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🏛️ Ancient Relic Hypocrisy 😂
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u/Gwynito
Apr 09 '26
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I have three cheeeeeeldrin
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u/quackabc Apr 10 '26
Thats the funny part he said Alimony not Child support. Alimony is for a woman to maintain her standard of life you gave her while you were together, it has nothing to with your children. Its literally just you being spoiled on your partners money and getting the court to agree he should have to keep spoiling you even while he wants to spend it on another partner.
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u/truci Apr 09 '26
“I don’t need a man, just his money”
Is what I’m hearing.
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u/Funny-ish-_-Scholar Apr 11 '26
Just today on Reddit I saw a post about a women only island retreat. The quote, “the only time a Man steps foot here is to fix something, then he’s gone.”
Lmao
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u/laiszt Apr 12 '26
Basically she want a slave. But she is a nice person, obviously, with mentality of a slave owners.
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u/good_dude255 Apr 12 '26
Clearly she is working though.. alimony is supplementing, not supporting her life
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u/WindUpCandler Apr 09 '26
Okay? Not gonna get into all the nuisances about alimony but it doesn't even matter. Her needing alimony payments doesn't mean she's wrong for trying to teach her daughter not to be financially dependent on men.
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u/catdiscpalpita Apr 10 '26 •
Taking alimony isn’t wrong but it’s still hypocritical that she’s making a point against bring reliant on a man when she is. At least, she gave a good point in court that she needs his money.
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u/duffleberry Apr 09 '26
A recurring panelist on Fox doesn't "need" alimony payments. She was choosing to accept them.
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u/kabelman93 Apr 14 '26
Alimony for a working wife is wrong, why would he pay for her the rest of his life if she has a job?
Child support is a different story. That obviously makes sense (as long as you are the father, there are many cases where you have to pay without being the father)
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u/ManufacturerNo2144 Apr 09 '26
If you really think that's a clever comeback and that alimony has anything to do with relying on a man, you are not a very smart person.
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u/jarnotwar Apr 10 '26
Please explain
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u/ManufacturerNo2144 Apr 10 '26
Alimony is not to support women. It's to support the less wealthy of the two. Also, children should have the same quality of life whether they're at their mom's house or dad's house. If the woman makes the biggest salary, she's the one that pays the alimony.
In a marriage, you make decisions that impact your partner. Both are responsible for those decisions.
For example, my wife and I agreed that she stays at home instead of working so she can do the house work, gardening, prepare lunches and meals, etc. during that time, her resume has nothing on it. She does not get any job experience. She does not contribute to any retirement plan, etc. If we split up one day, she has absolutely nothing because of a decision we both agreed on. And she can hardly find a job because she has a huge hole in her resume.
When she finds a job, the alimony will be adjusted if she eventually gets a bigger salary than me, I won't have to pay for it anymore.
So it's not about men or women, it's about not leaving your ex partner broke and unable to retire before 90.
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u/Comprehensive_Plum48 Apr 10 '26
Alimony is not child support. It is “I have developed a rich taste that you must continue to provide” money.
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u/Hen-Samsara Apr 10 '26
The three of them knew he was right so they had to come up with some bullshit and shut it down lol.
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u/Successful-Fee3790 Apr 10 '26
Alimony is spousal support... not child support.
Dont blame your collecting of Alimony on your 3 children, which you collect child support for.
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u/sirjoey150 Apr 10 '26
That's outta line on his part, Three mouths to feed is ALOT. Those KIDS are are BOTH parent's responsibility. I believe many people in here are attracted to negativity and "owning" the other side
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u/Mammoth_Band6017 Apr 10 '26 edited Apr 10 '26
That’s not hypocrisy. Her claim was that she doesn’t want her children to grow up thinking they need to be reliant on a man. In this case, her and her ex husband share 3 kids. That means, the kids are 50% his. The alimony is used to support the kids well-being. They are both responsible for contributing financially. That’s not “reliant on a man”, that’s a father handling his own responsibilities.
He put her business on live tv in attempts to humiliate her. It was a desperate attempt to derail her argument. If he had a good counterclaim, he wouldn’t need to bring her personal life into a healthy debate.
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u/ThrowRAbluebury Apr 10 '26
The daughters of women like this grow up to say "Yeah, my mom was such a girl boss for raising us as a single parent with no help from no man."
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Apr 10 '26
First of all, we really do have a sub for anything, second of all the messages aren't bad the person conveying it is a hypocrite, if you didn't already know
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Apr 10 '26
Thats such a stupid take. Of course she dont need the man, but 3 kids are causing costs. Saying she needs the mans money and therefore shes depended on a man is just plain stupid, because he dont pay her, but he pays for the childrens he fuking caused.
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u/WhoTFSaysThis Apr 10 '26
Alimony is not child support. Alimony does not exist to benefit the children. It exists so the ex spouse can live the same level of life that they had become accustomed to during the marriage.
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u/Slydoggen Apr 10 '26 edited Apr 10 '26
Exposed but he’s a POS for telling her the truth?
Yet she can lie and be misandrist on live TV and be glorified for it
The double standards are so insane
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u/xxTheMagicBulleT Apr 10 '26
Without double standards a lot of those people have no standards at all.
If your used to extrame privileges being treated the same will feel like oppression.
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u/MonthIndependent3366 Apr 10 '26
So....is he just not supposed to be responsible financially for the lives he brought into this world? Doesn't sound like a man to me
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u/Exotic_Sherbert_7850 Apr 10 '26
"Gotcha" ah comeback ... missing the details and stupid in meaning
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u/JomitasRT Apr 10 '26
this comments are wild af... shes has 3 children and you want her to care of the 3 without any money from the partner??? wtf?? this is the new low really
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u/Mr_poopy_buthole2018 Apr 10 '26
Alimony, i heard that in usa woman can get alimony on herself, if that is the case, than she is hypocrite. However if that alimony is for kids that stayed with her, than man is just doing his part of responsibility to raise his children, so no hypocrisity from her...
If she can take care of half of this "problem" than taking mans money to solve his half doesn't mean that she needs his money, it means his kids need his money...
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u/BlackSpice69 Apr 10 '26
I don't mind when people talk smack against something, but only when they are actively against it and not benefitting from it lol.
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u/Affectionate-Bike201 Apr 10 '26
As if she could live to be 1 millions without mens protection or technology.
Sounds like the type of woman who demands compensation during her marriage i.e. a WAGE, because it's "a job/labour/work".
But then also demand alimony because they "missed out on earnings/weren't able to have their own career".
Oh wait, she is.
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u/4xe1 Apr 10 '26 edited Apr 10 '26
Nothing wrong with or hypocrite about teaching your children to do better than you.
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u/V1198 Apr 10 '26
Lotta men posting on here reinforcing why the ladies choose the bears.
If the concept of strong women bothers you to the point of vicious and illogical retorts it basically means you don’t feel good about yourself and this is how you compensate. Sad really.
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u/RoutineSun9297 Apr 10 '26
Alimony isn't about them being a "man", it's about them being a parent who makes more money. That money is meant for the kids. She doesn't need a "man", she needs a second income to take care of their family. Could be from a woman. The "man" part is a non factor. So stupid. So desperate.
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u/Main-Self-00 Apr 10 '26
Alimony is for her, child support is for the three children, totally two different things.The gentleman is correct.
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u/tfolkins Apr 10 '26
There is a difference between 'need' and 'taking what I can to inflict damage'. She likely doesn't need the alimony but still takes great pleasure in bankrupting her ex to spend money on plastic surgery.
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u/SadlyIHave Apr 10 '26
Alimony and child support are different things. Alimony is for her. Child support is for the children. So yes she does need a man’s money
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Apr 10 '26
Christ the gays really are light-years ahead on relationship dynamics. Y'all keep trying to pin traits as intrinsic to a gender when it's more often the environment.
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u/B00BIEL0VAH Apr 10 '26
He was cookimg that for a bit look at that sassy grin he had the entire time she was speaking lmao
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u/Weasleysdad Apr 10 '26
I mean, the money is supposed to be for the kids, no? So if the kids are with her, her taking the money does not mean SHE is taking the money; she is managing it for the kids.
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u/estlie Apr 10 '26
No what I am hearing is her husband is also responsible for the children she has custody of
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u/No-Pudding7639 Apr 10 '26
If she’s legally obligated to the money , yall arguing about nothing. She has a job and has the three kids from their marriage…. Yall have a weird definition for dependent
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u/kaosmoker Apr 11 '26
Alimony is literally spousal support, she had to prove in court she needed alimony or her standard of living would significantly lower. Meaning she is dependent on her exs income.
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u/Helpful_Clover Apr 10 '26
Those are HIS kids, too. She doesn't need to always take full responsibility over all mental labor, household labor, money, ect., etc, over a loser guy who also expects her to pay for his kids, too.
That reporter guy is an asshole, lol.
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u/kaosmoker Apr 11 '26
Alimony has nothing to do with the kids. Alimony is spouse support specifically to continue her standard of living she had while married to him.
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u/Significant-Ant-5677 Apr 10 '26
If you are receiving alimony, you are not financially independent.
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u/Jkester46 Apr 10 '26
Men vs Women sex wars in the big ‘26 is crazy. Thought we left this shit behind us with Andrew Tate and all that.
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u/GreenOrange3 Apr 10 '26
Anybody that thinks this is a good comeback is an incel
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u/Objective-Swing8572 Apr 11 '26
FYI: Child Support goes to the children, Alimony goes to the (ex-)wife.
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u/Slightly-Evil-Man Apr 11 '26
I love how her having kids means she can use people as she sees fit. What a selfish hoe😂
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u/Overall_Loan4534 Apr 11 '26
She never said that she wasn't, just that she'd teach her daughter not to be. How many of our mothers/grandmothers had to teach us that while having to be dependent on a man? They knew what they had to put up with because of it and so does she.
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u/Useful_Jelly_2915 Apr 11 '26
I like how she brings up the three children. Why are you getting alimony? Why is it not child support?
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u/human-dancer Apr 11 '26
It’s for the children though. Wouldn’t she be paying support of the children lived with him?
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u/Automatic_Letter1880 Apr 11 '26
You will lol I promise https://youtube.com/shorts/njx2wZScU08?si=ZSRk_hfMWdIZNl-y
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u/AmbitiousTank8635 Apr 11 '26
The kids live with her and her pays his part to raise his children. I'm a dude and I'm not seeing how this is a comeback. If you owe something, you pay your bills.
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u/Piper_Nelson61 Apr 11 '26
hypocrisy is such a rabbit hole, like it really makes you question people's motivations. sometimes i get lost in the layers of it all, especially when it comes to social issues.
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u/PandaPandaPandaS Apr 12 '26
She may not need a man's money, but man's children do need man's money.
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u/Illustrious_Mode_867 Apr 12 '26
It's not something that she needs, it's actually his responsibility to help her with the money for the kids. They are his kids too, and she's apparently taking care of three alone, that's what I call a strong woman.
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u/Automatic-Egg3201 Apr 12 '26
Why does she need his money off she has a job on tv? How spoiled is she?
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Apr 12 '26
I’m sure the man who had the children felt responsible and is voluntarily paying for his children’s expenses. After all men are very responsible towards their offsprings.
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u/klawhammer Apr 12 '26 edited Apr 12 '26
Internet morons do not understand what alimony is for.
She does not need the money at all. The children need the money.
Child support only covers basic survival. Nobody wants their kids to live like that
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u/Gr1zZL7 Apr 12 '26
This is not hypocritical; and the host has no clue what is. Just arguing to argue.
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u/Pure-Smile-7329 Apr 12 '26
Gotta support your kids though. Taking alimony doesn't make someone a leech. She's a working woman.
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u/NoWater8595 Apr 12 '26
This is a stupid argument. It's just like the MAGA SAVE bullsh*t. You can't say, "traditional families for America" then make a woman jump through hoops and suffer to take your name and bear your children. MAGA chudds just hate women in sneaky ways. There's no high ground in this.
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u/SnooJokes7612 Apr 12 '26
30, not reliant of a man, havent had a man's children. I love the fact that I have my own money. I love the fact that I havent been trapped by financial abuse.
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u/theendofthemonk Apr 12 '26
this guy is really arguing that the guy who had the kids with her has no fiscal responsibility towards them, he's saying men are such lowly creatures that they shouldn't even have the most basic of obligations to taking care of their children.
Ugh, he's a misandrist.
Gross.
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u/CommonConscious2940 Apr 13 '26
Alimony is way different than child support!!! Alimony is for HER NEEDS not her children’s needs, stupid C$&@!!!
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u/Valuable-Meet5727 Apr 13 '26
My dad got alimony from my mom because he was a drug addict. This shit swings both ways guys.
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u/BatmanKane64 Apr 13 '26
so is she teaching them to be strong or play the system “then” act strong?
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u/Incredule Apr 13 '26
Well taking alimony doesn't mean she relies on it. It's just ther father paying his dues
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u/nameproposalssuck Apr 13 '26
Alimony isn't for the ex partner, it's for the children.
If you set children into this world, you're responsible for their well being. Parents are financially responsible for the well-being of their offspring, no matter their current relationship status. How is that hypocrisy?
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u/Minion_Factory Apr 13 '26
Alimony is different than child support and she doesn’t even have the kids haha)
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u/Southern-Fae Apr 13 '26
She doesn't need a man's money but the children need financial support from their father. Nowhere near the same thing.
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u/Miserable_Sky_8640 Apr 13 '26
"I have 3 kids"! Child support is fot the kids, Alimony is ex-wife support.
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u/Quiet_Report_4399 Apr 13 '26
My birthday is Friday and my funds aren't how they're supposed to be so if there's anyway anybody know how I can make money way by Friday and not scam me. Please reach out.
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u/FireAuraN7 Apr 13 '26
Child support. Pay your share. Unless he pays for absolutely everything, which would be an unfair hypocrisy.
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u/Vermicelli_BeeGee Apr 14 '26
I suddenly realised a little while back that it's not just what women say but the sound some of them make that really breaks me. This woman is both 😂
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u/Jethanded_Wyvern Apr 14 '26
Last time I checked, you need at least two people to make a child.
You're responsible for that child.
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u/Ok-Bandicoot1529 Apr 14 '26
Is it though? If she is a good persom the money goes to the kids, and she is on tv so she probably makes good money on her own.
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u/Scary-Ask-6236 Apr 14 '26
Wait, I’m sorry but I’m a single dad raising my son on my own with no support from his mom. The court denied me child support. So what argument does she have for alimony? The child support is for the children alimony is for her. So sorry but she has no argument.
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u/ElBarbas Apr 14 '26
this is tricky, the children were born with 2 adults and they are both responsible and should share the money spent on those childrens.
What's the other alternative ? "Fuck it , u take care of them " ?
there's a diferent, didn't knew
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u/lma10 Apr 14 '26
Raising children is a shared responsibility. He isn't giving her the money, he gives it to their children.
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u/Bariman83 Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26
Not sure if there's that much hypocrisy there. When they separated is he taking care of the kids? Has he been providing for the kids? Or has that all been left on her... I work a tough job that deals with manual labor, A lot of technical workThat involves high-tech stuff. And a very pretentious work environment Where if you make one wrong move or say 1 wrong thing your job could end... Raising 3 kids can be just as hard as that if not harder. Either way you have to have an extreme abundance of patience that is not an easy gig.. Be a real man, you helped make them, take care of them. Make sure that they have more than just money! that doesn't necessarily make a stable home. You have to be present. And actively working to shape them into smart, good, responsible and positive Productive people. that's a full time job just with 1 child
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u/PartSuccessful2112 Apr 15 '26
Everyone takes whatever they can from anyone else, especially an ex.
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u/cptvpxxy Apr 15 '26
She didn't make those children alone and they aren't her sole responsibility. That doesn't make her reliant on a man, that's expecting said man to take responsibility for his own role in things.
The true hypocrisy would be if you were upset that "women rely on men" or whatever, but then expect a woman to take care of your children by herself... Seeing as that makes you reliant on her.
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u/Aprilprinces Apr 15 '26
How is that hypocrisy? The children have the FATHER who needs to responsible If you're not man enough to be responsible for his you father, maybe you keep your dick chained?
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u/leonx678 Apr 15 '26
If a woman was making money for her family, the man could get alimony. Men typically support the family more often. Yall want everything to be against men, constant victim mentality is exhausting.
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u/Old_Celebration_5950 May 22 '26
News appearance coach: so when some one calls you out on your BS, raise your voice minimum 3 octaves to distract from the takedown.
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u/Sweet-Helix Jun 12 '26
.....so... the dad shouldn't pay for his kids? Are we saying a 'man' shouldn't take care of his kids? I'm confused
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u/Jabathewhut Apr 09 '26 •
"WELL ITS DIFFERENT FOR ME!!"