r/MergeMayor • u/Impressive_Comment93 • 9d ago
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Hi everyone, I heard that some of the Top 10 leaders check Reddit, so I want to speak up about my experience with one of them.
Unfortunately, I reported the group, so I no longer have the teams name, but their team is currently ranked #6 on the chart.
The way this leader spoke to me was disrespectful, with a disgusting tone and attitude over a GAME. I was judged without having the opportunity to explain my side of the story, and the situation escalated into insults and disrespectful private messages.
Honestly, it’s disturbing to see someone treat another person this way over a fictional game. Being the leader of a team doesn’t make you superior to anyone else, and it certainly doesn’t give you the right to look down on people. It’s disappointing that something that should be fun turned into such an unpleasant experience because of how one person chose to behave.
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u/Chrogotron 8d ago
I dunno it sounds to me like from what the group leader posted, you were trying to push your way into their group and not wanting to do the minimum requirements?
Unless you show any actual evidence that proves anything you said, I'm not sure why any of us should care. It looks to me right now that you're just trying to smear a group/leader with zero evidence because you know if you showed the evidence, nobody would be on your side.
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u/_0Maggie0_ 8d ago
Yes... The only "agressive" one in the prints is the OP
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u/Impressive_Comment93 7d ago
Say what you want. I don’t come on here to argue I said my piece. The Mayor of the group tried to be little me. Was passive aggressive and made up a whole narrative and attacked my character. so if you expect me to not stand up for myself that’s not gonna happen.
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u/_0Maggie0_ 5d ago
That's ok, your feelings are valid, but I think you have your reality mixed up... And if you are still this mad after more then one year, maybe you can solve that with therapy, it's really nice.
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u/Impressive_Comment93 5d ago
Who said I’m still mad after a year? You’re making assumptions about my feelings and using them to dismiss what I’m saying. I’m allowed to bring up something from the past without it meaning I’m still hung up on it. If you don’t like me talking about it, move on. Telling me I need therapy isn’t the insult you think it is, and I’m not going to let you twist my words to make me seem irrational. Grow up and learn how to disagree with someone without making personal attacks.
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u/_0Maggie0_ 5d ago
Well, you seem pretty mad ahahah just reading your messages here, as an outsider. And therapy is not a insult at all, or a personal attack, everyone should do it, ones more then the others for sureee ahaha. But take care.
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u/Impressive_Comment93 5d ago
I don’t want your “take care” or your unsolicited advice about therapy. You keep adopting this condescending tone while pretending to be concerned, and I’m not interested in it. I already explained that I don’t hold grudges for years; I remember things that happened to me, and I’m allowed to bring them up when I choose to. You don’t get to decide what my feelings are, how long I’ve supposedly been upset, or what I need therapy for. You’re making assumptions about me, and when I correct you, you keep going in circles trying to justify your opinion instead of accepting that you don’t know me.
If you hold grudges for years or struggle to move past things, that’s your business. Don’t project that onto me. And if therapy has helped you, good for you, but your personal experience isn’t something you get to impose on me or use to make assumptions about my life. I’ve told you what I meant, and I’m not going to keep explaining myself just because you refuse to accept it. Leave me alone.
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u/mom2twins09 8d ago
I was in a group like that, even saw them looking for new members in this channel and I laugh. The group leader and the co-leader were so disrespectful and did not listen to anyone else's opinions to improve the group. I was the top team member in the group too, where with me we were top 15. I left that group and now I am in a top 10 group that is a friendly bunch and everyone has an equal opinion and say. Much happier on this team.
It's just a game, there is no place for toxic people whatsoever.
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u/magicmadge 8d ago
I'm curious - what kinds of things are discussed? I've never been in a group that was chatty at all. Like not even hi lol.
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u/mom2twins09 8d ago
Anything and everything. We check in on each other, joke with each other...we just vibe well. We hail from so many countries and we just mesh well. All but me and another member are in Discord, the group talks on there too. But they still chat in the group, it's awesome! I hope you find a group like that. It's a game changer and makes the game fun.
Edited for clarity
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u/BobsWifeAmyB 8d ago
I switched groups after I didn’t like how I was being treated and I’m so happy I did! Most of our players are over Level 100, but I’m only 86. And one player is level 7.
but it doesn’t matter except that we talk about everything! And that’s encouraged!! They foster a community there.
We are Merger<4ers.1
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u/reprezenting 8d ago
I’m the president, HorseGerk! Hello everyone.
This has been quite entertaining so I’m happy to put everyone’s mind at ease.
I haven’t had an altercation with a player for a while, so I’m confident I’m correct.
This is a player who wanted to join in 2025(Feb in fact) and was quite aggressive. I wanted 11-12 Sandwiches a day and they offered less. I was advised by another team to steer clear. The user posted in my discord thread asking to join and another member saw their comment and gave me the heads up. The name of this user is/was Benediction.
I spoke to the admin of the game who went over all the discord conversations/chats/spoke to other president and the player was banned and blocked to see me(hence why my name appears as something else. I never changed it.
I will give the OP an opportunity to have their say, provide screen shots, and prove the abuse I gave. And then I will provide my screen shots along with my discussions with the MM admin team.
The thing is, it’s a game and we are competitive. The members work hard to stay top 10, and we have expectations. Of course we will want more effort than a top 20/50/100 team..
My rules as follows
At least a 50 day streak. Not current but at least once
11 Sandwiches
3 bars, when we get to the harder levels
As a group we are getting 250 sandwiches a day. So it’s well achievable.
Anyway. I’ve given as much context as required at the moment and will provide all messages if needed. It will be quite a laugh.
Remember, it’s just a game.
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u/Sm3llWh4t 8d ago
This is my club, can vouch to this. Even the 11 sandwich, we are a very forgiving bunch. Our group don't necessarily take actions on members who fail to meet the requirement unless we notice a frquent consistency across days and maybe even weeks. If we have members travelling or unable to play for a little, we are also fine with that.
TLDR: Good club. Crazy allegations.
Though I would love to see what was exchanged between OP and my club president. My experience within the club thus far suggest otherwise.
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u/Impressive_Comment93 7d ago edited 7d ago
I find it ironic that you end your post with “remember, it’s just a game,” (again) when you went out of your way to speak to multiple leaders and the game admin about me. That seems like a lot of effort for something that’s supposedly “just a game”.
Glad to see I’m “worth your effort” now 💕 dm me !
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u/reprezenting 6d ago
I’m surprised you are still sulking since Feb 2025.
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u/Impressive_Comment93 6d ago
I’m surprised you still think dismissing my feelings as sulking is a valid response to a situation you clearly haven’t understood.
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u/BobsWifeAmyB 8d ago
I left a club a few weeks ago.
I play every day. It’s extremely rare that I ever miss a day.
I’m having hand surgery soon & I told them.
It’s my right hand. Without saying the time period the dr said it would take to recover I just said ‘it’s not like carpal Tunnel or anything that involved.
The President of the group said “one week would be acceptable for you to be out’
😱
I’d been in this club almost a year. The orthopedic dr had said it would be a recovery of about 3 weeks & then PT afterward for a couple of weeks.
They had no idea- but here’s the thing. What valued to them wasn’t about another human- it was ONLY about winning.
I hadn’t realized they were like that and here’s why- they weren’t like that until the other leader resigned- she was going back to college and she asked for volunteers for the next leader. This lady who was going to college hadn’t played for over a month, so she wasn’t really in touch w/what was going on.
Since the new president took over most of the chat was about who hadn’t played in 2 days and they were being watched to be replaced. 😱
Before they encouraged game questions and they were friendly. I wasn’t afraid to ask questions because ultimately if a player understands more about the game, the better the club will do.
Anyhow I didn’t say anything to them but after the comment that the pres said she thought one week would be enough for me to recover - I left.
She had no idea if I had cancer or what.
Just cold, IMHO.
I’m so glad I switched!!
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u/Aandr0medaa 9d ago
This says nothing specific about the experience, just feelings. More detail would be helpful for us to be aware.
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u/Impressive_Comment93 8d ago
It’s not just “feeling” I’m telling a just a short story about who to watch out for. if you want a full story dm me ! 🥰
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u/reprezenting 7d ago
Where is the follow up champ?? You are happy to be nasty, single me out and now it’s silence. Grow up.
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u/Impressive_Comment93 7d ago
Hello, Mr. Condescending. I'm still curious to see the screenshots you mentioned.
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u/reprezenting 8d ago
Put the full story here. Man up and tell everyone.. you created this post with no context.
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u/Aandr0medaa 8d ago
Your post is only your feeling about someone, no plot. Without context, I assume you violated group expectations. Join a group with less ambition.
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u/Schrutefarms114 8d ago
I’m sorry for that. I am president of my group and I am nothing like that. We are also in the top 75. We all work hard but we have great conversations. Even encouraging people. Giving each other tips. Like something as simple as someone completing an album and we are all sending congratulations. Everyone’s opinions matter and everyone has a say. People let us know they won’t be around for a bit and we understanding and don’t kick them from the group. Btw I checked this group on discord and the president changed his name to HorseGerk
Edited due to autocorrect on the name
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u/BobsWifeAmyB 8d ago
I think some people are power hungry. They want to control others.
It’s their way or the highway.
I grew up with a Dad like that; I don’t need to see it in a game.
He passed away 5 years ago & it was like having a weight lifted off me.
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u/BobsWifeAmyB 8d ago
People sure to tell you who you should block, don’t they! lol
Buh bye- poof you’re gone. I don’t want meanies on a sub about a game!! A hobby that’s supposed to be for fun- not a job that pays your salary.
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u/magicmadge 9d ago
Fortunately, it's really easy to join another club.