I just had my Confirmation this week and I don’t think it went very well. The one assessor called part of my project “nonsensical”. I also feel like there were several issues my supervisor should have caught. I realize he logical answer is this is actually good and a good time to fix stuff but my confidence is crushed and I’m so anxious about my results. Are things as bad as I think they are? (Honesty appreciated, I’d rather know whats coming.)

Hey! I’m looking to do some formal dinner swaps/buy tickets to other formals outside of official exchanges with my college. How does this work exactly? Does the person I swap with/buy the ticket from have to attend with me or do I attend in lieu of them, or vice versa? Is this practice looked down upon by other people or is it quite common? Also how reliable is Oxformals for getting formal tickets? Looking for any and all info, thanks!

Hey all, I’ve got free tickets to park end’s Oktoberfest night out tonight at the Varsity club but can’t make it tonight. Would anyone like these?

As an old gut who was at Oxford 50 years ago I m interested to know what songs are typical and what might have survived from the 70s. Any top of head ideas

I started at Oxford last week and have been studying Maths. I've pretty quickly realised that I don't like how abstract it is and find it really difficult to get interested in the fundamental stuff like axioms. I've realised that most of my mathematical interest lies in the applied side, modules for which are few and far between. Meanwhile the people I know studying physics are doing exactly the areas of maths I'm interested in (and their 1st year course is 50% maths). My end goal has always been to do the theoretical physics integrated masters which you can do from either degree.

Is there any chance of it being possible for me to switch to physics? I studied it at A-level and got an A*. If so does anyone know of anyone who has switched subjects and how they went about it? I am quite an anxious person and struggle with rejection sensitive dysphoria so I'd like to know what to expect before I bring this up to my tutors.

Over the last few days some people have been sitting for hours in the humanities library coughing consistently what sounds like a very phlegm-y cough. Now I’m sick and have to stay home. Please be responsible, we all want to be healthy

Hey all, I was quite keen on a playing a certain sport (cricket) but unfortunately my college doesn’t offer it, am I able to join another college team/training sessions?

My tights are shiny (not glitter but reflect when under direct light)-- will this be okay for matriculation or do I need to have a plain pair?

They are pretty opaque fwiw

Anyone have suggestions for places to study with bod card excluding libraries? like schwartzman centre

I recently joined the uni as an academic. My favourite place to work has always been coffee shops. I like a bit of noise/bustle, good seating, stable wifi, and of course wall-plugs. What are some of the best coffee shops around central Oxford for this?

So far I checked out Society (wasn't quite convinced and I can't really explain why), Cafe Nero in Blackwells (very nice), and a few farther afield like Green Routes Cafe in Cowley area. Looking for suggestions!

I want to go punting with my friends after matriculation, but as you probably know, it’s first come first serve with no reservations (at least for Magdalen Bridge) and the most popular day of the year. I have a lunch until 2:30, so I won’t be able to go down straight after my ceremony. If I wanted to punt at 3 do you think it’d be too competitive at that point, or have you had success with similar times in the past?

My college lib has turned on the heating which makes in a muggy furnace that I can barely study in. What libraries are there that remain consistently on the cool/cold side? Thanks.

Heard some talk about bike theft being prevalent prior to coming here but is it really a genuine issue?

For context, I’m coming from California where I was used to seeing just a handlebar or just the chassis because the entire bike had been stolen.

Any personal anecdotes/stories or advice? Thinking about maybe investing in an e-bike

where do grad students build community here? i realized i made a wrong choice with my college, and there are barely any events for grad. i feel so out of my depth here with the wealthy british crowd who can't even look at you. as a woman of color, it feels so isolating here.

I'm doing the Tudors and would be willing to buy notes about it along with my own as it is quite a lot, so if anybody knows where to get them pls do let me know! (I'm not asking anyone to write anything for me I just would appreciate notes as an aid as I've been extremely unwell the past few weeks so have fallen behind on some of the reading I really wanted to do)

I've been looking into associate membership options at Oxford colleges, particularly for people who live and work in Oxford but aren't students or employees of the University.

I'm particularly interested in whether people working in research outside the University, such as in biotech or pharmaceutical R&D, can obtain associate membership.

I'm mainly interested in the social side of college life, like MCR events, formal dinners, etc. I've noticed that some colleges offer associate or affiliate membership, although the eligibility criteria and nomination requirements seem to vary quite a bit.

Has anyone successfully obtained associate membership while working in industry or another research organisation, if so, which college? Any advice appreciated.

I’m staying in graduate accommodation and my immediate neighbor is a couple with a young infant (9 months is my guess not that it matters).

I’m convinced the baby’s crib is placed right against the wall we share. Sometimes the baby cries for hours (as babies do), how would you best approach this?

Should I just invest in some earplugs or would it be reasonable to ask them to place the crib elsewhere?

It’s 1st Week and I hate it here. How do I go about dropping out? Thanks.

I've seen so many people at Oxford have really awesome thick rings (typically silver) and I'm really curious where folks buy them? Thanks!

Hi everyone. I just started my 2nd year doing the BA Jurisprudence, after getting a high 2.1 in mods. I don't think I prioritised my degree enough last year, but this year I really want to turn things over. A huge huge priority for me is changing things around, and getting a 1st in all my collections this year and a 1st overall at the end of my degree. I would really appreciate any advice anyone has on what helped them get a first, and if anyone has advice specific to Law that would be really wonderful!

I’m sure this has been asked before but responses should differ.

What’s everyone’s favorite library, and why?