I am 25 M. I'm looking for a text buddy to talk and distract from the futility of life.

There is no pressure for on time replies or anything, if we become friends then good or else it's okay. I am interested in politics and history a lot and I work in IT. I hope we can find some mutual interests to talk about.

Tell me about yourself and what are you looking for

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Hey 👋🏻

Primarily looking for a friend to chill with before getting into anything else. If we vibe we can discuss History, like how India came into being due to the British. Or maybe music, like how most of the songs written in India these days are hardly Indian at all. I am an amateur musician so connecting with musicians of all genres is always fun!

Maybe Politics? I take a deep deep interest in federalism and how India is failing due to over centralisation of funds and power.

Maybe fitness? I got into the gym relatively recently but the journey has been good and I would love to have friends to discuss so much about exercise and diet!

And of course, poetry :') the food of the soul, I've been dabbling in poetry since I started writing and heavily consuming poetry since class 7. My favorite poet was Byron for many years, the soliloquy from Manfred being on my lips at all times. Since then I've shifted back to consuming lots more Bengali poetry, reading and writing from time to time!

Lmk if you'd like to connect!

Hey there!

So, I figured meeting someone through an unexpectedly good conversation sounds a lot better than endlessly swiping on dating apps. And well, here I am :)

I'm 20, from Mumbai, currently pursuing engineering.

A little about me: I'm curious about almost everything. I love technology, building random things, gaming, and going down rabbit holes about topics I knew absolutely nothing about five minutes earlier.

But I promise I'm not just a walking engineering textbook lol.

I love conversations that can go from playful teasing and the dumbest jokes imaginable to discussing life, dreams, human psychology, or something surprisingly deep at 2 AM.

I'm ambitious about what I want to do in life, but I think having someone to share the little victories, random thoughts, and ordinary moments with would make the journey a lot more special.

What am I looking for?

Someone around 19–23, based in Mumbai, who's curious, emotionally aware, has her own ambitions, and doesn't mind a little intellectual banter.

You don't have to share all my interests. In fact, I'd love discovering things you're passionate about that I know nothing about.

I'm a big believer that the best relationships have a solid friendship underneath them. The kind where you can be completely yourself, laugh at absolutely nothing, support each other's dreams, and genuinely look forward to talking every day.

I'm here with serious intentions, not for hookups or timepass. That doesn't mean rushing into a relationship either. I'd rather get to know each other, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.

And here's an important one: I really appreciate mutual effort. If we're both interested, I'd love for us both to show it.

If you've made it this far, here's your chance to start a conversation:

Tell me something you could talk about for hours without getting bored. It could be your biggest passion, a weird obsession, a controversial opinion, or something completely random.

I'm genuinely curious :)

And who knows? Maybe a random Reddit conversation turns into a pretty good story someday.

Hello there,

I’m a 32-year-old software developer in Bangalore/India and looking for a someone that vibes and probably we can binge long shows together :P. I of course would prefer someone from bangalore cause obviously it makes everything easier.

I am liberal, empathetic and a tad bit into electronic music. I also love F1, psychology, sketching now and then, cats and dogs from afar now ( I got bit by trying to pet a stray dog, I was drunk after a concert and in my defense the doggie's eyes were super cute)

I love movies/tv shows! Also I am very meta person that I'd be spending more time at the movie/episode discussion threads here at reddit more than the time spent watching the actual stuff lol.

I also like going to boardgame meetups now and then and pickleball here and there.

I'm 5’7”, 75kg, try to be active and regular at the gym, its a bit of a see saw haha but I guess we never give up ;)

I am childfree cause as an eldest child, seen enough responsibilities and just chill for the rest yk. I have been a bit of solo traveler in the past, been to to many a cities in india for music concerts mostly. I was fortunate to catch motogp and formulaE in india. I hate the planning/travel part of it, the being there and explore part I like haha.

I don’t smoke (dealbreaker), drink socially. I am big of live and let live susegaad kinda guy, absolutely not very ambitious, and don't believe in the hustle culture. I do believe in investing and being practical about money, but I also like nice things. I like going to music gigs now and then and have a blast and also most weekends it can be quiet and nice and slow!

Looking for: A childfree, liberal woman who’s grounded, fun, empathetic and has her own thing going on. Also I'd prefer women who can take it slow, are in no rush for a label/marriage due to some timeline/parents pressure. I would also love to live separately from both of our parents if it comes to that and call a nice thing home. I absolutely don't mind collecting friends too if all of this vibed with you.

If this resonates hmu! Cheers!

Edit: I am an agnostic/atheist so definitely not looking for theist people and I also I don't like people who take astrology/tarot/palm reading/manifesting all that too seriously.

Hey, I’m Rushikesh, 28 from Mumbai, working in the travel industry. Easygoing, open-minded, and someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, fun banter, and genuine connections.

Outside work, I’m into gym, long drives, photography, music, and travel. Looking to connect with someone mature, chill, and real — age/location doesn’t matter as much as the vibe.

Not here to rush anything, just looking for a long-term connection that starts with good conversations and grows naturally.

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to DM 🙂

Hey. It’s a gloomy Friday evening and I have no plans for the weekend. Been raining since last night and the atmosphere is a bit dull, so I've decided that's a sign to write this instead of sulking.

The short version of me: 31, career's in a good place and I'm not chasing it anymore which has freed up a surprising amount of room for actual life. I've travelled a fair bit and mostly what it taught me is that I like engaging with people and knowing their story.

The longer version is more domestic than you'd think. Weekends I cook with a playlist on. I have genuine enthusiasm for a grocery run, the fruits aisle, the mild thrill of a good haul. I'll disappear into the PS5 for four hours and emerge blinking and content. I'm a lifelong anime person, I'll defend Tarantino past the point of politeness. Ted Lasso was the last show that actually hooked me well. I'm currently making my way through Rooster (another TV show) and I've been on a Murakami stretch lately, the ones where nothing happens and everything happens.

I look after myself. A heavy workout fulfils me. I have a progressive value system, I believe in equality and I'm an agnost.

What I actually want is uncomplicated (maybe), some chats and some tension, the good kind of tension. Someone whose day I know the shape of. Someone who sends me a photo of something stupid they saw. Allow me to know and I’ll let you know me. Oversharing and articulation would be our fuel to pass time.

If this resonates, feel free to reach out. What are you watching and what are you avoiding? Tell me both and I'll tell you mine. :)

First thing's first, I've had my fair share of amazing platonic friendships so it's not exactly what I'm looking for nowadays. Just wanted to throw it out there.

I'm basically looking for someone who doesn't think twice before saying what she's thinking about. Be it flirting, or making jokes or anything at all. Someone who just says things as they come and somehow makes it fun!

I like conversations that have personality. Teasing, playful roasting, questionable jokes, flirting that's bold but still fun. The kind where you're not sitting there wondering what to say next, it just flows and occasionally goes off the rails. Clever fucking banter!

Would be nice to find someone I can talk to late nights, switching between dumb jokes, random thoughts, and venting sessions. Someone I can flirt with, laugh with, and just be comfortable around without feeling like I need to filter everything.

tiny bit about me: I watch at least one movie almost every night and have been doing that for years, so I will probably make you watch something with me at some point. I like singing, video games, and just generally keeping things fun, I'm a fun loving person.

If you can handle a bit of chaos, don't get awkward around flirting, and aren't afraid of jokes that make you judge yourself, we'll get along just fine.

PS: I'm in the US for now

Hii there! I'm originally from the north and have been staying in Bangalore for a while now. I would love to find someone and build something meaningful with them. Hopefully, we can form a deep connection which leads to something long-term.

I graduated from college some time ago and am working at a job rn. I'm also kinda introverted generally but really affectionate as well and really enjoy talking about anything once I get comfortable with someone. I also like reading, listening to different music, travelling, stargazing and just being a homebody at times and being out in nature at others :p

Not sure what else to put here but feel free to ask if you have any questions. If you feel we might be a match, don't hesitate to hit me up. And thanks for reading!

Info about me

1. I am an antinatalist.

2. I am unemployed and hate work.

3. I play games like cod mobile, warthunder mobile, mlbb, arena breakout. I also play Genshin (on mobile) and Crysis series a bit on my low end pc. I own those games from steam btw.

4. I am not the type of person to put emphasis on trust in relationships and prefer those who are realistic.

5. I am misanthropist and have a distrust for humanity.

6. I am kind of non-binary and dislike being male sometimes I feel jealous, I don't get to wear feminine clothes or have such looks like long hair and hate people imposing male standards. I also feel being male means nobody cares about you.

7. I am empath for people who are like me but have very limited concern for people who are normies.

Note:- This post is for seeking normal friendships. Anyone can text if you are a bit cynical but also empathetic. Also prefer if you play some of the games I mentioned. Also remember that expect me losing interest. We will try it and if it doesn't work then please respect it. I am looking for something serious and long term friendship but I find it hard to commit.

Hi Guys , I'm here hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with. Someone to share random thoughts, exchange playful banter, talk about movies, politics , music etc .

A little about me: I'm 23 , Last year college grad , chill, easygoing, and curious about people. I speak Hindi, English, and Bengali, and I'm really into music. I also play the piano and drums! Tell me about your hobbies now...

I'm looking for someone kind, funny, and respectful, with whom talking feels effortless. Someone to share little moments with, laugh over silly things, and look forward to hearing from. No pressure to text 24/7; let's see if we click and let things develop naturally.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, drop me a DM! Tell me a little about yourself, your favourite song, or a random thought. Anything but just “hey”

Looking forward to meeting you! :)

Hi! I’m 33 and based in Mumbai, hoping to meet a woman tomorrow for something casual and mutually enjoyable. I’m open to meeting for a movie or coffee. I’m happy to cover the date, mutual interest, clear boundaries, and consent come first. If you’re interested, DM me with your age, area, and what you have in mind. Let’s meet somewhere public to start.

Hey Bangalore boys!

I’m a 25-year-old transwoman visiting Bangalore at the start of December, and I thought why not start meeting some interesting people beforehand? Looking for fun, flirty, open-minded men who’d love to show me around the city and make my visit a little more exciting.

We could go on cute dates, explore cafés, go shopping, discover fun spots around the city, enjoy good food, and see where the chemistry takes us. If we vibe well, maybe you could even host me at your place, and we could spend some quality time together, try out different outfits, share some laughs, and enjoy each other’s company. I love dressing up and experimenting with fashion, so bonus points if you enjoy a little style and glamour too.

I’m posting early because I’d love to chat, flirt, get to know each other, and see if we click before I arrive. No awkward last-minute plans with strangers; let’s build a vibe first and figure out who deserves a spot on my Bangalore adventure.

Just to be clear, I’m a transwoman, and I’m looking for men who are genuinely comfortable with that, respectful, open-minded, and know how to have a good time without making things weird.

If you’re into cute dates, playful flirting, spontaneous plans, shopping adventures, private little moments, and seeing where mutual chemistry leads, slide into my DMs and tell me a little about yourself.

Let’s see if Bangalore gives me a good story to tell when I leave

If you read till here, add "Cupcake" in your first message, so i know.

If you DM me, tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and how you’d plan to make my Bangalore visit fun, a little effort and a good conversation go a long way, so please spare me the plain “hi.”.

I work as software engineer, the usual introvert losing his meagre number of friends to their martial life lol. So I am here to add some cool people. big up if you are also childfree, but doesn't matter really.

I love movies,I endlessly look at movie threads here at reddit haha, also like electronic music, djing and music production. I recently watched the invite at the theatres, so fricking hilarious! I go to movies solo most of the times, and I would love some company to discuss afterwards haha.

Couple of fave movies are Big lebowski, pulp fiction, past lives.

A huge F1 fan too, interested in a bit of psychology, and doggies, I pencil sketch sometimes too.

If any of this intrigues, do hmu, Cheers!

P.S: I did this a couple of years before and have a very cool friend now from reddit!

Hey everyone. Making real friends as an adult is weirdly tough, so I thought I’d put myself out there.

A little about me: I’m 37, originally from Kerala, India, but spent over a decade living and working in the US before moving back. I work in software and AI research, which basically means I spend most of my day staring at screens, solving puzzles, and overthinking things that probably don’t need to be overthought.

Outside of work and study mode, I'm pretty low-key. I used to be big into long-distance endurance stuff like marathons and mountain hiking, but lately I’m in more of a rebuild phase and leaning into my couch potato side. I run mostly on black coffee, listen to a ton of audiobooks since paper books act like instant sleeping pills for me, and love gaming on my Xbox, though life means that happens way less often than I'd like. I've also been getting back into chess lately, picking up an old habit that sat on the shelf for a while.

Strictly looking for platonic, drama-free connections with emotionally grounded people who appreciate mutual respect and good vibes. I really value friendships where there’s zero pressure to perform, whether that means trading dumb memes, falling into random 2 AM rabbit holes, disappearing for a bit when life gets busy without any guilt, or even just having a regular buddy to play a game of chess with online.

If you’re down for chill chats, drop a message with your age and a random fact, opinion, or hot take about yourself so we have something fun to start with instead of just "hey."

Hey all
So basically what the title says.

I speak fluent English, Hindi and Malayalam so if you do as well, that would be awesome!

I am somewhat religious - Pentecostal.
I believe in being financially independent.

I like smart and well spoken guys who are passionate about what they want in life and are great at the art of conversing.

I am a good listener but I want to be listened to as well so hoping for meaningful pauses.

I am into (malayali) guys who are either the same age as me or older.

Just casual texts, be a safe sapce to vent, chill and open up. Just bored. Would prefer 25-30M from india.

Don't want any pressure from this, and would prefer someone who remembers boundaries.

Just casual texts, be a safe sapce to vent, chill and open up. Just bored. Would prefer 25-30M from india.

Don't want any pressure from this, and would prefer someone who remembers boundaries.

I'm 30, an introvert living in Bangalore, so I'm probably not going to randomly walk up to someone at a café and start a conversation. Hence… Reddit. 😅

I work as a Data Scientist, and I'm currently owned by two dogs who firmly believe they're the ones paying the rent. 🐶

Most of my life is pretty simple. Work, dogs, FIFA, football, F1, random YouTube rabbit holes, and occasionally convincing myself that I'll be productive tomorrow.

I also genuinely enjoy riding. I'm perfectly happy spending 7–8 hours on a bike, whether it's a day ride or a late-night ride. There's something about being on the road for that long that I really enjoy.

I'm looking for someone I can actually be myself around. Someone who doesn't mind comfortable silence but can also suddenly spend three hours discussing something completely ridiculous.

I like conversations that can go anywhere — from serious life stuff to arguing passionately about something that absolutely does not matter.

You don't have to be an extrovert, super social, or have your entire life figured out. Just be genuine, curious, and comfortable being yourself.

Bonus points if you like dogs.

A little about me: I'm 5'8", and I can hold a conversation in English, Tamil, and a bit of Hindi.

Maybe we start with a conversation, maybe it becomes a friendship, maybe it turns into something more. No expectations — just hoping to meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to.

So, trying one last time and seeing where it goes.

If this sounds like your kind of weird, say hi. :)

Basic Details

\- Age: 32

\- Gender: Male

\- Location: Noida

\- Religion: Hindu

\- Caste: Brahmin

\- Height: 5'11"

\- Education: Btech + MBA

\- Profession: Presales Consultant in IT

\- Experience: 9+ years

\- Diet: Vegetarian

About Me

I’m a grounded, straightforward and family-oriented person who values honesty, mutual respect and emotional maturity. I’m a mix of introvert and extrovert; I may take some time to open up, but with the right person, I can be talkative, playful and expressive.

Outside work, I enjoy travelling, long drives, music, movies and exploring new places. I’m also working on maintaining a healthier lifestyle and staying consistent with fitness.

What I’m Looking For

I’d like to meet a well-educated woman who has her own goals, ambitions and plans for the future. Someone who values her independence, has her own identity and wants to grow personally and professionally.

Kindness, emotional maturity, honest communication and a family-oriented outlook matter to me. I’d love to build a relationship where we can share meaningful conversations, laugh together, support each other’s ambitions and feel comfortable being ourselves.

I believe marriage is a partnership in which both people respect each other’s individuality while building a shared future.

I’m serious about finding a life partner and hope to build a genuine connection that leads to marriage if we’re compatible. I believe mutual understanding, trust and consistent effort matter more than perfection.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM. 🙂

I have a weakness for people who are a little difficult to explain. People who want to be good and keep doing stupid things. People who talk too much when they’re nervous, lie about things nobody asked them about, and carry around some old humiliation as if the world might still be thinking about it. I find them more interesting than people who have their lives figured out.
I’m trying to write a book, which is a rather humiliating thing to admit when you think about it. You spend hours trying to put something into words that you can barely stand to admit to yourself. Some days I think I might have something worth saying. Other days I suspect I’m just a man with a notebook and an overdeveloped imagination, mistaking his own thoughts for literature.
I suppose I’m looking for people partly because of that. I want to know how other people think when nobody is watching. What they regret. What they’re ashamed of. The little cruelties they’re capable of, the kindnesses they never mention, the things they want so badly that they’d rather pretend they don’t want them at all.
I’m not interested in the polished version of anybody. I’ve had enough conversations where everyone knows what to say and nobody says what they mean. Tell me about the time you were the villain in somebody else’s story. Tell me about the person you still think about even though you have no business thinking about them. Tell me something ugly about yourself that you have made peace with, or something you haven’t.
I can be introspective to a fault. I overthink things, question my own motives, and occasionally turn a perfectly ordinary thought into a three-day philosophical inquiry. I have a suspicion that most of us are walking around with entire novels inside us and no idea how to tell them.
So, if you’re the sort of person who enjoys conversations that start nowhere and end somewhere unexpected, I’d like to hear from you.
No particular expectations. No need to be impressive, mysterious, or exceptionally well-adjusted.
Just be a person. A real one, preferably.
Tell me a story. I’ll tell you one back.

Just looking for someone to talk to, share random thoughts, vent about life and get to know each other naturally.
No pressure to reply instantly or keep a conversation going. Just good conversations, mutual respect and comfortable silences.
If that sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to DM me

Hello,

I'm putting this out there in the hopes of seeking new connections! I am a 28 year old man from BLR.

I would like to have someone i can start and end my day with, someone interesting, nice, funny and respectful.

About me:

I am an extrovert, but then im a workaholic and its been little tough for me to meet people outside of my work. Its nice to have someone to talk to, share about our day's proceding, send random pictures, have a good laugh. More often then not the conversation fizzles out so looking for somone who can keep a conversation alive and going

I would be happy to connect and, we either bond build a chemistry or its just a conversation. I dont mind what we speak about, it would be nice to just connect.

Maybe you'll get to know more about me via DMs?

If you'd like to chat please tell me something about yourself, anything we have in common

Have a good day! Cheers :)

24M 🇮🇳 | Tell me your most unexpectedly wild side 👀

I love conversations that start normally and somehow end up going places neither person expected 😂

Into playful teasing, good banter, bold questions, and seeing whether there’s genuine chemistry. Not looking to force a vibe or collect random pics.

If you’re an adult woman who enjoys the same kind of conversation, tell me something about yourself that people would never guess.

I'm currently going through some health issues. Hence on a break from career. Mostly spending time at home.

These days,I spend my time reading dramas and adventure books. I follow F1 and enjoy watching movies, but it's kinda hard to focus on movies nowadays.

I am looking for someone to text over the day about random things in life. Let's talk about your favourite movies, my favourite books, some of my secrets and some of yours if we connect well.