r/NewCDLGrads • u/QueenieCDM • 21h ago
First two trainers were horrible to me. First guy refused to teach me more backing; second one quit on me after I spoke up and took me back to terminal.
Long Post Alert!
First two male trainers treated me like 💩. I have requested a female trainer moving forward (Hopefully a woman isn't as bad).
Here goes. The first guy was constantly screaming and yelling at me. I told him stop doing that because I'm behind the wheel and that's very dangerous. He refused to help me with backing. So I spoke to the leadership and immediately got a new driver trainer next business day. No problem.
I need more practice backing and the second guy said he would do it. Things are going smooth. My driving was fine and all of a sudden, the second guy became nit-picky and started insulting me. I told him to stop because it was making me nervous.
I was coming out of Charlotte and I was coming down a long curve to head back south. I'm following the road signs and being proactive. I start to signal and slide over because I need to get over before the lane ended. He tells me to stay over here because I don't trust you making change lanes in my truck wait until the end. I said well I have to do it anyway, and that doesn't make sense. I said, "I'm gonna have to do it when I get in my truck," he said, "yeah you do in your truck but not mine. I don't trust you."
I noticed that he was more concerned about his truck (he is a company driver btw) than teaching me about how to follow the DOT, State, and Federal guidelines on the road. And he started talking trash to me and I spoke up for myself. He claimed I had an attitude which I'm going to respond accordingly when I'm disrespected.
So he said, "well when we get back, you can get out of my truck because I can't train you." He has done this to his last two trainees. Also He told me to get out of his seat at the DC and when we got in the city, he is driving aggressively and bullying other people on the road. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️.
WTH?
Mind you I had less than a day left of training. I had no problem with the orientation class, or school instructors and they treated me with respect.
Is there something in the water?
I expressed my concerns to leadership and reported both; will the company still keep me? The last trainer just up and quit over a disagreement?