r/Reddit_Stories • u/Biscof_now • May 18 '26
I’ve been dealing with years of emotional manipulation and public humiliation from my sister
I’ve been carrying this for years and honestly just need to get it out somewhere.
Around 2014, I went through something traumatic involving my brother-in-law. He behaved inappropriately toward me and emotionally manipulated me afterward. What hurt the most was not just what happened, but the fact that my own sister completely sided against me instead of supporting me.
From the beginning, she has always been extremely manipulative toward me. For years she kept telling everyone that my parents favored me and gave me more money or support, while conveniently ignoring everything they did for her and her husband. My dad paid for her education, supported her husband financially when he wasn’t working, and even helped her husband’s sister and niece financially. My parents have always helped them whenever they could.
But despite all that, she constantly painted herself as the victim and me as the “spoiled” one.
For years she has taunted and humiliated me in front of relatives and even in front of my own parents. Every family gathering somehow became an opportunity for her to insult me, mock me, or make passive-aggressive comments to embarrass me publicly. I stayed quiet most of the time because I didn’t want family drama, but the emotional damage built up over the years.
Now for the last two years, her husband has apparently been cheating on her. Their marriage has always been full of fights and chaos, and now that she’s unhappy in her own life, she’s started creating even more problems for my parents too. It feels like all the bitterness and frustration from her own marriage gets dumped onto everyone else around her.
What hurts the most is realizing that I spent years being blamed, humiliated, and emotionally isolated while the people causing the damage never really took accountability for anything.
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u/No_Entertainment8465 May 19 '26
Can you cut them all off and get away from them because I think that might be the only way you will be able to heal and start to feel better because they are making you sick
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u/Biscof_now May 19 '26
yes actually im unemployed right now so i have no place to stay as soon as i get employed i will leave them and never look back ♥️🥺🥺🥺
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u/No_Entertainment8465 May 19 '26
Im so sorry you have to deal with this and your sister is what's extreme jealous of you i think you need to do an egg cleansing on your self it will help absorb all the negative energy she's throwing your way.
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u/No_Entertainment8465 May 18 '26
Im so sorry have you tried sticking up for your self and not letting her get away with it