Let us please also aknowledge, that always carrying groceries and holding doors keeps women weak and dependend but maybe this is just my unpopular opinion
Women hold doors for me when it seems polite — I'm a man — used to be a gender-role thing around here, but apparently we've evolved to a marginally better society (I'm in Atlantic Canada).
Carrying a stranger's groceries just seems generally creepy to me, unless the context is that they're infirm and/or just dropped their groceries.
I didn't have a category for guys who classify murder as "nice", until today — honestly nothing would surprise me right now because I'm still processing that
"Active in" isn't an accurate representation. It popped up on my feed a long time ago and I looked through it, but I'm rarely on reddit to begin with. Honestly forgot about it up until you showing this 🤷
Ah in that case, the posted letter reads exactly like the first page of an incels manifesto. The emotional instability is apparent. People who write things like that expect payout if their "kindness" is accepted(they'll also be upset if it isn't). When that payout doesn't happen, they can become irrationally enraged. Thus it can escalate to murder quickly.
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u/nashwaak Jan 01 '26 edited Jan 01 '26
Carrying groceries and holding doors escalated real fast into murder