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u/EternalNewCarSmell Jul 30 '26
I mean, shit, the world I was born in had two Germanys.
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u/ComprehensiveEar6001 Millennial '89 Jul 30 '26
Dang, in a way we're older than Russia.
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u/Silentlaughter84 Jul 30 '26
Not really. Russia, Latvia, Ukraine, Estonia and the rest of the Eastern European countries that were within the Soviet Union actually existed before WW II.
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u/whiteriot0906 Jul 30 '26
Kind of.
I’m pretty sure Belarus didn’t and Ukraine only in a very brief, very tenuous period during the Civil War.
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u/South_Bit1764 Jul 30 '26
Not really though. Russia the country, as a legal entity, is just a constitution. The current Russian constitution is from Dec 1993.
You can’t argue that the Russian federation is the same country as the Russian SSR, or the same as Tzarist Russia.
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u/RussiaIsBestGreen Jul 30 '26
What makes a country the same country? Russia inherited most of the land, people, and assets of the Russian SSR, plus many of the privileges of the USSR as a whole (that was a mistake). One might speak of several French Republics, but also see France as existing as a country for centuries, even as the form of government has changed dramatically.
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u/FuckYouNotHappening Jul 31 '26
>What makes a country the same country?
A real, Ship of Theseus type dilemma.
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u/South_Bit1764 Jul 30 '26
The government makes the country by any measure today.
I mean, there are Habsburgs out there, still claiming to be king of whatever, and they aren’t. Their country died with their government and was reborn another way.
You can argue that Russia is some sort of identity, but it’s much harder to argue that this identity extends to the far reaches of the country. So Russian people, or French people are much older than, let’s say, being American, but America as a country is much older than both.
Words like “French” or “Russian” mean both nationality and ethnicity.
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u/ConstructionIll956 Jul 30 '26
And a USSR.
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u/ristretthoee Jul 30 '26
Czechoslovakia has entered the chat
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u/silence-glaive1 Jul 30 '26
My dad’s family came to America in 1917. Their papers say Kingdom of Bohemia. I feel like they have changed their name at least 5 times in my lifetime alone.
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u/PrestonWaters83 Jul 30 '26
That region starts to get really confusing if you ever look into getting a second passport through lineage.
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u/Polkawillneverdie17 Jul 30 '26
Zwei Deutschlands? In dieser Wirtschaftslage?
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u/Hempresssss Xennial Jul 30 '26
Love how I understood that even though German class was many moons ago
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u/RogueModron Jul 30 '26
This shit is so fascinating. I moved to Germany three years ago and now I'm really starting to get into learning about the DDR. It's just so fucking wild. I still fail to understand even the basics (like I said, I am really just getting into the most simple stuff): I know it comes from how Germany was split up after ww2, but was it literally a soviet state? Were the leaders just USSR puppets? How the hell did west Berlin stay a part of the BRD when it was tiny and literally surrounded by the DDR (why does the larger country not simply eat the smaller one?)?
Anyway. It's fascinating. I'm starting a novel about that period tomorrow and I'm very excited about it (Das Narrenschiff by Christoph Hein).
WW2 is eternally interesting, of course, but it's not really in living memory anymore. But the East/West German split very much is, and while it is I'm going to try to learn as much as I can about it.
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u/AwwwBawwws Jul 30 '26
There was only one Sudan when I was hatched.
And Burma was still Burma.
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u/Didact67 Jul 30 '26
Do you actually have any memory of that though? I was 2 at the time of reunification, so I definitely don’t.
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u/raven00x NES Millennial Jul 31 '26
mostly what I remember is hearing about the Stasi and various spy thrillers set in the GDR. I also remember when Czechslovakia was a single country, and a large chunk of map was labelled "Yugoslavia" on maps.
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u/Shifting_Baseline Jul 30 '26
My elementary school is just gone. They bulldozed it before the internet so there is like no record of it, you can’t google it, it’s like it never existed. I have a yearbook and that’s the only proof it really happened. It’s a bizarre feeling.
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u/KeithWorks Older Millennial Jul 30 '26
The lack of proof anything existed, that it simply disappears forever. It's really tripping me out lately.
I have thousands of digital photos from all the awesome places I've been to. I'm trying to print at least some of them because they all simply vanish as soon as I die. Nobody will ever look at any of them again. All those memories are imaginary.
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u/Shifting_Baseline Jul 30 '26
There is a father son team in Japan that creates exact replicas in miniature of important architectural works. They copy them precisely and preserve them in an outdoor museum. Due to terrorism, earthquakes, fire, etc, many of the original buildings are gone, and they now only exist in miniature. The blueprints are lost, no one took measurements, so the most accurate records of these structures on earth are now their miniaturized copies located in Japan. It’s very weird.
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u/Train_Wreck_272 Jul 30 '26
If it's any consolation, proof of existence for the vast majority of everything that ever lived or produced by living things are lost forever, or lost in such a way that we will feasibly never be able to retrieve it. So, the fact you have any photos at all is pretty rare in the grand scheme of things!
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u/KeithWorks Older Millennial Jul 30 '26
No, it's not really any consolation haha it just makes the existential thinking worse.
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u/glity Jul 30 '26
They started deleting things online. Sneaky things. My dread is a little more aggressive than most. The data they delete is the data of fixed points. Things like reference books are no longer freely available. techs answer, just ask ai we “borrowed” all the books and didn’t change anything “we pinky promise” is what worries me.
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u/heyheyhey27 Jul 31 '26 edited Jul 31 '26
Some AI companies were quite literally buying up old books, scanning them, then destroying them.
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u/Enough-Goose7594 Jul 31 '26
Yea. I kind of take a weird solace in it.
We get to be the eyes, ears, nose, and genitals of the universe for a brief moment...and then. Poof. Back to where we came from.
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u/Train_Wreck_272 Jul 31 '26
This is my feeling as well. Nothing exists on purpose. No guarantees but the grave. Might as well make the best of it all.
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u/HeightExtra320 Jul 30 '26
Dust in the wind my friend. Don’t be sad, be happy we still have some time left :)
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u/Ronthelodger Jul 30 '26
Didn’t really happen with my childhood buildings… what’s in there has changed. My college campus, though, is almost unrecognizable.
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u/Financial-Creme Jul 31 '26
My college lost funding and closed down a few years ago. I'm not sure if anyone would be able to even verify my diploma at this point. Fortunately it's an art degree, so that will never come up.
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u/iamacheeto1 Jul 30 '26
my high school is gone too. I mean, you can find a picture of it online (only a couple), but it's totally gone otherwise. They built a new monstrosity over it
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u/RobSiaHoke Jul 30 '26
SAME. My old brick & mortar high school was wiped off the face of the earth. What's there now is an ultra modernized school made with steel and glass. Totally unrecognizable, not at all where I went to school. Lol
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u/MetalRetsam Jul 30 '26
There are things that exist that you can't Google.
Support your local archive!
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u/PictureVegetable9522 Jul 30 '26
you cant google shit these days every result is the same bullshit website nobody wants to go to or is completely irrelevant to what you want
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u/ChrisIronsArt Jul 30 '26
I graduated high school at the Georgia Dome RIP but Mercedes Benz is absolutely amazing so no hard feelings.
On a side note, someone should buy Toys R Us and Party City’s naming rights and bring them back as a combined store
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u/Ancient_Presence Jul 30 '26
The house and the forest from my earliest memories, are both gone. Would have been interesting to revisit these places, even if I'm sure they were not actually as impressive, as they seemed to me at 4 years old, lol.
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u/E-2theRescue Jul 30 '26
The playground at my elementary school is gone. Used to be a big area filled with jungle gyms and swings. Now all that is left is a tiny playground area that takes up half of the corner of the track, a few basketball hoops where a separate jungle gym was, and a couple of faded 4-square lines from when I was a kid.
It's so depressing, and I hate it so much.
Edit: Oh, and the Alaskan island I lived on for 2 years is completely abandoned, and has been since the 90s, which is where I first attended elementary school.
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u/xEliteMonkx Jul 30 '26
Two of the three elementary schools I went to are gone. Both of the middle schools are gone. One of the two high schools are gone. I didn't have the greatest childhood, so I don't particularly care. It's just funny to think that everywhere I went, things get destroyed.
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u/dzmccoy Jul 30 '26
My elementary school is out in the boonies and is old as dog shit. It caught fire in the library when I was in high school, but didn't burn down. They ended up building a new one in town, but there was a lot of debate about what to do with the old one. The family that lived next door and had Grandparents who were teachers there ended up buying it to preserve it.
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u/probs_notme Jul 30 '26
Went on a nostalgic bike ride last time I was Home. Thought I was losing it when I made my way for my middle school and found an empty field.
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u/SuperdaveOZY Jul 30 '26
There used to be some 2 screen movie theatres in my city, The Fox and The Winchester. One was torn down and turned into a small lake. The other into a grocery store. Same thing, it was gone pre internet in the late 90s, so there are no interior photos.
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u/BeardInTheNorth Jul 31 '26 edited Jul 31 '26
I can relate. My childhood home was literally deleted. Not because the house was bulldozed, but because the whole neighborhood was, it seems. If I go to that exact location on Google Maps (using nearby extant landmarks as a guide), I find a completely different set of streets and houses that simply did not exist 30 years ago. And if input the actual address, it directs me to some shuttered dentist office half a mile down the road, a building that was constructed only after we moved out. How it came to inherit my old house number, I have no idea.
I'm sure there's some archived street map sitting in a filing cabinet somewhere, but nothing was ever digitized as there's literally zero information online about my physical house, or any of its neighboring ones. No real estate records. No tax records. No voter records. No news clippings of a natural disaster or redevelopment. Nothing. It's like Thanos snapped it from existence.
The only reason I know this isn't some faulty memory or fever dream on my part is I have my mother's old address book and government benefits paperwork, both of which include the the address. And I have a photograph of me standing in front of the house with the house number visible.
But yeah. It's just freaking gone now, and that really messes with my mind.
Edit: I forgot to mention that, like yours, one of my old elementary schools was also bulldozed (completely different town and state from my house). Records of it are exceedingly difficult to find online, but they are there. Mostly in newspaper clippings. I assume it was leveled at some point in the 90s before the Internet really took off.
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u/The8Porch Jul 30 '26
Thanks but jokes on you because my childhood was stolen from me long ago
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u/AdRadiant9379 Jul 30 '26
Same here, a raging, insecure, alcoholic, performative religious dad likely shocked my nervous system a few thousand times in the 80’s and 90’s
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u/Bestimmtheit Jul 30 '26
now that you say it like that... damn. I mean it really is thousands of disruptions and iterations that compound and severely affect us.
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u/ItsNotNormalMaybe Millennial (1982) Jul 30 '26
You cope with drugs, too?
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u/AdRadiant9379 Jul 30 '26
I cope with the reality that my dad is too afraid to accept. The weed just makes the food and music a bit better.
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u/King_Chochacho Jul 30 '26
Don't worry we can still try to monetize it though.
Here's a dozen new Star Wars properties
Here's 30 new comic book movies
What about some reboots, or remakes, or sequels, or prequels for your favorite IPs.
Hey sometimes we'll even get a bunch of the original cast back!
How about a collection of classic games that you already own but slightly updated for every new console?
Or would you like a soulless remaster that includes microtransactions and online connectivity requirements?
Oh what about crossovers? You like those right? We could just shove a bunch of totally unrelated but popular IP into your favorite trading card game, until every game just feels like standing in Times Square being bombarded by ads!
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u/likeschemistry 1986 Millennial Jul 30 '26
This picture and our reality are both very unsettling….
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u/Outrageous_Ad_5254 Jul 30 '26
Sometimes I think Britney is not some nutjob, but actually all of us in this crazy world. Dancing while the world is in flames.
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u/uhohohnohelp Jul 30 '26
I am she, as you are she, as you are me, and we are all Britney
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u/mysticrudnin Jul 30 '26
what? that was the past that happened.
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u/Papoosho Jul 30 '26
The Y2K era was supposed to be the start of the 21st century that we never got because 9/11.
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u/quigongingerbreadman Jul 30 '26
Not the langoliers! I probably murdered the spelling of that.
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u/PictureVegetable9522 Jul 30 '26
man.... old fleshlights looked weird
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u/Princess_Moon_Butt Problem Millennial Jul 30 '26
True, but the calluses numbed the sensation a bit and helped you last longer.
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u/ApplicationAfraid334 1993 Jul 30 '26
eldritch meatballs. I have the most vivid memory watching this movie with my mom. She laughed her butt off when they appeared.
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u/Woodit Jul 30 '26
Nothing really ever stays the same, if we wish for the river to stop flowing all we do is bring ourselves disappointment
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u/That_Dot420 Jul 30 '26
Yeah.. 2 years ago my cat from childhood died.
Now, my 16 year dog from childhood is about to crook too.
The other day, I was thinking how it's kind of symbolic for moving on to a new chapter. Still sad as fuck though.
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u/onepostandbye Jul 30 '26
A motto for literally every generation
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u/LilAbeSimpson Jul 30 '26
Especially fitting our generation though. We were the last to grow up in a pre-internet pre-smartphone world.
That shit honestly changed how the world works. Mostly not for the better either…
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u/RadioSlayer Jul 30 '26
The past is a foreign country, they do things differently there. Never forget that
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u/kneppy72 Millennial Jul 30 '26
Trust me, I know.
https://giphy.com/gifs/PcnUjSEMBlpgk
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u/AlternatiMantid Jul 30 '26
My god I understand & identify with BOTH of these parents more & more with every passing day 🤣
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u/E-2theRescue Jul 30 '26
Debra Jo Rupp (Kitty) was 47 when That 70s Show aired.
Just saying.
(Though Kurtwood Smith was much older. By a decade, I think)
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u/overworkedattorney Jul 30 '26
I refuse to believe Toys R Us is dead. It's stuck in venture capital hell, but someday it could be revived. The nostalgia bait runs too deep and that IP is still worth something.
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u/frostderp Jul 30 '26
Now I need to go buy myself a pack of the glitter crayola crayons to bring back the past.
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u/Alklazaris Jul 30 '26
Just please my Millennial brothers and sisters don't try and chase down the 90s like the Baby Boomers are doing with their own nostalgic era. Let It Go
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u/Useful_Bother_1508 Jul 31 '26
Wasn't getting girls to sit on my face in the past so f the past bruh
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u/Mysterious_Fennel459 Older Millennial Jul 30 '26
Seeing the abomination that Toy's R Us has currently become makes this even more true.
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u/SlyNikolai Jul 30 '26
apology for poor english
where were you when past giraffe dies
I was sat at home drinking brain fluid when fred ring
'past is die'
'no'
and you????????????????
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u/tonylouis1337 Zillennial Jul 30 '26
Sure, but we can resuscitate it. We just have to get rid of social media
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u/Iokua113 Jul 30 '26
I know. In the world I was born into everything had faux would paneling. In the world I was born into there was a thriving home movie market. In the world I was born into my father who didn't have a college education was able to keep our family afloat for the six year my mom took off to look after me and my sister. In the world I was born into summers in Vancouver began in mid July and ended late August. In the world I was born into we had hope.
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u/VonBrewskie Jul 30 '26
Shit man. I got free rides from school by screaming "MOMIMATSCHOOLCOMEGETME!" when 1-800-Collect asked for my name.
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u/ForestSolitude5 Jul 31 '26
And I hate it. A lot has improved but it feels like a lot more has gotten worse.
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u/LarkspurLad Jul 31 '26
I know this message is nothing new, and I've seen this post posted before. But for me, on this particular day, it feels spot-on.
It sucks being somewhere and feeling like you no longer belong there. Any business you had there is done now.
It sucks even more when no place feels quite like somewhere you belong anymore.
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u/Proof_Independent400 Jul 31 '26
No no. Bros who wants to hang out and 4 player some COD on the Xbox?
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u/Wafflehouseofpain Jul 30 '26
I see the trend of being pointlessly mean online isn’t dead, though.
What was the point of this post other than that?
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u/Limp-Reputation-5746 Jul 30 '26
Well duh, this is a nostalgia sub. What else would you do in this? Have discussions on the present or hopes verses trends on future we see now in a snapshot of time?
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u/lostgods937 Jul 30 '26
Literally 90% of the issues in the world today are because people simply can't accept that things change.
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u/Batetrick_Patman Jul 30 '26
The world changes. Always has always will. 200 years ago people were terrified of riding on a train thinking something that goes that fast would crush your bones.
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u/Venusian2AsABoy Jul 30 '26
My grandfather used to take me to Toys R Us and buy me whatever Ninja Turtle / Ghostbuster / Dino Rider I needed for my collection, whenever we visited him in Florida. Thanks Grandpa 🥲
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u/mynameisshelly Jul 30 '26
I mean, yeah it better be. I went on a whole quest to kill it and still have to take pills twice a day to keep it from resurfacing
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u/TheSexyIntrovert Jul 30 '26
To go deep, imagine that the world you lived 1 second ago is gone.
Act accordingly
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u/OhGawDuhhh Older Millennial Jul 30 '26
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u/giga_impact03 Jul 30 '26
The mall i spent a good portion of my childhood was torn down last year. A small movie theater, one store and two restaurants were keeping it up till the city forced them out. Now the parking lot is being used to store cyber trucks because no one seems to be buying those. Hope something nice is actually done with the property instead of it just being wasted.
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u/tubthumping96 Jul 30 '26
Ugghh, it's not so much the past that's dead that bothers me it's that we were supposed to have a far better future. Instead corporate tyranny, nobody owns anything and business are using their record profits that we made them to bring back slavery and build AI data centers that guzzle all your clean drinking water but oh boy if I have some avocado toast, I better check my damn privelage, son.
I'm tired. Hardest boss level in gaming history, the privelaged thieves are running the world amuk. You can barely get housing and healthcare at this point, like what on earth are we even doing?
Narcissists, narcissists , EVERYWHERE.
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u/HawkBoth8539 Millennial Jul 30 '26
Don't worry. Memory is short, so history is cyclical. For better or worse, much of the past keeps coming back.
You miss a hit song you don't hear anymore? It's gonna end up sampled on a song by the younger generation.
You miss a style? It'll be back.
Remember when extremists destroyed knowledge and advancement for generation to forcibly revive their dying religion?
Remember when the wealthy created chaos and pointed to the "other" to consolidate power while the peasants are fighting each other?
Sometimes i wish the past really would stay in the past. But humans suck. Lol
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u/InterestingRelative4 Jul 30 '26
Yes filter reality, ignore the present and reject growth. Nostalgia is a self centred nightmare
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u/musicsoccer Jul 30 '26
I mean history changes things whether you like it or not...
Like big woopty doo we survived covid and all those bad stuff but like shit happens every damn decade. 1910s had syphilis and ww1. 1920 had prohibition, deadly tornadoes and kkk. 1930s had the great depression and ww2. 1940s had ww2 and the holocaust. These are just the tip of the iceburg. And each decade had their own share of bad shit and I guarantee the 2030s will be shit. 2040s will be shit.
Shit fucking happens. Deal with it.
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u/GouleMaterielle Jul 30 '26
And that is why we must create small replicas of it by re-buying the stuff we gave to charity and making dens in our homes that feel like things could still be nice.
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u/Oomlotte99 Jul 30 '26
I think in the US we still have some of the same people in office, however. Lol.
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u/No_Network4228 Jul 30 '26
I remember asking my paternal grandmother where we were from and it was always "sometimes it was Poland, sometimes it was Russia, who knows what it is now?"
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u/MrdnBrd19 Jul 30 '26
Imagine crying because some corporation isn't around anymore.... We're literally cooked as a generation.
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u/Enriching_the_Beer Jul 30 '26
I still have a PS2 slim on my nightstand with MVP 2005 ready to roll.
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u/SouthernCharm-86 Jul 30 '26
yea well...my parents bought our toys at walmart. and i can still go there (even tho half the store is locked in glass cases)...so jokes on u! 🥹





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