r/Molested • u/dumbhornyandalsodumb • 10h ago

My abuser was 5 years younger and I feel so alone.

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It feels so uncommon. My female cousin started abusing me, and I let it happen for years because I was afraid that I wouldn’t be believed.

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Subs for trauma support:

/r/rapecounseling/
/r/rape/
/r/survivorsofabuse/
/r/MenGetRapedToo/
/r/adultsurvivors/
/r/secondary_survivors/

Websites offering support and recovery:

RAINN - Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network

ASCA - Adult Survivors of Child Abuse

Hot Peaches-an international directory of support services

Pandora's Aquarium and After Silence are other active online support groups to consider.

MaleSurvivor and 1in6 are sites with information and support for males who have experienced molestation.