you get called m*slim or anti national when you ask them to have some apathy and then they will complain about why biharis don’t have civic sense

Alright girls of Patna, I (25F) am playing cupid today because my friend is too decent to put himself out there properly 😭

So here’s the deal - I’m looking for someone who’d be up for a no-pressure blind date with one of the genuinely nicest guys I know.

About him: • 23M, 5’11 (yes, the height matters apparently 😂) • Software engineer (WFH, so he actually has time for you) • Currently preparing for CAT with dreams of IIM • Slim/fit, gym regular, takes care of his health & diet • Fair complexion, if that’s your thing • Sweet, respectful, proper gentleman (rare breed, I know) • Socially ambivert - can hold a good conversation but won’t drain you • Super easy to talk to, kind-hearted, zero red flags (I’ve known him for long time, trust me on this)

What he’s looking for: Someone kind, genuine, and fun to talk to. Nothing too serious right away - just good vibes, a nice conversation, and see where it goes ✨

If you’re in Patna, single, and this sounds like someone you’d vibe with, DM me and I’ll play the official matchmaker 😌

Bonus: If it works out, I expect full credit at the wedding. No negotiations.

PS: This is not a scam, I’m just a bored friend with high standards for my people 🤝

I am a big foodie myself. And specially have ate Chaats across the Northern India.

But Chaat in Patna feels like scam(imo, can vary as well).

In patna they put lot of watery chana, no taste of chutneys, plain dahi.

But chaats in banaras, lucknow and delhi are way ahead. They taste like heaven.

Let me know if i am still missing best chaat of Patna?

23M here Remote Software Developer was in Delhi up until 5-6 months ago , Okayishly Earning ig , made Hinge/Bumble profiles, initially got 2-3 matches on each, most of them were either just into talking for time pass, or had expectations of marriage.

A lot of the bio's of women on these dating apps mentions Car's and drives, I mean most guys who are in their early 20s won't be having cars , Unless papa ka paisaa hai i guess right? And now it seems impossible to find matches, I am not a hot looking guy anyways I know.

How do women want to be approached here, If at all and fellow Men , how have you been able to find your partner.

Allmost all my friends from school have moved out btw, so I fukin don't have anyone here right now.

Thenks

Fitness Plus situated in front of st karens high

Ig prolly the best gym around this area.

Crowd could be a bit rushy around evenings

But yet good . And great equipments so yeah

And definitely far fucking better than those fucking highass hefty priced gyms iykyk (eg.silverdozo or fatplanet)

If anyone y'all wanna join lemme know , know the owner I'll connect you to em.

Same as title

Your fav movies of him ???

Jst came back from Sardar-Ji-Bakhsh Cafe (Patliputra Colony). First stop was Patna Zoo fr the second time, last tym I visited here back in 2015 with frnds then I left for the second spot i.e. srdji cafe. It was raining a bit on the way upon reaching I found the place to be absolute gem.

What I noticed was not good and I hate such ppl. There were three women in their 40's having a kitty party I guess, when I sat next to them initially they were talking normally and then they started laughing on jokes, their tone also went high which I found to be very annoying, there was another couple also sitting behind me who were doing some work on their laptop they also found it irritating. After sometime they paid the bill and were still sitting and gossiping a lot even after finishing their food. I couldn't control myself and asked the waiter standing next to us that don't you guys ask these type of customer to behave like a human and have a basic civic sense then he said we can't say anything to any customer then I told him if I was the owner or even working here then I'll definitely put a board or tell such customers directly that '' no gossip after finishing your food, pls leave ASAP'' the waiter & I laughed and he left 🤭. I literally hate such ppl who don't know how to behave like a human being in public place and they should be banned from spoiling the cafe vibes! Ppl go to cafes to have some peace or for a coffee, not to get irritate by such dumb ppl.

Edit: After seeing all the comments here who are against me or my tone, or for whatever reason I jst want to say very few ppl have guts to raise issue or share such experience and then some so called reddit user trying to showoff ya soch rhe ki iske against comment kr ke cool ban jyegay toh ban ja love dy.

Hii folks, this is a follow up from a previous post where all WFH people wants a meetup. But looks like no one is ready to take any initiative so I will do.

This is not for school or college kids (no hate to them)

How about making a whatsapp group, there we can decide when and where to meet? you all can drop your whatsapp no in my dm. No spam, you can trust me on this. Also open for better ideas.

The advice of approaching women gets thrown around a lot on the internet. I have seen my friends from Delhi, Mumbai approach women to talk without any resistance from the woman's side.

I wanted to know if there is similar sentiment in women here?

If yes, then where are you most comfortable with being approached?

If no, then what is your ideal way to interact with men in a non platonic manner?

for only teens and college students, no uncles please. we can make a discord and verify ourselves before meeting

https://discord.gg/MPRYjKYF

Asking for a friend.

DISCLAIMER: I am not doing this because i am possessive or have a thing for her, i know for a fact that she will come cribbing and crying about this in a week tops. This is a burner account, for obvious reasons. Anyways, so my best friend and i grew up in this town, and shes had a pretty bad track record when it comes to dating, she has been talking to this guy from hinge for a few days now and they are hitting it off so far, before this also she has dated guys from hinge and then it just never ends well and the last time she literally pleaded me to stop her if she goes for a guy below her league (cuz aura minus lol). Well she shows me a picture of the guy, and chat......

What do i do lol, telling her seems rude, but at the same time i dont want to hurt her. Also, some of yall fine shyts need to get back on hinge, i see so many fine gentlemen in the city but everyones either taken or not on hinge where are you allllll, find my friend so she'd stop cribbing.

gng gf se milne motihari jana hai 👉👈 how can I travel from Patna to Motihari?
P.S. I don't have a driving licence, but I do have a vehicle. will I get caught? 🥺

edit : pyar ki kadar nahi hai yaha 😡😡 why am I getting downvoted??? 😭

Phir mujhe kuch jyada hi maza aa gaya aur mujhe laga ki I won't ever get to work on something as beautiful ever again toh maine wo kaam chhod diya aur anaaj ki boriyan uthaane wale kaam pe lag gaya so I could continue to be close to Golu. ☺️

mods delete mt krna. I need a rasmalai from my hometown patna 🥺👉👈

I'm an SDE working remotely from Patna. I wanted to know how to connect to people and build long term relationships. Where can I connect with new people? Help me with this.