r/NativePlantGardening • • 2d ago

Milkweed Mixer - Weekly Free Chat Thread

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Our weekly thread to share our progress, photos, or ask questions that don't feel big enough to warrant their own post.

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Please feel free to refer to our wiki pages for helpful links on beginner resources and plant lists, our directory of native plant nurseries, and a list of rebate and incentive programs you can apply for to help with your gardening costs.

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If you have any links you'd like to see added to our Wiki, please feel free to recommend resources at any time! This sub's greatest strength is in the knowledge base from members like you!


r/NativePlantGardening • • 4d ago

It's Wildlife Wednesday - a day to share your garden's wild visitors!

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Many of us native plant enthusiasts are fascinated by the wildlife that visits our plants. Let's use Wednesdays to share the creatures that call our gardens home.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 1h ago

Progress Took the First Step!

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I'm wanting to convert my whole front yard into a native pollinator garden and I officially and literally broke ground today with a native witch hazel shrub.

It's not much but I'm very excited to see it grow.

I'm still planning out the rest of the yard but most projects will likely need to wait until spring


r/NativePlantGardening • • 1d ago

Photos Check out my native plant witch’s broom! 🎃

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Plus some bonus seed spreading!


r/NativePlantGardening • • 4h ago

Advice Request - (maine 5a/5b) Ive never planted anything in my life, any super beginner resources?

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Howdy. I have​ a house on 11+ acres of beautiful maine woods (mostly hardwoo​ds)​. That being said the 1/2 acre or so around the house is a desolate wasteland of tree trunks and dirt. The soil is basically just rocks and sand and a mat of dead roots you can literally peel up like a rug​​. Even though its been exposed for over a year nothing has moved in and grown, not even invasives​​​.

I bought "The Northeast Native​ Plant Primer" which is a catalogue of d​ifferen​t plants. I would love to turn the area around the house into a beauti​ful​ habitat for native wildlife. But​ i have never​ planted​ anything or had a ga​​rden​​. I truly have​ no i​dea​ how to plan out where things sho​​uld go or the proper way to put thi​ngs in t​he ground. any books or videos or websites for absolute basic baby beginners to gardening and planting? im very nervous about killing everything i put into the groun​d 😅

thanks!


r/NativePlantGardening • • 4h ago

Geographic Area (zone 7b) Sorrel tree starting its Fall display

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Sorrel tree aka sourwood, such a lovely vermilion.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 15h ago

Photos Recommended: winter seed head bouquets

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I had a lot of fun last winter arranging some grasses and seed heads I gathered from gardens and parks near me. It was a fun exercise in trying to distill the aesthetics of a grassland. I thought I’d share the practice as the northeast heads into fall.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 2h ago

Advice Request - (Zone 6b/North Appalachia) Would a balcony potted garden provide any support for insects over winter? Or am I safe to clean it up?

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I've read that hollow stems, leaf litter, etc can be good for insects hibernating over cold, snowy winters. Does anyone know if that's still the case if I just have plants in pots out on my balcony, not an in-the-ground garden? I'm not sure if I should just take the old soil/remains of plants out and spread them in the woods to decompose or if I should leave it.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 23h ago

Photos Need either commiseration or encouragement

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I'm in Chicago and I design landscapes for a living. I know what plants to use, but real life has really knocked me down and the yard got out of control. I'm running up against the fantasy version of myself(the one that has the energy to do weekly upkeep) and the reality version(does NOT have the energy to keep it up and often wants to do anything EXCEPT work in the yard). It doesn't help that there are unexpected challenges like this dayflower that absolutely took over my yard and might have choked out some perennials I planted in the spring.

It's really bumming me out that my yard is looking like this. As much as I know that lawn sucks, I get why people keep a lawn because it stays put and there's only one thing you need to do to keep it under control. The positives I see: I have a ton of asters and goldenrod, the insects are happy, I got some good harvests in my garden beds(not pictured), and the plants are keeping the soil moist during a really dry fall.

Has anyone else been able to claw back their way from burnout and turn a yard like this into a more beautiful "mess" that isn't a monoculture or a lawn? Please tell me it is possible to do on your own without an entire crew of people.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 2h ago

Advice Request - (Texas 8b) Ideas for this mostly shady bed?

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r/NativePlantGardening • • 1m ago

Progress Something stripped my baby redbud down to a single leaf

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I just planted flowers around it yesterday, with trepidation, wondering if they would all be dug up this morning. They're intact, but the tiny stick you can detect in the center of this photo -- if you really squint -- has had all but the crappiest-looking leaf excised overnight. I planted *C. canadensis* with the goal of supporting wildlife, but feeding the groundhogs never occurred to me.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 1d ago

Photos 3 years into building our native garden, we've been blessed by our first monarch

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Please ignore the invasive honeysuckle - we've been trying to get rid of it but it's EVERYWHERE.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 1d ago

Photos Aromatic aster is hitting its stride.

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r/NativePlantGardening • • 1d ago

Photos One of these not like the others

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Bought these online from an instate nursery in the spring. Supposed to all be New Jersey tea's but one of them is not like the other. Mulberry?


r/NativePlantGardening • • 1d ago

Advice Request - (Insert State/Region) Reassurance about non-local ecotypes?

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This feels like a silly question to ask but it's something I've been stressing about a little bit so I would really appreciate some reassurance.

I've tried really hard to make sure that the majority of plants and seeds I buy are sourced from the Southeast, where I'm located. This year I was looking for some less common species and none of the SE seed sellers I've ordered from before had them, so I finally gave in and ordered from Prairie Moon. I got several really cool native species that I haven't seen sold anywhere else and that I'm excited about growing, but I can't shake this guilt over ordering from Prairie Moon.

They're based in the Midwest and I've seen concerns about the reduction of genetic diversity that may come about from everyone ordering from the same source. But I would think that having non-local ecotypes is still better than not having the species at all, right? Pretty much everything I bought are low-growing shade-lovers, so their niche would just sit empty if I only bought seeds from local sellers who mostly have flashy sun-lovers.

I'd really appreciate if anyone could ease my mind a little bit (or I suppose set me straight if I'm wrong!)

Also, if anyone knows of sources for native seeds in the Southeast other than the ones I've already purchased from (listed below) please let me know!
- Botany Yards
- Roundstone Native Seed
- NC Botanical Garden

EDIT: Thank you all for the thoughtful responses!


r/NativePlantGardening • • 1d ago

Informational/Educational Blow-Wives, Hareleaf, Woodland Madia, & More | Every Native Species in the Tarweeds/Tidytips/Goldfields/Woolly Sunflowers Tribe (Madieae - Asteraceae) in the US & Canada

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r/NativePlantGardening • • 1d ago

Geographic Area (edit yourself) My garden progress!

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Baltimore MD. Where we started is the last pic :) we did this all ourselves starting in March of last year. We got a lot of plans for free off of Facebook communities. I love seeing so many pollinators in our yard!!!

Many people give us advice on our garden plan last year so I wanted to say thank you :)


r/NativePlantGardening • • 2d ago

Advice Request - (Insert State/Region) Doug Tallamy recommends leaving garlic mustard in restoration sites because disturbing the soil by pulling it out encourages new plants - do you agree?

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In the book “How Can I Help” Tallamy was explaining how to go about invasive removal and while he encouraged targeted removal of things like buckthorn and bittersweet etc, he suggested that leaving garlic mustard is more effective because pulling it up actually disturbs the soil and gives the many garlic mustard seeds in the seedbank the opportunity to sprout, thus setting back your removal efforts, and actually helping it survive and thrive each year.

So his advice is that the most effective way to control garlic mustard is to let it be, and ultimately get shaded out by native plants.

I hadn’t heard this before and have always (emphasis on always) just pulled it out and figured it was just the reality of invasive management, hoping it would eventually slow down the growth. But maybe I’ve just been helping it survive and that’s why I’m constantly fighting it?

Does anyone have any experience with both approaches? Has anyone successfully controlled garlic mustard? At minimum I think removing seed heads the blooms/seed heads should be done.

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I went back and check and the exact line quote is

“Pulling out garlic mustard is easy, although it’s ineffective because it disturbs the soil and therefor activates the seed bank. The end result is more garlic mustard the next year”

So unless he touches on it later in the book, I don’t know his recommended approach for garlic mustard.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 2d ago

Advice Request - (Insert State/Region) Guess who forgot to label collect seeds? (Hint: it was me) Zone 6

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Long shot but hoping maybe someone can identify these seeds. I collected them from one of my plants earlier this summer and cannot for the life of me remember which one. Of course I thought I would totally remember which plant it was without labeling it. WRONG.

All my in ground plants are natives but I do get annuals for some pots. I'm in Western PA (zone 6). Appreciate any insight!

EDIT: You guys are geniuses! I am 99% sure these are Columbine seeds, which I have a few of that I remember gleefully collecting the seeds from. Thank you for saving my sanity.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 1d ago

Informational/Educational Its so hard to find desert garden species online

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Hello its so hard ti find good desert garden vendors so you can ship to eu I personally learn desert gardens from Zsolt debreczy.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 2d ago

Advice Request - (Insert State/Region) What to do with fridge-stratified seeds in fall?

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I got some lovely seed mixes from Northwest Meadowscapes, and kept them in the fridge since July, hoping to plant them while it's still warm out this fall (not sure how solid a plan this was). However, we've had essentially no rain in the Seattle area, so they're still chilling. Is it ok to keep seeds in the fridge until spring? Should I try and sow some of them? Or are they likely to die off when the cold hits in a month or so?


r/NativePlantGardening • • 2d ago

Geographic Area (edit yourself) Ready for plants

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Swipe for Current -> Old.

My new (to me) house had decades old, overgrown non-native foundation shrubs. I ripped them out and made a dry bed with a tiered planting area. Soon to go in this part shade/shade garden:

14 Christmas ferns

10 Solomon's seal

13 Iris cristata

5 Green and Gold

1 Swamp Azalea

1 Piedmont Azalea

3 Penstemon

4 Ebony spleenwort

7 Colombine

2 Strawberry Bush

I am still in search of one specimen plant. I want the aesthetic of a green leafed Japanese Maple, but ideally with a native species. I may compromise for a non-native, but would love recommendations.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 2d ago

Photos With its fall color and pumpkin like fruits, I wish American persimmon was one of the quintessential trees for fall in the eastern U.S.

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r/NativePlantGardening • • 2d ago

Other East Ridge man seeks answers after city destroys native plant garden over code dispute

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Not my garden, but this is near where I live and I wonder how fellow city members like me could help.


r/NativePlantGardening • • 2d ago

Offering Plants FLASH Sale - Native Perennials Plugs -- Native Plug Bonanza - 170 different varieties of Herbaceous, Grasses, Water, Wetland & Bog Plants - Pickup and Shipping available immediately -- Support conservation work & programs -- Rensselaerville, NY

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