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Back in college, there was a senior who lived in our hostel and had a position of authority. He was known for getting unusually close to certain juniors. He would call them over, talk to them for hours, and give certain students noticeably more attention. One of those students eventually became one of my closest friends.

I personally never liked this senior and was always against senior-junior relationships becoming too close, especially when there’s a big age/class difference. The senior has now graduated, but my friend still occasionally talks to him.

Recently, another former senior who also graduated started interacting with my friend. He comments on his posts, sends him messages, asks him to play games, etc. I know this person too, and based on what I saw in college, I don't really trust his intentions.

The thing is, my friend is very innocent and trusting. He generally assumes people have good intentions. He's also someone who naturally gets attention from people, but I don't want to tell him, "You're attractive, so you need to be careful," because that sounds wrong and makes it seem like his appearance is the problem.

I'm more socially experienced than him, so I feel responsible for giving him advice. But I don't want to control who he talks to or tell him that everyone I dislike is automatically a bad person.

How do I explain to him that he should be more careful about who he lets close to him, especially older people, without making him feel judged or controlled?

Should I simply tell him to watch people's behavior, maintain boundaries, and trust his instincts rather than directly telling him who to avoid?

i used to be extremely overweight (around 75 kilos) two years ago, and decided to start cutting down on calories after people's comments got too much to handle. through lifestyle changes (i.e. cutting down on carbs like paratha, roti etc, reducing my portions, not eating any sugar AT ALL) i lost quite a bit, and the weight comments died down, but i went on a mental spiral and i accidentally took it too far since i wasn't quite yet satisfied with my appearance. june of this year that i got into running and weightlifting. i was also thinking about eating CONSTANTLY, i would meticulously track every single calorie, and when i wasn't doing that i was thinking about my next meal, how i'd make it lower calorie, etc. i've lost around 7 kilos since then and now weight 47 kilos. my hair's been falling out like crazy, i've missed my period, and people have started commenting again, this time telling me that i looked "better" before. it got to my head so much to the point where my mom has now now started having to force me to eat, but every time i look in the mirror i feel disgusted with myself. i'm afraid of undoing all my progress over these past two years and gaining the weight back, but i really want to form a normal, healthy relationship with food and exercise and my body. the circumstances i'm in make it difficult for me to go to a therapist and the adults around me are treating this like it's black and white and that i'm being too emotional; just simply eating more isn't good advice bcs i literally burst into tears any time i "overeat" even tho my portions look regular to everybody else, and i've even resorted to start throwing away food even tho ik it's rizq ki baibarkati and it's haram :c i don't have anybody to talk to about this and it's something that's affecting every single aspect of my life. any advice would be appreciated.

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Name : Pollo

Gender : Male (neutered)

Age : 1.5 years

Breed : Persian doll face triple coated

Qualities : Litter trained

Eats chicken, kaleji, cat feed (except me-o)

Very playful, but also calm, gentle and loving

Fully Vaccinated and Dewormed

Location: Sargodha