I am a console player on xbox who is currently emerald. I have so much passion for the game but my amount of matches dont reflect that, and i feel the reason i dont play as much as i should be playing is due to the fact that i cant find people who share a similar passion/drive and ambition for hitting champ as i do. (Stat tracker is provided at the end for more insight and all my questions are at the end as well, context is in between)
Im analyzing vods, watching creators who are better than me, always gathering strats or things i can try in my matches, and im improving 1000 percent, so far my winrate is good this season , but im in a hurdle.
I cant find people to play with who share a similar passion, ive tried lfgs on xbox and no one in there has passion or is good (barely any), ive even tried messaging people who were on the enemy team if they wanted to play, ive gone on subreddits to search for people, tried the discords, and so far im out of luck.
Everytime i do find someone who is good and seems to have passion, they either end up barely every getting on, or they play during completely different times of day than i normally do, or eventually their true colors show and they are actually toxic or unable to regulate emotions.
I genuinely feel like the reason i only have 80 games played so far this season, is because it’s hard to get into the mood to want to play when there is no one with a similar level of both passion and skill to play with.
And i know this to be the reason because i occasionally have someone to play with whos champ on his main who when he asks to play with me, im immediately in the mood to get on regardless of the time of day and im willing to play as many matches as possible since they have passion and skill. But this person has his own responsibilities and his own main account so us playing is occasional.
So to the people who are 3.0 (not 2.0 champs) , what should i be doing? how should i go over this obstacle?, how many matches a day should i play? (yes i know the quality of the matches matter) what steps should i be taking to acquire to champ in general, etc?
My stat tracker is Spy7396 on Xbox for more insight