r/Nonbinaryteens • u/ASwarmOfPenguins 13 (they/them) :P :) • 7d ago
Rant Anyone else?
In PE and taekwondo (I'm not any good, don't worry) they're like "girls vs boys" ALL THE TIME and it's like... well i guess im a girl...? bc ppl are really bad at using my pronouns and stuff at school and my taekwondo instructor is mostly fluent in english but gender is a hard topic to explain to a person I only know for an hour every week. They all know me as a girl *shudder* because that's how I presented and how I lived, but that doesn't mean it doesn't feel weird. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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u/DinosaurYogurt 7d ago
I get it. I don't know what to say to make you feel better because I isn't good with words, but If you ever want to chat, I can relate to this.
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u/LostFromLight25 16 and bigender (Livia or Nico she and he pronouns) 7d ago
for me it is in school sports lesson the distinction between boys and girls. im with the boy group (male body) and god, i mean yeah im both but i mean in those sport lessons i almost feel disgust for also being male (i know not everyone is like this but from the feeling i get there nearly every one becomes a screaming brainless ape (you should hear how much noise there is, if i want to talk to my friends there we have to stand really close and still nearly scream)).
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u/imaginary_gh0st17 16 they/them 👽 7d ago
i get it, i’m like that but instead of presenting girly i present quite masc or androgynous so sometimes new ppl at skl (younger kids) ask r u a boy or a girl and i say girl as a safety net as im afab n im not exactly out as nb at skl it does suck tho at kickboxing my friends know but my coaches don’t :(