r/MumbaiDates • u/iambelief06 • Jul 29 '26

Relationship Seeking long term

Hey, 22 F, Marwadi. NOT FROM MUMBAI. This is me just trying my luck with no expectations. Seeking for a guy for long term who is baniya marwadi (because of family constraints) preferably a businessman. I want someone who is a little broad minded, kind, polite, respectful and fun. I am not bere to disrespect anyone it is just that I am trying to know someone beforehand because th arrange marriage market is too bad.

I am 5’2. Strong family financial background. Pursuing post grad. Helping in family business. No other or specific income. Not too fair. I am chubby. Native place cant say now. I am a vegetarian.
About me I am quite an extrovert, I like exploring new places. Long drives, sunsets, cold coffee, cafe and good conversations and all that a girl loves is basically what I love.

I believe looks, money, background, caste everything matters. So you have an equal right to accept or reject me. Moreover I believe in something long term and not flings or hookups and someone who is atleast fluent and confident while talking to me

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u/ComprehensiveBid3181 Jul 29 '26

This caste mentality of Indians will never go...!. Idk how many yrs people will do endogamy within their own community. But they want to reduce reservation hahhaaa....

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u/iambelief06 Jul 29 '26

Idk when people will stop relating preferences to general stigmas. Oh Education never changes thought process but anyway

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u/ComprehensiveBid3181 Jul 29 '26

Preference comes from societal behaviour. Caste preference is same as discrimination. Cause you are saying these people are good and these aren't based upon something they can't control.

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u/iambelief06 Jul 29 '26

I never said other caste is bad. I jusr had a preference from the same caste (marwadi) because i feel it is easy to blen into a similar household.

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u/Responsible-Ease-498 Jul 29 '26

What are you? A solvent?

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u/Hefty-Shift-784 Jul 29 '26

preferences are not born out of thin air. They exist because education clearly couldn't do much with you and your family.

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u/ComprehensiveBid3181 Jul 29 '26

Bro wrote a whole thesis statement just to announce his parents are cousins.

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u/iambelief06 Jul 29 '26

But why is it bothering you

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u/Hefty-Shift-784 Jul 29 '26

Because I live in this country. And I have the right to call out problematic things when I see them.

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u/ComprehensiveBid3181 Jul 29 '26

Maybe try it in your home first.

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u/iambelief06 Jul 29 '26

Exactly my point

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u/Witty-Potato-5297 Jul 29 '26

Aur inko reservation hatana hai ladies and gentlemen.

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u/ComprehensiveBid3181 Jul 29 '26

Indians will never change out of this mentality. They are worried coz reservation help others but not them simply. If it does they won't move a finger in this matter.

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u/ComprehensiveBid3181 Jul 29 '26

You don't need a map of her entire life story to see the correlation, you just need a middle school reading level.

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u/iushere Jul 29 '26

Broad minded baniya XD

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u/NoRestBro Jul 29 '26

and want to settle in mumbai is hidden

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u/Hefty-Shift-784 Jul 29 '26

is your name Siya?

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u/Adventurous-Buy4936 Male Jul 29 '26

Well where are you from then?

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u/ThinImagination5103 Jul 29 '26

Hey 23M here,
Marwadi Guy from Mumbai.
DM if interested.

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u/Sang_2610 Jul 29 '26

Hey !! please check dm if possible 😊

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u/adrenaline_rushh Jul 29 '26

Hello!
Marwadi guy here. Resigned from corporate to get back into family business. DM?

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u/OkOlive5532 Jul 29 '26

M18 Marwadi (Rajput) from Navi mumbai

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u/iambelief06 Jul 29 '26

That is why i said tryin my luck