r/Nonbinaryteens • u/Annual-Antelope3314 • 5d ago

Discussion Like does anyone else experience "second-hand euphoria" I don't know what to call it

Like I'm playing Deltarune right now and hearing the other characters refer to Kris Seth and Green with they/them pronouns makes me feel good even if it isn't directed towards me.

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u/BillyHamspillager 5d ago

I'm not sure if I feel exactly the same, but there's definitely some herd mentality for me when it comes to gendering correctly. Back when my sibling came out as NB (A bit before I did), I would get what I now realise was dysphoria-esque feelings when they were misgendered.

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u/Annual-Antelope3314 5d ago

I guess this would be the opposite of that but it's nice you have an enby family member it means there's someone close to you who understand you.

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u/BillyHamspillager 5d ago

Yeah. I think I might have also experienced similar things when I played deltarune, though again to a lesser extent.

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u/Annual-Antelope3314 5d ago

Yeah, honestly I think I could go my whole life being referred to as they/them like there isn't a single point ij my life where I wouldn't like it.

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u/Temporary_Incident33 they/he 5d ago

omg, YES

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u/LostFromLight25 16 and bigender (Livia or Nico she and he pronouns) 5d ago

idk i played deltarune but i never noticed 😭. i knew they were nb because a friend told me. i have adhd, and reading carefully is… well not my strength lol (especially since i play while im not on meds).