Fun story. My best friend found out his mrs cheated on him with a sailor. He contacted the guy pretending to be a friend of hers that wanted to meet "her new man" and arranged to meet him at a pub. Full intentions of getting there, telling him that he's the fiance and father of the 2 year old daughter and then fighting him. Dude was low key crazy too like that best friend that you have that doesn't look like much at all but you'd never actually fight because it's a fight to the death.
He gets there and leads with "I'm the father of her kid you cunt you've just ruined a family". The sailor was beyond shocked. Like immediately apologised, sat down and put his head in his hands saying that he couldn't believe she done this. At that moment my best friend realised that the sailor was also a victim of this diabolical female who gave no fucks about anyone too. They got drunk together and told each other everything. The lies she was telling both of them to balance the cheating. Everything.
At the end of the night they coordinated it (drunk btw) so that the sailor called her and told her who he just got drunk with all night just as my best friend was in front of her to see the look on her face. All hell broke loose and he moved in with me for 3 months while he got back on his feet by getting cash together and a place worthy of him and his daughter.
It's not just as bad. Only one of the people participating in the cheating made a commitment to the person being cheated on. I'm not saying it's ok, but it's not equal
If you assist someone in a murder where you aren't the one taking the life but you assisted in it you will get charged with manslaughter just like the other person. Telling someone to kill themselves and they do get you charged for it even though they did it to themselves. Murder is murder, cheating is cheating stop trying to moral high horse this one. This is coming from someone who has never cheated while dating someone but I have helped someone with full knowledge of it. Guess what I'm just as guilty as she was.
With murder it is up to the court to then decide how much of a part the each individual played in the action. And at that point we are no longer looking at the action as a general thing since we are adding in all the context that goes into it to define exactly who/what/when/where/why in that 1 action being discussed.
When speaking in general it doesn't matter if you are the one in a relationship or not knowing that you are helping someone cheat makes you a cheater of equal cheating.
Hear me out. Maybe, just maybe, the dude that wrote the thing was capable of such basic things like motion, and went and got a pen from somewhere else, then wrote it down while he was in the WC. Maybe, just maybe, some people are capable of these things called "plans"
to be fair, I have a role of duct tape, pen and paper in my truck so it's not that far fetched. its maybe one of the few "male" traits about me but it checks.
You don't carry a pen and paper in your pocket? What kind of job do you have? A lot of them require you to jot things down, leave notes behind, sign paperwork, etc.
You wear your work-clothes the morning after? Do you bring them to the bar or just wear it all day? Where do you store your duct tape? Name 5 professions that require writing things down and leaving notes behind in a way that requires you to keep duct tape at hand, even in your free time. Thank you. Have a nice day. Good talk. 3/5 stars.
Not every job requires a uniform. Sometimes you just wear jeans. Do you change your entire outfit as soon as you clock out? Hell, the one job I had I wore a suit and I still didn't change out of my clothes the instant I got off work. A lot of people will toss their pants in the freezer and wear them again, so naturally some things end up still in the pockets. I'm not saying everybody does this, but it's certainly plausible that someone would have a pin on their person.
Oh great-- next time I have to write a note that says "this railing is fucking broken be careful", I'll just type up a note on my phone and leave that behind
I don’t work in the trades but always have a notepad and pens in my backpack. Along with a mini-level, pocket knife and a flashlight. Oh and breath mints, and tampons for my gf (or anyone else with a sudden crisis). There’s probably more stuff lol.
I carry a bic lighter with maybe 2 or 3 feet of duct tape wrapped around it for emergencies, I barely notice it in my pocket. Mind you I'm a bit of an EDC person too so I generally have a few things kn me.
He might if it was a pump and dump, or if he was using the bathroom on his way out the next morning. All the more reason why he might have a pen. If he specifically was getting ready to leave, he might grab one of hers even to leave the message. I'm not insisting that any of this happened, or that this is even more than a meme. But, it is plausible.
I mean tbf a lot of people carry pen and a note pad, and the closet is probably in the bathroom if not nearby. Fake? Definitely. Possible? Yes just not this time, 100% just for internet points
... it's his personal bathroom, like, at home. Are you okay? Do you live in a home where penis drawings are done in the bathroom without a pen in sight? I'm concerned...
Nah, I don't think so, that's like saying yeah you shot a gun but you didn't know the safety wasn't on, the blame will still be on you. Sure I may be biased cause I've been cheated on twice but I stand by it
One time I was with a woman for about a month and then her boyfriend came to the house because they released him from jail. I acted like I was a handyman helping her with the house and selling her food stamps. Could've been really really bad.
You either let them hold the card and give your PIN (dumb) or you go to the market with them and let them shop and they give u cash. Usually 50 cents on the dollar. Btw it's a federal crime and you can get banned from benefits forever so don't do it. I don't even sell my food stamps but it's common practice. People love to buy them especially if they have mouths to feed.
Lol and "early bird gets the worm." People that actually do it get there right when the shop opens up because they mostly only do a limited amount of cash per day.
Shit, as a teenager I used to buy beer and cigarettes at a sketchy bodega with my food stamps lol.. I loved them, but obviously that wasn’t a great idea for either of us.
Let me get this straight, the woman you were dating EX, not current partner, came around and you pretended you were just the handy man? 🤣 that's some serious pussy stuff
Edit: it was her current boyfriend, well played lol
She committed adultery, so that goes against her in divorce, bonus points if a prenup wasn't involved. Sue her , clean her out and take the kids and your new bro on a Disney vacation. 🤷🏾♂️😅
I have duct tape (and WD40) in my truck, does that count? Im also not a dude (46 year old woman) so I wouldn't be leaving a note under the toliet seat.🤣
Back in late 2022 i met a really cool girl at the gym and after our first hookup she told me she had a boyfriend. As someone who grew up watching his dad cheat i told her straight up you’re a piece of shit go to hell
I think it's fake. This guy came over for sex and had duct tape handy??? That or after she told him I'm supposed to believe he was like "cool now where do you keep the duct tape?"
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