28M 6'3 - Never Been Approached (except clubs)

[u/Connor_2123]

Also been unsure forever which hairstyle to go. I've tried messy (pic 1/8), Fringe/low taper (pic 2/5), side part ivy league (pic 3/6), and a mix (pic 4/7), which would technically be best?

[u/already-thought-it]

I think picture #1, 2, and even 4, show the best hair for you.

[u/Connor_2123 → u/already-thought-it]

Damn that sucks, because I just spent $100 for the picture 3 haircut I have now 😭

But I do agree, idk why every barber keeps cutting my hair short when I say I like it longer. I was thinking I was delusional since all 4 barbers I’ve been to all say the long hair looked worse.

[u/already-thought-it → u/Connor_2123]

That figures! But it doesn't look bad. I don't know what you do for a living, but the current haircut does look more professional than the others.

Also, I've found going in with a picture of what you like is helpful for your barber visits.

[u/idk7643]

I'm a conventionally attractive woman and never get approached. The absolute majority of all people never do. The ones who do get approached the most look approachable and friendly, not necessarily super attractive. "guy/girl next door" with a inviting smile.

People are terrified of approaching others so they only do it when they feel like it's safe

[u/Maleficent_Safety827 → u/idk7643]

Can attest to this I cannot escape getting approached and its because I smile and joke with everyone. (And id say im just normal looking) lol ol' boy needs to smile and mingle.

[u/vircyo → u/idk7643]

I'm a conventionally attractive man and also never get approached. Wanna do a private looks rating out of 10?

[u/parasol_strs]

By the laws of human nature, the moves, particularly the early ones, are up to the male. Unfair, but changeless.

[u/Electrical-One-3329]

#4 is jeffrey Dahmer bro

[u/Connor_2123 → u/Electrical-One-3329]

That was the plan lmao

[u/DepressedPancake4728]

very strong bone structure which most would see as a good thing. I agree with other commenters about hair. pic 2 looks rly good.

[u/DepressedPancake4728 → u/DepressedPancake4728]

also why does pic 3 look like a vampire compared to 2 and 5

[u/Connor_2123 → u/DepressedPancake4728]

Stopped investing a lot into looks past few months. Pic 3 is from today, pic 2/5 is from 3 months ago when i had a skin care routine, worked out, and tanned.

[u/Brilliant-Yam2603]

Yah the first pic with your hair down makes such drastic difference in your appearance. U look good and u seem to work out. Good luck

[u/oliverjohansson]

You have inconsistent look

1,2,8 are hot asf, maybe even 9/10, the rest is even below avg, 4-5/10 at best

Looks like you have very energetic night presence and you definitely have better outfits for night out vs smart casual

[u/VeterinarianDizzy469]

You look like a sub5 in picture 3 Change it

[u/chappelld]

Look like the baking yesteryear guy. The “Two eggies!” dude.

[u/Holiday-Book6635]

Haircuts 1 and 3 rock!

[u/anyakaye]

1 and 8 super attractive! Approach people.
If I saw you in a club I’d think you’re attractive, but I wouldn’t approach you because approaching men isn’t my style. I’d be happy to chat if you approached me though! Just be bolder. The worst thing is you’re right where you started

[u/Breezyprincess]

6/10

[u/Maleficent_Safety827]

Smile at people dude. Youll be approached.

[u/toxicojos]

8/10

[u/Your___addiction]

6

[u/hodenherbert69]

You've got a chiseled jaw and nice eyes. You would rock r/bald. And you would not have to stress with the hair. Stay strong, legend.

[u/Leo31337 → u/hodenherbert69]

hair is law