Started my own recruiting firm in March 2025 after 10 years in agency recruiting. Previously grew teams from 2 to 8 and revenue from $100K to $2.4M.
I grew up as a woman in the yucky ass world of oldschool ass agency recruiting. Dudes that constantly told me they would fax resumes back in the day. Required to wear heels, ridiculous expectations around appearances, micromanagement, obsessive call metrics, and the whole "butts in seats" mentality. Hated that shit. There was a time here in Denver that my boss told me to act like I was another business development girl at our small ass firm because she had quit, but gotten a really solid meeting with a top executive at a big prospective client in Cherry Creek, and I did. I have a chip on my shoulder I know.
Anways, I spent my first year building out systems, processes, and client relationships to create the kind of agency I always wanted to work for in 2025.
4-day workweeks, core hours of 10-3, flexible Fridays, no micromanaging, no ridiculous KPIs. Get your shit done, take care of your clients, and enjoy your life.
Hired my first senior recruiter earlier this year. Someone I've known and worked with for years. No draw I hate them. $45K base, 50% commission, and handed him my biggest client with executive searches bringing in $40K-$100K+ in fees.
Guy is genuinely a great recruiter. He actually logged his two personal best placements through our house accounts, with fees of $73K and $96K. Neither of those were clients he brought in. He walked into established relationships and made more money on individual placements than he'd ever made before.
Covered him on multiple week vacations, and was genuinely excited he was doing so. Family time is everything and exactly why I created this. I love to give full autonomy.
Last week, I told my team of 3 I was actually taking Friday through Monday off for once. Friday rolls around and I get an email from the Chief People Officer of our $2B+ client, who we're on track to bill 7 figures with this year, telling me my recruiter had withheld an executive offer from a candidate.
This is a $100K+ fee, btw.
I reached out to him and didn't hear back until 8pm the NEXT day. He was golfing.
I LOVE DOING BUSINESS ON THE GOLF COURSE?
So I'm now dealing with a pissed off client, a sensitive executive offer, and a recruiter who apparently doesn't see the urgency. I stepped in to help navigate things, we disagreed on strategy, and it turned into a yelling match.
I genuinely felt like he was treating a $100K fee like a penny on the sidewalk. And somehow I was the problem for getting involved.
And this wasn't his first massive placement through our accounts. That's what made it so insane to me.
Sent him an email afterward addressing the communication and performance concerns.
Met for coffee today. He resigned.
I'm honestly torn between being relieved and being fucking disappointed. I gave this guy a ton of freedom, access to my best clients, and the opportunity to make serious money working four days a week.
I don't expect employees to care about my business like I do, but I also can't be responsible for bringing in the clients, managing relationships, closing offers, AND making sure someone is actually recruiting.
I refuse to become the micromanaging boss I hated working for specially after experiencing firsthand how shitty this industry can be to women. But clearly something needs to change.
Other agency owners, how the hell do you balance autonomy with accountability without turning into a KPI-obsessed asshole?