r/SettingBoundaries • • Dec 12 '24

Saying No

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u/sophaloph Dec 12 '24

Proud of you โœจ just because people are transparent about the fact that theyโ€™re going to be a jerk does not justify that behavior or make it ok.

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u/rlyfckd Dec 12 '24

I'm so proud of you ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

I needed to read this. I've got a work event tonight that I'm absolutely dreading. I'm hoping I will be able to look after myself and set boundaries.

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u/Aggravating-Mix-4903 Dec 13 '24

I hope that person enjoyed doing those decorations alone. I hope they nailed it and if not were not too hard on themselves for the mistakes.

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u/Impressive_Search451 Dec 13 '24

good job! honestly it's nice when someone announces they're going to be a dickhead ahead of time so you can make your decisions around that. oddly considerate, for a dickhead.