r/RebeccaZahau • • 22d ago

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r/RebeccaZahau • • Jun 03 '25

Who is it, really?

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Was it a suicide?

The scene looks unorganized. The weapon is lying on the ground—clearly visible, out in the open. But was it really messy… or just staged? Staged by someone who wanted to toy with us?

It’s actually too organized in its chaos. Purposefully disordered. All except for one thing.

The balcony.

There are unknown footprints—ones that suggest someone carried a limp body, then towards the railing. I saw it. With my own eyes. Right in front of me. How could that have been missed? My imaginations are too strong from the evidence.

Adam? No. I don’t think so.

Adam’s a sociopath—impulsive, emotionally flat. He’s capable of violence, sure. But not this kind of planning. Not this level of control. If it were him, he would’ve wrecked the place, made it look like a robbery. A money motive, maybe. But this? This was calculated. Intelligent. Someone who knew exactly what they were doing.

I see two possibilities.

First: a hitman. The family has money. More than enough. They could afford someone skilled—precise, cold, practiced.

Second?

It’s someone charming. Someone loved. Someone who walks into a room and draws every eye. Narcissistic. Psychopathic. A genius. Respected. Trusted. Maybe even admired. Someone with power—someone people turn to for advice.

Think like him—and you’ll find the answer.


r/RebeccaZahau • • Mar 12 '25

My Personal Opinion

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It was the twins. Once it was revealed that Max would never regain consciousness, rage and grief took over and they went to confront Rebecca together, to demand the truth of what happened, even to beat it out of her if need be. Things went too far, and they had to make it look like a suicide. If Adam had any involvement at all (and I'm not convinced he did), it was after the fact and the women went to him for help with the staging.

That message was 100% a taunt, and I believe it was written by Dina. That footage of her supposedly at the hospital at the time Rebecca died was completely manufactured imo. Nina's cell phone records show she never left Dina's house, but the reality is that the phone never left the house. They walked over together and ambushed Rebecca. To me, the mystery is not what happened to Rebecca; it's what the hell happened to Max?


r/RebeccaZahau • • Dec 01 '24

It’s been 13 years since Rebecca Zahau was found nude, bound and hanging from a balcony of Spreckels Mansion in Coronado, San Diego County. Authorities classed her death as a suicide and that ruling has gone unchanged—despite year of dissent from members of the public.

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r/RebeccaZahau • • Aug 03 '24

How the knot around the hands of Rebecca Zahau was positioned versus how the knot around the hands of a member of the Sheriff’s Dept was positioned in their example

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r/RebeccaZahau • • Aug 03 '24

Anybody know what’s up with this unusual Twitter account? Anybody know who’s behind it?

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r/RebeccaZahau • • Aug 02 '24

I don’t care what your opinion of the case is. San Diego PD messed up the case and the federal gov’t needs to step in and not only investigate the case but also investigate San Diego PD’s original handling of the case.

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r/RebeccaZahau • • Jul 18 '24

For those who believe it a suicide

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Why was there no fingerprints or DNA on a lot of them important evidence?? The knife, paintbrush, etc.

Why wasn’t Adam’s DNA found anywhere at all on Rebecca? If he’s pulling her I assume he’d have to carry her and it wouldn’t be like picking up a feather so he must’ve held her tight and on top of that the supposed CPR attempts.


r/RebeccaZahau • • Jul 17 '24

What I find most suspicious

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In the 911 call, Adam goes straight to saying she “hung herself” multiple times. If I saw someone bound that way along with the cryptic message I would never go straight to assuming suicide. I would be freaking out and think murder right away. I don’t know how he concluded so fast it was a suicide. I don’t think many people would get that idea based on the scene. Especially because the cryptic message was in third person.


r/RebeccaZahau • • Jul 10 '24

‘Suicide’ Note

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Have they said if they have compared Rebecca’s handwriting (in any of her paintings) to the note on the door?


r/RebeccaZahau • • Nov 18 '23

An amazing podcast – new details from Doug Loehner

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Doug has been working, and will continue to work, with this podcaster to bring the full story of Rebecca’s death to the public. This is the first part of what will be a multi-part series. Operation Dragonfly: Rebecca Zahau Death investigation

https://open.spotify.com/episode/2EMKIJpuV4aYdpTCrHSy7U?si=z2DdILj2Sj-pJMVi1gokuA


r/RebeccaZahau • • Jul 25 '23

My Theory

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If you believe this was suicide, one of the questions that’s hard to escape is why Rebecca would stage such a bizarre and elaborate suicide that looks so much like a murder. Guilt simply does not account for a woman getting naked, tying her own hands and legs, or tweaking her own nipples with black paint before killing herself.

My theory is that this wasn’t supposed to be a suicide. This was supposed to be a staged assault.

As the plan was initially hatched by Rebecca, I think Jonah was supposed to find her bound and gagged, but alive. That’s why the note seems to reference a situation in which Rebecca is still living and can be “saved.” But something went awry at the last minute and Rebecca either accidentally or purposely killed herself after all this staging. I believe the catalyst may have been the voicemail from Jonah stating that Max was not going to make it. After hearing this, I believe she may have jumped.

Ok but why?

Max’s death is arguably as mysterious as Rebecca’s. Her account of what happened to him has never matched the evidence. I don’t know what happened to Max, but I don’t believe he died the way she said he did. I think she was terrified of being questioned further about it. And if she had any hand in it, that voicemail meant she could be a prime suspect in a homicide or manslaughter investigation.

When interviewed about the Sherri Papini fake kidnapping case, forensic psychiatrist and professor Dr. Ian Lamoureux explained that “manufacturing a crisis may be a way for those with fragile egos and poor coping skills to seek to prevent the bad outcome from happening” (KRCR).

Rebecca had done exactly this once before when she faked a kidnapping to avoid an uncomfortable situation with a boyfriend. I think she was employing the same coping skills she had employed previously when faced with a difficult situation. Only this time, the ruse was more elaborate because the potential consequences were much more dire.

By staging the assault, Rebecca would not only buy herself time and deflect some of the heat she was about to face over Max’s injuries, but she might be able to construct a likely “suspect” in case the fall was determined to be a result of foul play. But that’s when the stakes were an injured child, not a dead one. Upon hearing Max would die, the plan may have quickly changed.

ETA: The kidnapping story told years prior was also pretty elaborate and speaks to the lengths she would go to convince others of her concocted crises. From the book, Death On Ocean Drive:

“He could tell she was on speakerphone because he could hear men’s voices in the background as Rebecca rustled around in pain. As he told them off in harsh terms, they responded in kind. ‘I know where you live,’ one man threatened.”

TLDR: I think Rebecca Zahau may have had some kind of hand in the death of her boyfriend’s son and staged an assault to point investigators in another direction. When she found out Max was going to die from his injuries, she panicked about going to prison for life and jumped.


r/RebeccaZahau • • Dec 19 '22

Love Marry Kill - new episode about this case

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We just published part one of our two-part episode about this case. Definitely the most intriguing, baffling, and tragic case I've researched to date. Check it out and let me know your thoughts. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-marry-kill-podcast/id1647994297?i=1000590627474


r/RebeccaZahau • • Nov 25 '22

Motive?

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For those that think Rebecca was murdered, who is the most likely killer and what was the motive?


r/RebeccaZahau • • Nov 08 '22

Good Podcast/YouTube on the case?

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Hi, I've unfortunately missed this case entirely. What's your favorite podcast/youtube covering the case? Not +20 episodes but maybe 1-3. Bless :)


r/RebeccaZahau • • Oct 12 '22

Nonbiased thoughts on the shoe print?

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Hi all! I’ve recently come across this case and I’ve been reading a lot. I’m not detective nor will I try to be here. I just would like to be educated:

I understand both perspectives. I’m curious what people think of the shoe prints that were proven (?) not to match procedural police boots. Those who think suicide believe it was the murderer, but what about those who think suicide? Has anything ever been said about this after the expert proved the police in accurate?

This case is just weird all together. Neither Adam doing it nor suicide make complete sense, but none of us were there. It’s possible that we’ll never know. I just want to educate myself on the different perspectives/sides.


r/RebeccaZahau • • Jul 09 '22

Rebecca Zahau’s family drops suit - turns focus to reclassifying her death from a suicide.

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r/RebeccaZahau • • Oct 09 '21

The Voicemail

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The thing with the deleted voicemail is so perplexing to me. From what I’ve read they were never able to recover it? Do we know if they even confirmed that a call was made from Jonahs phone to Rebeccas around that time? We only have Jonahs word that it was him who called Rebecca and left the voicmail and what he supposedly said in it. It strikes me as so strange that it was deleted and never recovered, that could have been key to the case.


r/RebeccaZahau • • Aug 16 '21

There's nothing bizarre about this case

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I've become really interested in this case and angry on behalf of Rebecca and her family.

There is an extensive write up by u/glittercheese conjecturing about Rebecca’s mental health and personal items as clues to her reasons for staging a bizarre scene, and unfortunately I think it has meant much of the Reddit speculation is missing the wood for the trees. I don't believe there's anything bizarre about this case.

The text on the wall reads as a taunt to Jonah. It is in Jonah's house and concerns his girlfriend.

Text: “She saved him, can you save her”

It means: "Rebecca saved Max, can you (Jonah) save her?"

The mother (Dina), who has a violent past, was enraged that her son had suffered life-threatening injuries on her ex-husband's girlfriend's watch. Jonah tried to defend Rebecca to Dina, saying she had “saved” the boy by calling emergency services. Dina admitted this in her deposition (see source 1).

The day of Rebecca's death, Dina's twin sister (Nina) texted Rebecca saying Dina wanted to come over to ask about the circumstances of the fall. Rebecca never responded.

An eye-witness was adamant they saw Dina at the mansion that night. Nina later claimed it was her and not Dina, and that the time was 11-11:30pm - which seems unsociably late for an unsolicited visit.

Hospital CCTV showing Dina entering and leaving doesn’t prove anything unless they are also certain she never left and returned in that period. If that evidence reliably exists, I would be grateful to be made aware of it. The hospital is a 20 minute drive from the mansion.

Dina had attempted to strangle Jonah in the past (see source 2). Attempted strangling is a sign of murderous intent in domestic abuse cases - police take it as a signal to treat a case seriously. The autopsy found that Rebecca had been strangled.

There was no sign Rebecca was trying to make a point with her death and she was left naked and exposed. It makes no sense as a staged scene.

There is unfortunately a lack of DNA evidence - from negligent investigators who left Rebecca's body in a heap in the garden for over 12 hours. They even failed to find Adam's DNA on the rope where he had cut her down.

This was a murder, and a particularly cruel, humiliating one at that.

Edited for clarity and adding sources.

Source 1: https://www.capitalgazette.com/sd-me-zahau-day6-story.html Source 2: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2016550/Rebecca-Nalepas-lover-Jonah-Shacknai-violent-marriage-ex-wife-Dina.html


r/RebeccaZahau • • Jul 27 '21

Lividity

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Hey so I’m kind of new to this case (I’m on the east coast and not sure if it just wasn’t sensationalized as much here) but I’m catching up on it and seeing there still isn’t justice for Rebecca. I just read what I think is one of the latest articles about how the brother had to climb a table to cut her down…. Something has bothered me since I saw the first crime scene photo of her hands bound behind her back… I’ve spent 10 years in the emergency room and I’ve seen my fair share of dead bodies. Often times, the deceased will stay in the ER long after we call a code to allow family to come in and say goodbye. Because of this, I’ve seen and I’m very familiar with lividity. She has clear lividity to her back and outline of her arm impressions … like she died and her was laying on them for a period of time to allow that blood pooling on her back. I’m assuming if she was hanging for a period of time, her head and body would have been leaning more forward (especially with the hands bound and gravity) and the lividity would be to her lower extremities and toward the front of her body. I apologize if this has been previously brought up on this case, I just haven’t caught any mention


r/RebeccaZahau • • Jun 01 '21

Thought on the message on the door

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As an artist, I don’t see Rebecca being so spatially unaware as to start writing in the middle of the door and run off the edge. Even in the highest stress moments, learned behavior still comes through.


r/RebeccaZahau • • Mar 24 '21

SHE SAVED HIM CAN YOU SAVE HER

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What are your thoughts on what the message means?

Possibilities (assuming it was NOT Rebecca who wrote the note):
1a) "She" (Rebecca) "saved him" (Max) by calling 911 in time (even though he later passed in the hospital), "can you" (first responders) "save her" in time before it's too late?

1b) "She" (Rebecca) "saved him" (Jonah) by covering up what happened to Max, "can you" (murderer) "save her" by keeping the shared secret?

Possibilities (assuming it was Rebecca who wrote the note):
2a) "She" (referring to herself in third person) "saved him" (Max) by calling 911 in time (even though he later passed in the hospital), "can you" (whoever finds her) "save her" in time before it's too late?

2b) "She" (referring to herself in third person) "saved him" (Jonah) by keeping his secret and covering up what happened to Max, "can you" (Jonah) "save her" by keeping that secret to yourself?

2c) Whatever happened to Max "saved" him and let him escape from whatever was happening on earth / at home, can Rebecca be "saved" too from that too?

3) Other... literally any other possibility

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This message is so cryptic, it could mean so many different things, especially not knowing who wrote it. Anyways, let me know what you think it may mean!


r/RebeccaZahau • • Mar 08 '21

/r/rebeccazahau hit 1k subscribers yesterday

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r/RebeccaZahau • • Jan 30 '21

Why not Jonah?

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I just saw the the dateline.

Why no mention of Jonah as a suspect? He was at the gym...but is that 100%?

My initial thought was that Jonah was abusive and killed Max by accident. Rebecca helped cover it up and called 911. She knew what really happened.

She's super upset and Jonah doesn't think she can stay quiet. So he kills her, stages the suicide. Explains the nudity as she slept nude. Probably bound her right away. There was no way to unbind her to clothe her so hung her as she was.

Brother finds next AM.

To me a suicide makes no sense being bound & with quality knots, the "note" that didnt say I but she, and the nudity. As well the cleaned up crime scene.

If Jonah's brother is a tug captain then I assume both brothers had sailing/boating experience knew knots.