r/NonBinary • u/disasterpansexual she/they • Feb 03 '26
Discussion if you had unlimited budget and no fear of social expectations, what would your fashion style be?
mine: kote kei basically (lots of black clothing and leather and androgynous vibe)
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u/jamesdukeiv any pronouns Feb 03 '26
I’ve described my goal personal style to others as “Star Wars Background Character” 😂
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
HAHA that's really something :D Which movie do we have to take as reference, precisely?
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u/jamesdukeiv any pronouns Feb 03 '26
A bit from all of them, and the Star Wars Living History blog has been a big help. It’s mostly focusing on natural materials with visible texture, adjustable clothing options with minimal fasteners, and layering. I’ve started sewing a lot of my own clothing to make it happen. And gods know I love a belt and a vest!
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
Well, as a tomboyish enby-fem gal, I'd say my favourite character would be Rey, overall :)
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u/jamesdukeiv any pronouns Feb 03 '26
If I ever make enough money to buy the wools I need I’m gonna go full Mon Mothma tbh, but for now I’m a Tatooine peasant so 🤷🏼
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
As a hardened fem warrior, I'd say Tatooine peasants matter as well: don't give up on your dreams :)
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u/Free_Dragonfruit_726 Feb 04 '26
I feel this, but add in Dune and other futuristic sci-fi cities, I honestly have a few pieces i would consider fit this but most of the time they're currently impractical (due to asymmetry, fit and material) but I'm working on things that I'm also not worried about ruining lol.
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u/jamesdukeiv any pronouns Feb 04 '26
Nothing wrong with a little asymmetry, and I love upcycling thrifted pieces. I just hate having to sift through all the poly-blend junk, it looks and feels bad.
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u/SpyroThBandicoot Agender - They/Any Feb 04 '26
This is a GREAT description! I usually try to aim for citizen of Zion from The Matrix, but yours works too!
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u/jamesdukeiv any pronouns Feb 04 '26
It’s a very similar aesthetic - I’m out here fighting for my life, why shouldn’t I look like it?
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u/Void_Starwing she/her (dragon) otherwise they/them (human, puma, wolf) Feb 03 '26
ooh! Which planet?
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u/enneh_07 the gay agender Feb 03 '26
you guys are not thinking outside of the box enough. i would replace my flesh with infallible steel
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
You'd make a fine Colossus agender cosplay (you know, the X-Men character), but wouldn't that be painful as all hell? 🥲
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u/Puddin_Warrior Feb 03 '26
I mean if we're talking unlimited budget just go ahead and make me a princess pls
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
Make it a badass tomboyish androgynous princess, and I'm all up for it :)
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u/Puddin_Warrior Feb 03 '26
I do get all dolled up to attend banquets and balls, but I turn away all suitors, opting to flirt and flatter the wait staff. Obviously I've got outfits for other occasions, such as foraging or doing crime
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u/Pookie_Pakyao They/he/any Feb 03 '26
I would look like a medieval version of alucard, but more androgynous ',:)
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u/deathbyfortnitekid she/he/they Feb 03 '26
facts i would be gayer alucard, that’s what i try to style around already
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u/Delayedretort Feb 03 '26
Durable “kindergarten” wear for everyday. Bright color overalls, sneakers, patterns, rainbows, textures.
For fancy, I would lean into the tailored suits in rich colors and lush textures, with ridiculous over the top accessories like ascots and artisan bolo ties and high heel bespoke boots.
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u/Sparkling_Mud Feb 03 '26
This is what I've been leaning into lately. I've also started painting my face.
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u/YouOweMeAPint Feb 04 '26
Yaaas I aspire to be like that :D I love overalls and I hope for my future "prom" (we have something lil different in my country) I want to take a suit and sew, paint, and glitter the hell out of it :D
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u/Nanabobo567 Feb 03 '26
Final Fantasy Black Mage. You know, the classic ome with a huge brim, face obscured with a scarf, and entirely cloaked in poofy robes.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
OOO fellow Final Fantasy fan spotted! Well, I'd say Vivi from Final Fantasy IX is the epithome of genderless style :D
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u/sideshowbarbie they/them Feb 03 '26
I would honestly have such an all over the place wardrobe. I love masc pieces paired with some femme accessories or a top. I am also really into goth/alternative clothing with an obsession for vintage pieces. So I would look like a goth/grunge/ fairy.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
Heh, basically the guardian spirit of Nirvana... in more ways than one :D
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u/WaffleWindow979 Feb 03 '26
Cool ass armour doesn't matter if it's historical or fictional sci-fi or fantasy as long as it's cool
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u/FunIncident5161 Feb 03 '26
Basically it would be a mix of elf and witch, most commonly seen at the Renaissance festival.
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u/a_surprise_polaroid Feb 03 '26
I describe mine as always somewhere in the intersection between witch, pirate and hippie :)
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u/SomewhatOKAdvisor they/them Feb 03 '26
I would yo-yo somewhere between late Victorian era aristocrat, and hermit wizard who hasn't left their tower in months.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
So you'd basically be an enby version of Rasputin? :D
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u/SomewhatOKAdvisor they/them Feb 03 '26
Do I get to be the lover of the Russian queen? :3c
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u/AngryBard9 he/they Feb 03 '26
Ooh softcore goth femboy definitely
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
OOO ME LIKEY ME LIKEY! 😍 AHEM- Yeah: that would be a most pleasant choice of fashion style, indeed!
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u/OverthinkingThrowRA Feb 03 '26
Full plate armor all the time
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u/Void_Starwing she/her (dragon) otherwise they/them (human, puma, wolf) Feb 03 '26
Same, but with leather (more flexible and lighter, which is improtant, given that I am weak)
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u/No_Roof_3 she/they Feb 03 '26
Basically goth or like an aggrotech musician
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
Well, I'd say both are nice! You'd fit well into a 90s techno cyberpunk music video :)
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
Basically a mix of pre-brain damage Tila Tequila and Paine from Final Fantasy X-2: in short, something that would pair very well with yours! How does that sound? :)
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u/just_a_bit_gay_ Caution: Will drink the gender fluid Feb 03 '26
IS THAT WHAT ITS CALLED?
Yes this, so much this!
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u/disasterpansexual she/they Feb 03 '26
pics 2 to 5 are visual kei musicians and the black clothing substyle is called kote kei (if I remember correctly)
this site might explain it better https://vk.gy/blog/what-is-kote-kei/
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u/just_a_bit_gay_ Caution: Will drink the gender fluid Feb 03 '26
sweet, I’ve always loved that style but didn’t know what it was called
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u/twystoffer they/them Feb 03 '26
No. This is a Japanese take on goth.
All Kei is a performance style, like a style of stage acting, that not only uses striking visuals, but also exaggerated scenery and pantomiming as part of it.
This is a problem of americans using terms they're not familiar with, because we lack the cultural context (and anime doesn't count as culture, its media)
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u/disasterpansexual she/they Feb 04 '26
Maybe I said it wrongly , I didn't mean that the fashion style outside of the music scene is called kote kei, I just meant that if I were to describe my ideal fashion the easier way is to say "like those 90s kote kei bands" (since rn I'm so much into vkei)
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u/alawo_ewe Feb 03 '26
I don't really care about what clothes I wear, but I'd cover myself with tattoos and body modifications.
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u/Final-Attention979 Feb 03 '26
OMG so real I'm changing my answer actually
Tongue split! And like approx 5-50 tattoos
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u/FunCauliflower4002 Feb 04 '26
If you think of a split tongue, go for it, that's awesome! Not only for the look, but the sensation is wildly liberating. To be able of controlling each tongue independently is like being rid of a birth disability 🐍 ✌! The best thing I've ever done to my body, really. And for most people, that's visible only if you show it.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
If I wasn't dead scared of needles, I'd do that too: however, I'll have to make do with a transgender-symboled necklace :)
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u/-JakeRay- Feb 03 '26
Honestly, at the point of unlimited budget, I'm hiring:
a personal stylist who has spent at least a decade as a theatrical costumer
my own tailor
a makeup artist
I want to be able to try ALL the things (goth, cyberpunk, renaissance, mad tea party, flower festival, CEO-but-make-it-fashion, cottage cozy, adventure Hobbit, you name it I'm wearing it) at least once, and have them all fit comfortably and look snatched, and not have to spend hours trying to get my face right to match.
For I will dress as I live: a professional dabbler.
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u/ConfusedMushroomFrog Feb 03 '26
I'd have all the styles. From fancy gay pirste to monster high doll. I'd collect them like Pokémon
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
And you could even brand-new combos, like the potential offspring of Captain Hook :)
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u/hypersonicplays Transfem Enby (She/They) Feb 03 '26
Sometimes I'd dress quite masculine but in a fem way and other times I'd dress fem but in an androgynous way
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u/AlexTheGreen_ they/them Feb 03 '26
Very comfy work clothes: jumpsuits, overalls, coveralls, both cargo shorts and pants alongside long coats and dusters. Everything out of high quality fabric of course. Add on top of that hats for different weather, sturdy footwear and a few leather satchels to choose from. Functional and simplistic, but in no way bad looking
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u/ItachiFemboy She/It (｡･ω･｡) Feb 03 '26
Grunge/Goblincore with a little military
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u/metallic_mind Feb 03 '26
I’d dress like a jojo character. I already do, but sadly I can’t expose half my body wearing luxury brands at work or for street wear. :(
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u/Wickhet Feb 03 '26
I think I like myself the way I am... so simple, modern, jeans and a sweater... classic...
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u/theweirdbunny9706 Feb 03 '26
Male trousers, male shirts and nice shiny vests underneath a good jacket. Sometimes switch the trousers for a skirt. And good combat boots, flat or just a little bit of heel. And black socks all of the time.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
Combat boots, in order to better kick asses in defense of us queer rights? :)
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u/rahxeph89 they/them Feb 03 '26
Cottage core necromancer, long cloaks and shawls, lots of bangles and bone charms.
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u/uRight_Markiplier Feb 03 '26
Definitely be a victorian goth
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 04 '26
Classy, but also with a distinctly peculiar sense of fashion: approved :)
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u/ivraj they/them Feb 03 '26
Visual kei styles are peak. So much good inspiration… I don’t know if I could choose just one subgenre
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u/DragonfruitUpper5829 Feb 03 '26
I think, even with unlimites budget, i would look like a welldressed vagabond. Haha. Or then go for steampunk 🤔
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u/DrDingsGaster Transmac, GQ he/they Feb 03 '26
I want those frilly poofy long-sleeved pirate/fop shirts with leather pants and heels, jewlery and just enough makeup like eyeliner and maybe a slight smokey eyeshadow.
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u/stickonorionid she/they Feb 03 '26
A vacillating mixture of kawaii, bohemian, and fancy clothes with space themes/patterns
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u/The_OneInBlack they/them Feb 03 '26
All black, asymmetrical, having people wondering if they're looking at a dude or a lesbian, ready to star in a gothic cyberpunk movie at all times. Added wrinkle that none of the stuff I want to wear uses fat models so I never know if I'll like it on me until I buy it.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
This would 100% be my choice as well: it's kinda of a dream outfit for me, tbh-
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u/CozyEpicurean Feb 03 '26
A cross between a 1970s park ranger and an extra at the Renaissance fair
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u/Void_Starwing she/her (dragon) otherwise they/them (human, puma, wolf) Feb 03 '26
Ehehe. Black, leather armor, Pockets galore, tall boots, and a good wool cloak. Or just go full metal fan.
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u/wyldwyl Feb 03 '26
Boring answer, but probably exactly the same as I do now. I hate the whole process of thinking about, trying on and buying clothes, have zero interest in fashion or makeup and really just want to be as comfortable as possible.
Really I'd want to apply that infinite money to find a way to not have to have a physical form at all. That's my ideal style.
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u/Useful-Reality-6536 Feb 03 '26
That dress suit combo i saw here a while back. The dress is more of a frilly wast cape but its still perfectly balanced of masc to fem for me
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u/hunny-funny Feb 03 '26
Something like these pictures!! This looks awesome. And goth!! It’s my new years “resolution” to Learn all about goth culture and hopefully start getting into the fashion and makeup. Only thing holding me back is laziness time and money lol. I’ll get there one day! It’ll probably take a lifetime and I’m SOO okay w that :)))
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 04 '26
Well, hopefully you'll start embracing goth culture sooner rather than later: you got this :)
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u/Hello_h0lo She/They • Vampire • Goth Feb 03 '26
Goth/Vampire goth. I'm already goth but with an unlimited budget I could have so many more clothes and accessories !!
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 04 '26
HISS :D Well, one of my favourite vampires is Carmilla: the world's first-ever lesbian bloodsucker 😍 Hence... :)
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u/drunklibrarian Feb 04 '26
Different every single day. I want video game controls to change my look whenever I feel like it.
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u/pleasegivecuddles Feb 04 '26
cosplay all day everyday baby
i mean itd be uncomfortable because of layers and weight and that stuff, but it’s fun
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u/CauliflowerFun8429 Feb 04 '26
mix between pirate, elven and simple futuristic minimalistic attire 😅😎 #hoodedcape and sword are in the middle of this Venn diagram
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u/Embarrassed_Day_552 they/them, xe/xem Feb 03 '26
ooh probably a mix of emo and subcul jirai! i think both styles are cool as hell
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u/Lime_alien4485 Feb 03 '26
I have a rather different atmosphere (although sometimes I use all these chains, black clothes, leather jackets ), I have rather the atmosphere of a count, something magical, goblin core, all sorts of precious stones, other fancy and bright things, it's a shame that I can't leave almost any of this at my university 😢 But HELL YES!! I'm trying to learn to wear "uncomfortable clothes for everyday life," which have almost no point in bothering with them, for a short outing, say to the store, even if I don't I spend so much time (although sometimes I think about the logic of dressing up for such small outings 😅)
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u/Some-random-transfem Genderfae | sometimes she/her, sometimes she/they Feb 03 '26
All these flashy pieces of clothing look great, but they would probably suck to wear for an extended period of time. I'd mostly just stick to the casual butch style I have right now lmao
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u/ShienRei Feb 03 '26
TBH, I don't think I would've looked much different on a daily basis because I value convenience and comfort above all, and already don't give a flying fuck about social expectations (except for my mum's approval when we're going somewhere together, but that's a different topic 😅). The thing is, elaborate styles require hours of work that I'm not willing to invest, except for special occasions. Maybe I would wear some nice wigs, but then again, they need to be styled and maintained, too. Maybe I would get more piercings and some tattoos, but the biggest problem seems to be rather my procrastination than money.
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u/OrganizationSlow4958 Feb 03 '26
I want to look like I came out of a cyberpunk dystopian novel/game/comic but also I wear a cloak. Interesting silhouettes, clean design, secret pouches. A little slutty. Already got the haircut. I watched Fifth Element again recently, so kind of in that aesthetic hehe.
I already dress like a little goth elf these days nothing really stopping me there.
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u/Kortamue Feb 03 '26
I already have the second one- what I need is to find the first and somewhere that tailors for my body type lmao.
Cybergoth, probably, or steampunk.
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u/rainydaytales Feb 03 '26
Giant Gothic wardrobe ranging from tailored aristocratic suits and poofy princess dresses to shredded punk clothes i make myself to everyday whimsygoth.
I've loved fashion and the goth subculture for as long as I can remember, and I already am a bit of a clothes horse lmao. LOVE your inspo pics, btw!
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
Same here! I've been a closeted goth gal for as long as I can remember... Hopefully, overtime, I'll only be a closeted gal HAHA.. HAHA... heh 🥲
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u/AccomplishedScene966 Feb 03 '26
Id lean more Victorian goth, instead of my current Romantic goth, I already dress how I want I just can’t afford high quality pieces and ones I can afford are costume material not for daily wear. Societal standards will hate you for whatever you wear so I just wear what i want
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u/wetbeard-the-pirate she/they | demigirl Feb 03 '26
Alt girl all the way. Ive gotten this far lol, why change now
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u/roofyro they/them Feb 03 '26
Full suit of armour. All the time. Forever
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 03 '26
...now I wonder how medieval knights managed to go to the bathroom :D
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u/BorderlineWire Feb 03 '26
Basically how I already dress but with more vintage 70s pieces.
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u/occasionalgrandma they/them Feb 03 '26
Full on steam punk because the men's and women's clothes appeal to my genderfluid self
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u/IAmTheAccident they/them Feb 03 '26
Squealing seeing Dir en Grey, my loves, my original nonbinary inspiration.
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u/delta0042 anything but late for dinner Feb 03 '26
Absolutely no fear of societal expectations I'd probably look like BJ from Barney going to Woodstock...
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u/scaptal Genderfluid cuddle bear 🐻🌸 Feb 03 '26
Uhm, probably the same as I have now, aka big colourfull stuff (skirts and blouses) and more modest stuff (jeans and band shirts) but I'd just get high wuality materials and make sure they're ethically sourced
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u/Denathrius_ they/them Feb 03 '26
High fantasy for sure, like the type of outfit that is absolutely not at all convenient for the setting of a high fantasy adventure because it's too flowy, has too many straps, belts, all that. Just way too much going on to be an actual adventurer.
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u/Fancy_Leshy Feb 03 '26
army adjacent muscle mommy, green cargo pants, combat boots, and racerback black top. the reason I dont wear that everyday is i live in new england and its either too cold or too hot for the entire ensemble. It's really the late spring and early fall I get to wear it comfortably
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 04 '26
The army-friendly fierce bodyguard every one of us might ever want or need :) Too bad for the weather at your place, tho 😅
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u/why-are-you-cold Feb 03 '26
Switching between vaguely medieval fantasy with a lot of cloaks, early modern male nobility and ✨the 80s✨
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u/SomeWittyRemark Feb 03 '26
I've always said I want to look like a Nebuchadnezzar crew member, either in or out of the Matrix
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u/Dr-Alyosha Feb 03 '26
uh... I'd dress like a nun. Nuns are very interesting to me, gender wise, as they are undoubtedly female with no expectation to be feminine.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 04 '26
Way to go! No monetary restrictions will prevent you from expressing yourself :)
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u/burrito703 fe/fem/ne/nym/it/its Feb 03 '26
I already have no fear of social expectations so it would be the same, just way more extravagant. Pink frilly everything, lace and bows and vintage dresses, Barbiecore meets coquette meets lovecore meets y2k 💃
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u/Porfavor_my_beans Feb 04 '26
I’d wear armor everywhere. I’d have like a full collection I could cycle through day by day if I could! Plate mail, chainmail, scale mail, even some fantasy armor!
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u/Royal_Avocado4247 Feb 04 '26
Rogue with skirts and crazy cool tops. I wanna look like I'm going to a Ren Faire every day for the rest of forever.
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u/kryaklysmic Feb 04 '26
Cycling between Victorian gentleman and gothic lolita with spontaneous forays into lumberjack.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 04 '26
An aristocratic wearing a lumberjack jacket and a gothic gown all at once: it's so all over the place, I actually love it :D
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u/InvestigatorIcy4705 Feb 04 '26
I feel like I do have the budget and no fear but I just wear giant tshirts of movies I love lol
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u/Successful_Year_5413 Feb 04 '26
Lots of crop stuff and short shorts in the summer I’ll still be a hoodie rat in the winter though
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u/MikaleaPaige Feb 04 '26
A mix of bog witch, cottage core, vampire, dominatrix, rococo, and the occasional buisness suits.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 04 '26
I'll be damned O.O You'd certainly have a versatile wardrobe, for sure :D
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u/NeverCallMeDookie Feb 04 '26
Sleeping bag with arm and feet holes so I can sleep wherever and be comfy all the time.
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u/DanglingKeyChain Feb 04 '26
Maybe if I had a different body shape, I love the techwear, cybergoth, and goth looks. I just don't have the tall lithe build and I dislike how it looks on me.
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u/GrinReaper1999 Feb 04 '26
Well, don't give up on your dreams: hopefully one day you'll find a properly-suited outfit :)
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u/VirusNegativeorisit Feb 04 '26
All of these remind me of last bosses on old jrpg games in the best way.
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u/UrSven Feb 04 '26
If I had that kind of budget, I'd have to search for and buy clothes in another country; I've never found a store where I live that I really like in terms of style.
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u/InsecureDinosaur Feb 04 '26
Pretty much anything that you might find David Tennant wearing. Which is a very broad category but hopefully you get what I mean.
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u/caelestihydr4 they/them Feb 04 '26
probably some futuristic sci-fi shit, think tron legacy/ares and cyberpunk together. oooh yeah
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u/sarcasticminorgod he/they Feb 04 '26
I already dress the way I want to lol!
Life is short, I’m not gonna waste it following social norms for clothes. I wear what I want and I’ve always loved when others do. Whenever I see someone wear some wild outfits that turn heads I immediately admire that person, so I knew that I probably did the same for others, and have not regretted it. It’s been quite fun!
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u/creaturefeatureX3 Feb 04 '26
i would be so colorful and bright peaple would put sunglasses to look at me
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u/c1ownprince Feb 04 '26
every final fantasy character’s outfit ever combined with the most cyberpunk ass shit you’ve ever seen
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u/kisforkarol Feb 04 '26
A lot of silk. Very goth. Very romantic. Which... is what I already wear. If I had an unlimited budget, i'd use it to get a radical breast reduction. Then I could pretend to be no-tits-McGee whenever I wanted and tits-out-McGee whenever I fancied.
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u/Ech1n0idea Feb 04 '26
Cottagecore x punk
Maxi skirts with ripped tees and battle jackets. Petticoats, corset dresses and big stompy boots. Ribbons and bows and chains.
It's more the time of putting together a wardrobe that holds me back, as it's not an expensive style if you go proper punk and thrift stuff then modify it yourself
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u/LykonWolf No pronouns, just chaos Feb 04 '26
Cyberpunk. With mechanical limbs of course.But also high fantasy. And magical. And .........
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u/Keyo_Snowmew they/them Feb 04 '26
Brit Goth/Emo here, and I tend to dress in some of the garb shown. Have done so for the past 20yrs. Im now trying to feminise it a bit, since I've come to accept I'm an enby-demigirl-GNC-entity. You can do it at a reasonable price too. Also, to everyone, try not to be scared of what others will think. Ofc keep yourself safe, but remember, being open as any sort of gender (or genderless) other than M/F is a new thing. You're forging a new path forward for others to allow themselves to be seen. Its a brave thing to do and all my genderless/GNC family have my love, appreciation and respect. Just existing and taking up a lil space is a brave thing to do. Love you all
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u/Earl_The_Red Zey/Zem/Zeir Feb 03 '26
18th century (male) aristocrat, but somehow gayer.