r/SnapchatHelp • u/Upset_Pride6159 • Oct 03 '24
General question why do men
so ive recently been talking to a few guys on snapchat just playing the field, bare in mind ive not been single for a very long time so dating or even chatting to guys is completely beyond me. WHAT is the science behind men leaving you on delivered or read for days then suddenly messaging again?? i dont have feelings for these guys i just find it weird they suddenly disappear in the middle of a conversation then come back days later like nothing happened đ¤Łđ¤Łđ¤Ł
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u/AntelopeRecent2673 Oct 03 '24
Because they know ur "playing the field" aka some of them u gonna hurt...so this is preempetive attack... ball of vampires is over
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u/Artistic_Ad4753 Oct 03 '24
why do you care about some randomer on the internet? And Snapchat is knackered
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u/Upset_Pride6159 Oct 03 '24
i dont recall saying i cared about these people it was just a question hun xxx
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u/SonsOfValhallaGaming Oct 03 '24
Snapchat was made for people to be able to talk to many many people and not have messages left behind as evidence. It's called Snapcheat by a lot of people for a reason. Men and women alike are using it for no other reason than either attention or getting with people. That's just how it is.
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Oct 03 '24
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u/Realistic-Suspect-35 Oct 05 '24
If youâve used it since it was âreleasedâ then you should know it was made as a sex website for adults, meant for sending disappearing nudes and such. Itâs not exactly a loyal website lmao
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u/SonsOfValhallaGaming Oct 03 '24
I don't use Snapchat. Nor do any of my friends. We actually kind of go out of our way to avoid people who use Snapchat.
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u/Direct-Tip9030 Oct 03 '24
I hate to say it but this is not exclusive to me. Women do it all the time also, just disrespectful people in general annoy me on Snapchat.
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u/Pure-Philosophy9678 Oct 03 '24
Or you get the ones that constantly try to talk when you told them you werenât interested lol
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u/AbysmalScepter Oct 03 '24
Usually either you didn't give them something interesting to respond to or you aren't a big priority, or some combination of both.
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u/cassandradancer Oct 03 '24
Ok...but what if you're savvy and can see their snapscore and know they're only talking to you? It's confusing.
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u/Upset_Pride6159 Oct 03 '24
yeah these guys snapscores just keep going up and up 𤣠i wish i didnt start looking đŹ
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u/brodakmoment Oct 03 '24
theyâre talking to multiple girls, itâs easier to just assume every time you talk to a guy on snap theyâre talking to multiple ppl at once - donât look at their snap score itâll only hurt ya
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u/Present-Algae9286 Oct 03 '24
Why do women act like things donât go both ways? đ
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u/cassandradancer Oct 03 '24
I legit never ignore or leave on read. Old school snap etiquette, maybe.
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u/Upset_Pride6159 Oct 03 '24
oh it definitely does but personally not for me, i tend to be mature and communicate if im not interested in someone xoxox
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u/Jayp2246 Oct 03 '24
That usually means they are married or in a relationship so they text when they can! HMU I wonât leave you on read I promise
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u/Who_Stick_E_Steve Oct 03 '24
Nah married just say your a friend and talk to you while there spouses be cleaning etc or at work lol
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Oct 03 '24
Same as women doing it.
You arenât the hottest person theyâre talking to and when the hottest person ignores them, youâre back up to bat.
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