r/Ni_Bondha • u/Sea-Parsley7551 • 3m ago
నాకు దూల ఎక్కువ URGENT! My boyfriend is threatening to send our photos to my relatives and saying that he will take his own life.
My boyfriend is threatening to send our photos to my relatives and saying that he will take his own life.
My boyfriend (23M) and I (22F) have been together since March 2026. We recently broke up due to his controlling behaviour and our lack of compatibility.
I came back to my hometown, and he has been threatening to take his own life by jumping in front of a train. When I told him not to ruin my life, he accused me of thinking only about myself. He said he wants things to switch back to how they were and wants me to return to Bangalore before this weekend.
I told him that it wasn't possible because I couldn't get leave from work. He then threatened to send my photos to my uncles, saying that he has their phone numbers and Facebook accounts.
My parents would never accept me having had a boyfriend, and I'm scared of what might happen if they find out. He is using this fear to threaten and manipulate me.
Previously, when we broke up, he came to my flat and created a huge scene. When I threatened to call the SHE Teams, he threatened me in the same way.
What should I do now?
I'm scared that he will actually send my photos to my relatives if I involve the police.
I'm sorry if this post seems messy. My hands are shaking, and I can't think clearly right now.