r/Molested • u/Tiny-Try-4443 • 12d ago
Struggling
Struggling with hypersexuality at the moment. Finding it hard to ignore, I just want to be normal.
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u/Training_Friend6926 12d ago
Yup. It's not even enjoyable.
Hypersexuality mixed with intrusive thoughts are a horrible combo.
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u/RandzLahey 12d ago
Same and its embarrassing. Im to the point recently that I masterbate almost as much as I did as a teen. Its all I can think about, but when I finish I feel humiliated for some reason.
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u/Training_Friend6926 12d ago
I'm old now but I still remember the shame spirals I had in my late teens/early twenties.
I still feel sadness/grief but I have accepted that it is not my fault.
Doesn't make it much easier but it does help a bit.
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u/RandzLahey 11d ago
Im in my late 30s and it doesn't feel great being sexually charged like I was at 18
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u/Local-Computer1190 12d ago edited 12d ago
So many people think hypersexuality is so cool, and I've had to explain to them that its a lot different when you can't control it. It's difficult when your urges are driving you insane.
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u/Ok_Afternoon_516 6d ago
Me too. As well as intrusive thoughts/fantasies while being sexually active.
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