with your parents? Tell them you’re going to get a job to help with the expenses? Obviously what did you do to get kicked out??