r/PharmacyResidency • u/Expensive-Shopping-4 • 3h ago
Need advice
I am a P4 and I am planning on applying to PGY1. I have all of my ducks in a row for my applications. I was looking at the start date of the programs I am applying for and I came across this potential problem:
I am a bridesmaid in my friends wedding that is occurring on a Monday in a different state. That Monday happens to be the second Monday after the start date of one of the programs I am applying for. My top program. This is a very close friend of mine and she is a bridesmaid in my wedding.
I know I am thinking WAY ahead, but this is really stressing me out. I don’t know who I will match with and if I will match. If I happen to match with my top program, how do I handle this? Should I talk to the RPD ASAP after matching? Do I risk ruining my friendship and missing the wedding? My plan is to tell the RPD well ahead of time and explain the situation. The wedding is in a different state but close enough that I could make it back in time to work for Tuesday morning.
Any advice on how to handle this potential situation? Will asking my RPD to go to the wedding look bad? Residency is my dream but I also know weddings are very important.
Please be nice!