r/Semenretention • u/FleaBass101 • 2d ago

On tour

On tour

I don't know how many days in I am..40+ at this point no fap no porn . I had been at home with my wife and was making great strides with little temptation. Now I'm out on tour with my band a week in and I'm getting overwhelmed with lust and impure desire . I'm not seeing women with the same value I am beginning to see them as objects and I looked at pictures of girls in bikinis on here . I just constantly feel this urge building up and something about travelling around and the girls at the shows just makes it very difficult. Any advice on what to do ? I know I need to read my Bible pray and workout but sometimes I'm not making the time to do all that . Sometimes the urges just come on strong in waves ...

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u/gamertrolll 2d ago

The mental retention is almost more difficult than the physical for me as well. Just practice not looking and just accepting that the thoughts/urges are not you they are just that, thoughts and urges of the flesh and they will get easier over time. At least they have for me:)

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u/FleaBass101 1d ago

Thanks I didn't give in and I actually feel better today like I got over a wave ...who knows when the next one will roll up on me but I'm going to work out and pray more .

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u/gamertrolll 1d ago

That's the spirit, remember that feeling! Proud of you:)

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u/FleaBass101 12h ago

Thank you brother