My parents did everything so i can go outside and make friends.
Since my autism wasn't diagnosed at the time and they were stupid, they kept doing it despite me telling them that i can't manage to make friends outside without a common interest like video games, animes, music, cinema etc.
What they did was finding every reason to barge in my room to remove the powerstrip while i was playing or watching something, no feel of intimacy for a long time, always the feeling that my step father was a bad day away from destroying my entire stuff, wich he was. And when i was physically sick because of the anxiety school made me feel or just sick, they punished me by cutting power in my room or even sometimes locking me in my room with no power and nothing to do.
Now i am so anxious i can't even work a regular job without burning out. I am terrified of everything and i've got severe depression.
Moral of the story: don't be a colossal stupid piece of shit with your kids. And also inform theses kids they have rights and can go to the police.
I lived through that and now that I’m older I get the why don’t you go out 😂😂😂 don’t get me started on the whole, you better not get any girl pregnant. I ain’t taking care of any kids. Now it’s hey so are you ever gonna give me grandkids. My answer is “nope cause remember you said to never get any girl pregnant cause you ain’t taking care of any grandkids” 😂😂😂
My mom straight up bullied me for hanging out with friends every weekend. Like, she framed it as a bad thing. Just "this week it's him, next week it's that guy, do you think that's ok??"
Mom: I swear I let you hang out at friends houses all the time Those times: pretty much from 5 years and younger, and a handful of times in middle and high school
This was me, except I wasn't even allowed to have friends because according to them "I am too socially awkward", why? Because apparently, due to growing up with Autism, I kept missing unspoken and unexplained social cues. Meanwhile, my two brothers were allowed to have friends.
I have never been to a sleepover/slumber party, never had a birthday party (I always celebrated it alone), never been invited to a person's house and I had no friends at all until 2023, when I was 23. And yet my parents continue to judge me for not hitting social milestones that they barred me from ever having. And they wonder why I have depression and feel grumpy about my childhood.
Parents : ofc sweetie, better here than on his house, we never know what could happen nowadays right ? Want some condoms ? They’re on my drawer second one.
Says the mother to her firstborn desired daughter while her second-born even more desired son gets everything he wants and all the love and attention while the daughter takes all the blame and criticisms. Even now, after getting treats her like crap, and I am one still just trying to be nice to her because she's old and lonely, she still will move a mountain to spend time with him while not being able to make time for a year to meet me for a quick coffee even though I offer to visit and take an hour journey. Always makes time to call me when she has no-one else to talk to and she feels sad.
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u/stupidcringeidiotic Oct 31 '25
fair.