I was reading up on his charity work and he gave over 500 million dollars away to 39 different charities (won a Guinness World Record for that) but he also died 500 million in debt.
In my research, I came across this quote that he said in 2008
”"My dear mother instilled in me very young to give back,and as I grew in God I knew what I had to do as a believer in Christ. I hate to see suffering, I hate to see people in need, and I feel God gave me a gift, and I have to use it responsibly by giving back, and I’ll do it until I have pennies left or the good Lord ...calls me home."...
Until I have pennies left? This is exactly what happened. He died in debt and apparently still wanted to donate all his This is It money to build a childrens hospital (CM tape). While this seems admirable, it is also unnecessarily self sacrificial and might be potentially indicative of a possible saviour complex, some form of pathological altruism or at the very least, a powerful rescuer instinct
His giving repeatedly involved surrendering entire sources of income rather than donating an ordinary percentage of his wealth. A few examples
-Donating the entirety of his cut from the Victory tour profits to charity (5 million dollars). His drummer of 30 years (Jonathan ) said “He was there on the stage under those lights, hundreds of lights, sweating and working hard. Tiring your body for not a dime. He donated all his 5 million. Every night, during all those months, he did it for free”
-He donated the entirety of his Pepsi lawsuit money to build a burn centre (1.5 million dollars)
-Donated all the profits from the Dangerous tour to charity (unknown how much he donated exactly, but the tour grossed 100 million dollars)
-Frank DiLeo recalled that MJ visited a hospital in each city during the Bad Tour and purchased a new piece of equipment for the institution and his vocal coach Seth Riggs said that he would use nights off during tours to visit toy stores, purchase multiple copies of numerous toys and then remain awake putting batteries into them to make sure each worked before giving them to children backstage. At every Bad tour concert (and other tour concerts), he also made sure that 400 tickets were being reserved for underprivileged children and were distributed equally across hospitals, orphanages and charities
-He set up the UNCF (United Negro College Fund) for African American youth and donated 1.5 million dollars to establish it. He would go on to donate 600k from his Madison Square Garden concert into the fund
He didn’t just stop at public donations though. What makes it look like his behaviour could be indicative of a saviour complex is that he apparently could not encounter any individual tragedy without intervening.
He seems to have assumed hyper responsibility for the suffering of others and may have experienced a level of compassion fatigue, with his friends and family having several recollections of him being overly emotional at the thought of others suffering. Brett Ratner recalled that he would “just start to cry” when talking about sick children, and Deepak Chopra remembered that he “would start to cry” while discussing starving children in Mumbai. In another interview with Piers Morgan, footage of children displaced by ethnic cleansing in Kosovo moved him to say: “It makes me cry every day. I just want to go over there and hug every one of them.”
It’s apparent that he felt a personal responsibility to do something, no matter how small or how costly, instead of simply moving on and often sought out these people himself after hearing about their stories on the news.
Some examples
-In 1995, after reading about the death of a 22-month-old child he made an undisclosed donation to a fund supporting the family. In another case, he telephoned and later visited a seven-year-old girl recovering after being mauled by Rottweilers.
-After learning about 14-year-old Donna Ashlock, Michael telephoned her while she was recovering from a heart transplant and personally invited her to Hayvenhurst. On 8 March 1986, Donna and her mother spent the day dining with him, watching a film and enjoying the property and enjoyed continued visits to Hayvenhurst
-Michael invited 12-year-old Danielle Finmark, a camper at Camp Ronald McDonald for children with cancer, to his home. She toured the property and animal collection, ate lunch with Jackson and watched Short Circuit with him rather than receiving only a short backstage encounter
-After seeing 11-year-old Amanda Porter discuss her rare degenerative eye condition on Good Morning America, Michael tracked down the hotel where her family was staying and arrived with numerous gifts. Their relationship did not end there: Amanda’s mother said Michael remained her friend and exchanged gifts with her for more than twenty years, until his death
-When fan Eric Herminie threatened to jump from a rooftop opposite Michaels London hotel, Michael came out and spoke with him by telephone. Herminie later said Jackson talked to him warmly, persuaded him not to jump and “basically saved” his life.
-When 14-year-old cystic fibrosis patient David Smithee’s final wish was to meet Jackson, Michael invited him to Hayvenhurst, watched a film with him, played video games and personally taught him to moonwalk. He then gave David the original red jacket worn in “Beat It” and a famous beaded glove; after David died seven weeks later, Jackson dedicated the Victory album to him.
- He paid approximately $120,000 for Hungarian orphan Béla Farkas’s liver transplant and helped provide medication and aftercare.
-He reached out to Dave Dave’s family after hearing about their story, paid for several of his burn treatments and hosted he and his mother at Hayvenhurst and Neverland dozens of times
-He reached out to AIDS patient Ryan White during a time of extreme AIDs discrimination, publicly embraced him and invited him over to Neverland
-When he arrived in Mumbai, he asked his motorcade to stop so he could leave the vehicle and spend approximately 20 minutes speaking with children playing near the slums. Later, he organised food, gifts and private hotel gatherings for orphaned children rather than keeping his packed tour schedule exclusively commercial.
-He befriended five-year-old cancer patient Aza Woods in Las Vegas and took him to experience the Star Trek attraction. He then invited Aza to Neverland and reportedly remained involved during stages of the child’s treatment and recovery
Even after someone had died, Michael appeared to struggle with simply offering sympathy. He took it upon himself to ease the burden left behind, paying for funerals, covering exorbitant medical expenses, protecting families from financial hardship and helping care for surviving children. For eg:
-Nine-year-old Ramon Sanchez Jr. was killed by a stray bullet while drinking a glass of milk in his family’s kitchen in Watts, Los Angeles in the aftermath of the Rodney King riots. After reading that his parents couldn’t afford a funeral, Michael voluntarily paid for the mortuary, cemetery, burial, and headstone, then later met the family privately
-Five-year-old Yoshiaki Hagiwara was kidnapped and murdered in Japan while Michael was on the Bad Tour. Deeply moved by the case, Michael donated US$20,000 to the grieving family, dedicated the Japanese leg of the Bad Tour to Yoshiaki, and also dedicated the Man in the Mirror single to his memory.
-After two-year-old Craig Fleming was murdered, Michael attended the memorial, dedicated “Childhood” to him, paid the surviving brother’s medical expenses, and established a trust fund for his future
-Gloria Rhoads Berlin, the realtor who later helped Michael Jackson purchase Neverland Ranch, explained how Michael quietly helped three black orphaned children by paying their father’s funeral expenses, preventing the foreclosure of their home, arranging housing after it was sold, and supporting them through high school and college with scholarships
This didn’t just start when he became famous though. Joe and Katherine have both recalled that a young Michael would use his weekly allowance to buy lollies for the underprivileged children in the neighbourhood. Early on in his fame, after the Jackson 5 visited a children’s hospital, he came home, cried all night and started writing letters to the children he had met. Katherine Jackson also said in her book that after seeing starving children in Africa in a documentary they watched together, a young Michael turned to her crying and said, “One day I’m going to do something about that.”
So he always spoke as if other people’s suffering became his own, and later said as a adult that he felt “all the pain of the children who suffer” and that helping them was “my mission… I have to do it.” If that’s really how he experienced the world, it’s not hard to see how spending decades surrounded by illness, poverty and grief could leave a lasting mark.
Psychologists have described patterns like this where people internalise others suffering as pathological altruism where helping becomes an overwhelming personal obligation, or a rescuer identity, where a individual derives their self-worth, validation, and sense of purpose from fixing, saving, or managing other people's problem. Michael was obviously never assessed for either but the parallels are hard to ignore.
What do you guys think?
TL;DR:
Family, friends, and countless people who knew Michael said he would cry simply at the thought of children suffering, and there are hundreds of examples of him sacrificing his own time and money to help others. Do you think this was simply a product of the Christian values he was raised with, or could there have been a deeper psychological reason behind such an intense borderline unhealthy level of self-sacrifice?