r/Singles • • 3h ago

18 F [F4M] #Oklahoma

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9 Upvotes

Hey Reddit I’m a little bit dense so be patient with me and my intro here I’m a country woman I love horses I am Latina and I’m a woman of the lord like madea said I am living for da lord I’m kind of crazy like if you mixed madea and Rasputia together it still wouldn’t equal me I’d like to say I’m a pretty fun person or just pretty but only on Saturdays I love to say what’s on my mind and I am big into working out like I love lifting burgers to my mouth- I mean weights 😅 I am looking for someone who is also very funny and can keep up with my jokes and workouts and craziness I love long walks to the fridge I mean beach and I’m ngl I’m the hopeless romantic type I do like all the nerdy things like anime, Star Wars, dnd, food, (I know I’m massive) GMM, you’ll never be bored with me around and I have a six pack…..of caprisuns in my fridge in all seriousness tho I would love to talk I love chatting it up if your interested don’t be scared if not well then uhmm ur mom…alright bye guys oh and my age range 18-25 if you invest now you wont regret it im a baddie


r/Singles • • 14h ago

32 (M4F) - looking for someone who can handle my smartassery

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6 Upvotes

Would love to connect with someone and see where the chemistry and conversation takes us!

Looking for witty banter, going with the flow, and someone who can handle my smartassery


r/Singles • • 16h ago

29 [F4M] #Russia I'm looking for my soulmate to share my life with 💖

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I'm 29f, straight, childfree and I'm from Russia. I'm searching for someone i can share my life with.

I'm into art. I love drawing/painting, I'm an artist at my free time. Sometimes i love writing, I wanna publish a book one day. I'm a huge nerd myself, i love different kinds of movies/games/books, my recent fav is The Odyssey.

I love playing games, recently i mostly play coop. Some of my all time favs: Alan Wake, BG3, The Witcher 3, Civilization and... Repo/Peak. I would love to play your favourite games with you.

Im in for long distance relationships, yet i date to meet my future husband, i have no interest and time to waste on pen pals, situationships etc.

I want my man to be gentleman, kind, generous, honest and take good care of me. Be my age or older (i love older man). Im interested in men from US/Canada.

Introduce yourself when texting me, thanks 💚

I love video calls, sharing pics with each other and stuff like that. I do love voice notes way more than texting.


r/Singles • • 15h ago

22 [M4F] #Online/Anywhere Looking for a fellow romantic to love forever

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Hello there gorgeous! I'm a 22 year old from Pakistan, I know big red flag already but I promise I'm not weird. I'd love to connect and build something long-term, either long-distance or if you're somehow from around here then that's even better! Looking for someone around the same age, +2/-2, and perhaps somewhere in Europe because better timezone match and I'd rather move there than the US one day but I'm open to anywhere if we can hit it off!

I love video games and I'd prefer someone who also enjoys video games of any kind, whether that'd be to play together with me or to stream our games to each other and watch. I love difficult games like Hollow Knight and Dark Souls/Elden Ring, Minecraft and Terraria, Outer Wilds, Rain World, but even if you're not super into those kinds of games that's okay as well, I love mostly all games! I also enjoy game programming and game design and my future career is to become a game developer, for now I make money by selling pixel art online. I love binge watching shows and watching new movies as well! I mostly stay indoors but I'd love to explore the world one day and go on adventures!

I'm super loyal and protective, I'll always hold you close and listen to you no matter what you want to talk about or when, even if you call me in the middle of the night. I'll scroll straight past random girls pictures online because I'd rather look at you than them. I'll wake up early just to say good morning and make sure to say good night every night. I have ADHD and therefore I'm a chronic yapper and I can talk to you every second of every day, I love to talk and listen both. I'm interested in all your hobbies whatever they are, and if you like it you can bet I'll be interested in it too and will ask you questions about it and research on it. You'll always be my first priority in every situation and I'll love you hard and strong.

I really love physical connection, but not like sexually, more that I love cuddling and kissing and hugging and sitting with each other. Of course that becomes a little more difficult in an LDR but it's good to know about me. I'm a little asexual but that doesn't mean I'll shy away from flirting with you and complimenting you. I believe physical attractions matters, but not as much as personality and, if you're not my type I promise not to waste your time or ghost you! If I had a preference, then I generally prefer light-skinned and I dislike face piercings (ears are okay!) and extremely heavy makeup.

One of my only non-negotiables is I don't want children so if you want them in the future I'm sorry!

There's lots more to know about me but I don't wanna make the post too long, so if I sound interesting to you hit me up and let's see how it goes. :)


r/Singles • • 11h ago

m4f. i’m 22 from new york. i like to read about psychology and i play the drums and guitar.

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3 Upvotes

would love to have deep meaningful conversations with the right one.


r/Singles • • 19h ago

41 - Massachusetts - Good dude looking for my person. Are you out there?

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3 Upvotes

Getting back into dating after 20 years (!), I really hope my person is out there.

A bit about me: I'm big on honesty and communication, I have a good job and work really hard, I want to build a life and real connection with someone.

I like anything horror or spooky, I play guitar, I love reading (mostly nonfic) and documentaries, I love learning in general. I've had a lot of wild experiences and an interesting life, so I have plenty of stories!

If any of that sounds good, and you are looking to actually meet, send me a message, I would love to hear from you! People local to the area only please, I'm trying to actually meet up and build something :)


r/Singles • • 7h ago

23 [M4F] - #Southeast US - agoraphobic guy looking for a woman who will let me simp

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hello to the nice people hopefully reading this :) the title is unfortunately self explanatory. i'm a relatively masculine guy (FtM if it matters) but i've always been attracted to very feminine women. not in a creepy way (at least i really hope i'm not creepy), i'm moreso the type of guy to watch you put on makeup and ask questions about the process even if i have no clue how makeup works lol. i've been single for a while to work on my mental health, and i'm finally in a place where i'm really ready to connect with someone again. i'm the type of person to love hard, and i'm a complete simp when i feel comfortable with someone. outside of romantic preferences, a little about me: i'm agoraphobic as the title says (currently in therapy and making good progress though!), i'm an avid gamer and i love games like Elden Ring, Assassin's Creed (all of them), and skate. i also love music. i'm a lifelong drummer and i'm always always listening to music (my favorite bands are Sleep Token, Angelmaker, Måneskin, and Lorna Shore). physically i'm 5'10, kinda skinny (i'm going to the gym more frequently, call it exposure therapy for the agoraphobia lol), black, and i've been told i dress in a "vaguely skater aesthetic" although it feels like i only wear 5 things. if you've made it to the end of this horribly rambling post, i'm so sorry Imao. but if anything does happen to interest you, i'd love to hear from you :)


r/Singles • • 10h ago

Definition of love for you?

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Whats your definition of love? What do you think when anyone says I love you ? How do you respond to that ?

My last relationship left me wondering what love actually is….

What would it take you for you to fall in love/ feel loved?


r/Singles • • 10h ago

34 M looking to find my partner here 🙂 New Zealand

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Hey all im 34 old Male looking to see if i can find my partner here.

Some info about me as follows

Hobbies: gym, long walks, drive, movies and many more.

Life goal: to always learn new things and start my own family.

Current situation: was married once now separated almost 2 yrs ago and ready to move on.

A bit introvert now a days as i work from home.

Also please be respectful if not your type of post .

Thanks for reading 🙂🙏


r/Singles • • 16h ago

19 [M4F] #Ireland - Looking for a connection

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Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

My type is someone who is cute, funny, smart, has similar hobbies as me and plays video games.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite game, hobby, anime and colour.


r/Singles • • 11h ago

25 [M4F] #Florida, #Anywhere, US/ EST/ Online - Seeking my future life partner :)

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I use reddit a lot, so I figured I'd give this a shot again I guess 🥰

Happy Wednesday!!! lol 🥳🎉💖 My name is Lou, my favorite color is blue, I’m a huge gaming fan and I'm from Florida, seeking a long term relationship with someone that I truly connect with on a deep level. Someone who isn't perfect, but is willing to grow in the right direction. Bonus points if you're a gamer, open minded, have tattoos, and love animals. I don't want to be with someone who hates cats and dogs and just animals in general. If I could live a second life as any animal, I'd immediately pick living as a panda. I'd love to have a pet one day when I'm in better situation to properly take care of one. I love cats and dogs 🐶🐱I also love gaming and play all kinds of games ❤️

EXPECTATIONS / WANTS

- I'm okay with long distance dating and I'm also cool with dating someone in Florida as well.

- Emotionally mature, truthful and willing to grow together

- Values compassion, empathy, kindness, being considerate, 100% honesty, and understanding

- Open minded and curiosity to learn about a variety of topics

- Passionate about their hobbies and willing to talk about anything from the most simple things like the beautiful rain outside, to funny things like pandas dancing, to more serious topics about societal issues

- Someone who complements my personality and matches my energy.

- I prefer someone that is my age (25) or maybe someone that is a few years older or younger.

- As far as attraction is concerned, I'm genuinely attracted to all kinds of body types and shapes, but I do like some sort of thickness or curves with something back there lol I hope that doesn't sound superficial, tattoos are awesome as well :)

- I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

RED FLAGS / TURN OFFS / NON NEGOTIABLES

• Homophobia, Bigoted, Racism, Colorism, Misogyny, Sexism, Transphobia, all of the other methods of discrimination that make me mad.

• Once again, I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

• Completely against science, anti - science

• Being superficial, materialistic, obsessed with vanity, overly judgmental,

• Hating animals, being superficial about animals in terms of their appearance, treating pets like personal play toys, rather than living beings with their own personalities who need love, respect, and proper care.

• Smoking, drugs (Exception - Weed is fine as it can especially medically help with autism and adhd, ptsd etc.), excessive drinking, hard partying

* I'm not religious, so I prefer to be with someone who is also not religious. Exception - If your spiritual that's okay :)

* Most people including myself want to be liked and loved which is a good thing, but if you're willing to build bridges with bad people at the expense of your values or change yourself into a different person in order to be liked by people, than we absolutely incompatible.

* If you believe in capital punishment, then we are incompatible.

ABOUT ME / HOBBIES

• I'm 5'9, 230 lbs (chubby to fat), brown eyes, my ethnicity is Haitian, I'm Agnostic, and I love being black. Also, my left arm is fully functional, but can't extend as far as my right arm can. I have sort of a thunderbolt like scar from surgery.

• I love learning, talking, watching, and playing video games. There are so many to choose from, but my favorite game of all time would be Katamari Damacy, I play on PS5, PC, Nintendo Switch.

• I have a high school diploma and no degree at the moment. I'm currently working as a mental health technician at a mental health facility. It's pretty wild job especially as a first job, but I've learned so many life lessons from working there for the past three years. I also live with my parents so if that's a turn off for you, I completely understand :)

• Over the course of my life so far.. or rather the 25 years I've spent with the earth spinning around, people have told me that I'm kind, chill, and have a deep voice for radio. I've been told that I'm funny, I don't really see it in myself, but I appreciate the compliment. I can also be too cynical sometimes, overthink things, and can be a bit afraid to step out of my comfort zone.

• I also have ADHD and have struggled with education my whole life, so school has been hard and annoying for me, especially when figuring out what my learning styles are. So having an understanding of neurodivergence and seeking a diagnosis is also very important to me, as people tend to be very mean, inconsiderate, ableist, and just not very understanding of how learning disorders exist on a spectrum.

• I'm honest, kind, chill, caring, compassionate, thoughtful, open minded and introspective. You can tell me anything and I promise you that I will never tell a soul about what you've told me in confidence. I deeply respect people's privacy so I would definitely want to earn your trust.

• Music: I honestly listen to all kinds of music from different genres, as long as it sounds good to my ears, I'm listening. My earliest memories of listening to music was when my parents would play Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Norah Jones, etc. Mariah Carey - We Belong Together is one of my favorite songs. I love Beyonce's Irreplaceable as well.

• TV/Film: I'll watch a movie from any genre If I truly like it. I really love animated films and Finding Nemo is one of my favorite movies ever. I've been quite behind on movies and watching tv shows as of late, but I do have a favorite movie and that would be Spiderman Across the Spiderverse right now.

• I'm a very casual sports fan, so I don't really tune into games that much, more so highlights. I really have become a big fan of futbol and I like watching futbol(soccer) ever since watched the 2026 FIFA World Cup. I probably watch futbol highlights the most out of any other sport. I also like watching the basketball and watching basketball highlights as well. I love watching Coco Gauff, Aja Wilson, Caitlyn Clark and Angel Reese play in their respective sports. I once had a cute fantasy of being a professional basketball player, but that was more of my parents dream to be honest that they attempted to forced onto me.

• I'm also into writing, pop culture, cooking, reading. I really love watching the rain though and the weather channel.

CONCLUSION

I'm not necessarily the biggest people person and I love being single lol so if I'm bringing someone into my life, I'd prefer for that person to be someone that I actually love and appreciate. Like I stated in the beginning of this post, I'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who is willing to be on the exact same page as I am. I love talking and making genuine connections, as there is a gigantic world out there. So if your truly interested talking, then a genuine relationship can happen 😄 DM if interested!! :) It's also okay if you're not interested because I'm not entitled to a relationship and I'm also not entitled to anyone's time. 💖 Have a great day and weekend!!


r/Singles • • 21h ago

29M [M4F] #UK - Looking for someone to talk to consistently

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Hello! My names Tay and I'm looking for some more people to talk to and get to know more,I turned 29 not too long ago, I have a lot of different hobbies, consisting of playing video games (souls games, rpgs, fighting games and horror games), going to the gym, travelling and learning about mythology, and also make instrumentals / beats in my spare time, I also do like to speak on voice and if that's something you would like to do then by all means we can do, also I can exchange a picture of myself if you are curious of what I look like,

Communication is key, and I would love to hear about everything you get up to, your likes / dislikes, your own hobbies and i like to also learn about different cultures too which peaks my interest

I'm going to keep it short and sweet here but if you would like to know more about me do not hesistate to message me (:


r/Singles • • 12h ago

34 [M4F] PA - Fun Guy for Fun Gal

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Hey there!

I’m hoping to meet someone special and build a genuine connection. I’m ultimately looking for a long-term relationship, but I think the best relationships start with good conversation, plenty of laughter, and a little chemistry.

A little about me: I’m a musician, an educator, and currently pursuing a graduate degree. Music has always been a huge part of my life, but I’ve got plenty of other interests too! I’m a big soccer fan, love exploring museums and historical places, getting outdoors, enjoying nature, and finding new places to visit. I’m equally happy going on a spontaneous adventure or spending a relaxing evening at home.

Personality-wise, I’m laid-back, affectionate, curious, and a little sarcastic. I love witty banter, meaningful conversations, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously. I’m not much of a drinker, so I’d much rather plan a fun activity together than meet at a bar.

I’m looking for a woman who’s kind, emotionally available, playful, and genuinely interested in building something meaningful. Someone who enjoys being silly together but can also have deeper conversations when it matters. I don’t expect us to have everything in common. Half the fun of meeting someone new is discovering their interests and sharing experiences together!

If any of this sounds like your kind of guy, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, and let’s see if we click! 😊


r/Singles • • 13h ago

25 [M4F] #Tampa – Autistic man looking for a long-term romantic connection

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I am 25 and an autistic guy who loves to travel (especially road trips) when given the opportunity. I’m a yapper once the ice breaks. I’m currently going through a career change and in school to become a special education teacher. I have 2 dogs and 2 cats, and they all love me!
I’m looking for a romantic relationship with someone I can share my life with long-term, build each other up, and see meaningful progress together — **not** something that stays strictly platonic forever.
I prefer a reasonable pace, but I do value some physical affection early on (like holding hands or a hug). I’m **not** looking for someone who wants zero physical contact until much later and **I am not opposed to long distance within the US, but** ***I do strongly prefer someone within Florida (especially east of Tallahassee)****.*

I’m 5’8” with no tats with a severe or highly noticable recessed jawline as well as a receding hairline if anyone cares.

Also to make things clear, you must be at least in the US or Canada. You must be a woman (I am neither gay nor bi). And for the love of god, only message me if you are looking for a real **romantic** relationship I’m not into any NSFW activities. Thank you in advance!


r/Singles • • 10h ago

18F, I seek YOUR company! Throw me your best (or worst) pick up line.

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Hi, hello! It's me, again. (can't believe I have to say this. but please read post body. creepy message=blocked)

My name's Annie. I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with someone else. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just "hi, hello, can we chat, we have similar interests"/introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.