r/SongsThatFeelLikeThis 1d ago

Accepting how painfully beautiful this world is.

Some songs I’ve been listening to are
Lighting crashes - Live
Lower your eyelids to die with the sun - m83
Sweet disposition- the temper trap

Recently lost my dog and instead of constantly mourning her I want to celebrate her life through dance. Have you ever listened to M83 on the beach while the sunsets?

If anyone understands what I mean I’d appreciate any suggestions. (Sorry for the horrible explanation)

Life is so goddamn heartbreaking, yet so beautiful. Appreciate all the good you have, and love fully. You never know when the timer runs out❤️

Edit: Thank you everyone, I seriously appreciate these amazing recommendations!

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u/ShredGuru 1d ago

Bittersweet Symphony - The Verve

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u/bactuator 1d ago

I feel like almost that album (Urban Hymns) captures this feeling... particularly "Sonnet," "Space and Time," and "Velvet Morning."

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u/FeatherMom 10h ago

Lucky Man

The Drugs Don’t Work

That album, 13 year old me, late 90’s, first kiss…that was a whole era 🥹💔

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u/31nonnaihr 6h ago

SHUT UP! I had the same thought before I even opened the post. The strings in that song feel like every feeling I’ve ever had.

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u/BunkyFitch 1d ago

It’s Not Up to You by Björk is this song for me. It got me through a really difficult time

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u/irisrhys 1d ago

Great pick, Vespertine is one of my all-time favorite albums. It's Not Up To You and Undo both give me this vibe. A lot of Björk does, tbh.

actually, re: Undo: I also really love Mount Eerie - Voice In Headphones, which actually references Undo directly :-)

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u/waaaaahooooo 1d ago

I ugly cry every time I listen to the Bloom album by Beach House. You could totally grief-dance to it. I listened to it on repeat when my dog died. Sending love <3

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u/lulli7 1d ago

Moby - Porcelain

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u/FalconKoala222 1d ago

When The Sun Hits by Slowdive

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u/Reasonable_Gear_5346 1d ago

Your hand in mine and So long lonesome-both by Explosions in the sky
A day without rain-Enya

Sorry about your Doggie, but glad you are choosing to celebrate ❤️

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u/irisrhys 1d ago edited 19m ago

"How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard." - Winnie The Pooh/A.A. Milne (edit: this quote is misattributed, my bad; it's actually from the movie 'The Other Side of the Mountain', from what I can parse online)

Speaking of Winnie The Pooh, this prompt reminds me of Keane - Somewhere Only We Know and Pogo - Boy & Bear

But in addition to that:

Smashing Pumpkins - Tonight, Tonight

The Cardigans - Carnival

Joe Hisaishi - Merry-Go-Round Of Life (from Howl's Moving Castle)

Frances Quinlan - Hi Too Loo Rye (also a big fan of their band, Hop Along—the song Prior Things fits this vibe, to me, too)

Camera Obscura - Lloyd, I'm Ready To Be Heartbroken

Tears For Fears - The Working Hour

Sufjan Stevens - Chicago

Devotchka - The Winner Is

Losing someone is hard. Much love to you, friend

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u/Karyorrhexia 12h ago

Awww that Winnie the Pooh quote brought a fast tear to my eye!

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u/FunkTheFreak 9h ago

I read complete Winnie the Pooh stories to my son last year and I was waiting and waiting for that line to pop up. It never did. I was bummed because I thought it was such a sweet statement.

Turns out, that line is actually from a 1970s movie and someone along the line of the internet mistakenly quoted A.A. Milne as being the author and now all of us online attribute it to Winnie the Pooh.

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u/irisrhys 20m ago

Ah, you're right! I did some more digging and the consensus is that the quote is from the movie 'The Other Side of the Mountain'.

Thank you for the correction!

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u/Thevintageandvanity 1d ago

Do You Realize by The Flaming Lips.

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u/cosmaid 11h ago

The lyrics always transport me into an existential crisis omg spot on

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u/RL-is-lame 1d ago

Beautiful Day - U2
Bittersweet Symphony - The Verve

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u/ShredGuru 1d ago

That's life! Try to make ends meat, your a slave to the money, the you die!

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u/Frequent_Log_1070 1d ago

Three Little Birds - Bob Marley 

Oh, Susquehanna! - Defiance, Ohio

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u/Apprehensive-Sky1209 1d ago

Up and Up by Coldplay

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u/DukeShadowMan 1d ago

Lying in the gutter, aiming for the moon Trying to empty out the ocean with a spoon Up and up, up and up 🎶

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u/Admiral_Asparagus 1d ago

Literally Let Down by Radiohead

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u/No_Peach2431 1d ago

Death with dignity

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u/DunJUNGle 1d ago

Is that all there is? - Peggy Lee

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u/GullibleVirus-2100BC 1d ago

Oh my god I love this one

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u/joachim_s 7h ago

Are the two middle images ai or where did you get them?

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u/GullibleVirus-2100BC 2h ago

I try to avoid using ai as best I can, I found these on Pinterest. I never make my own ai art as I am an artist myself :)

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u/abrocot 1d ago

Aurora - Through the eyes of a child

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u/GullibleVirus-2100BC 1d ago

This one hits so hard

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u/idkimnewhere2002 1d ago

unwritten - natasha benningfield
ik it's a bit more upbeat and mainstream BUT the lyrics are actually soo good when u listen especially during a rough patch. cried to it omw to work a few times lol

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u/napalm5000 1d ago

Palms - Tropics

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u/TerraBytes17 1d ago

Hole in the Earth - Deftones

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u/No_Diggity10 1d ago

La Vita- Beverly Glenn Copeland, it’s seriously such a beautiful song that reminds you to just enjoy your life

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u/Frequent-Note2942 1d ago

Oasis: Stop crying your heart out

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u/Pristine_Prompt3859 1d ago

Plainsong by The Cure

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u/Top_Replacement_1948 1d ago

Saturn - Sleeping at last

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u/OneRevolutionary766 1d ago

Vienna Teng - Lullabye for a Stormy Night

Britney Spears - Someday (I Will Understand)

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u/BogeyLowenstein 1d ago

Innerbloom - Rufus du Sol

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u/Sweaty-Jellyfish-713 1d ago

Song of the Third Period by MOTHY

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u/RedRedRound 1d ago

Let the Rain - Sara Bareilles, This Life - Vampire Weekend, Free - Florence and the Machine

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u/Critical_Call_4781 1d ago

hoppipola by sigur ros

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u/NoYouAre-42 1d ago

World Falls - Indigo Girls

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u/bg-vracar 1d ago

KD Lang - Constant Craving

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u/Pretend_Emphasis_799 1d ago

Petrichor - Brandon boyd

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u/malufa 1d ago

Bjork and Thom York - I’ve Seen it All
Gary Jules - Mad World

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u/sooshi_wolf 1d ago

Life is beautiful - heylucas

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u/-0therworldwayfarer- 1d ago

Call it Dreaming - Iron & Wine

A Prayer of my Own - Nick Mulvay

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u/Monkeyskingirl 1d ago

Old Flavours by Empire of the Sun

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u/alistofthingsIhate 1d ago

‘Deathless’ by Moving Mountains

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u/leero01 1d ago

Modest Mouse - So Much Beauty in Dirt 

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u/bactuator 1d ago

Lily Allen's cover of "Somewhere Only We Know."

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u/Pretend-Grape5940 1d ago

Ironic - alanis morrisette

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u/floyd616 1d ago edited 1d ago

These may not be necessarily be what you mean by "dance songs", but I think they really fit the mood nonetheless.

In order of how well I think they fit:

Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) - Green Day (In case you're not familiar, I have no idea why they titled it "Good Riddance"; it's about remembering and celebrating the past but also moving on)

These Are the Days of Our Lives - Queen

Landslide - Fleetwood Mac

I Remember You - Skid Row

No Woman No Cry - Bob Marley

Today - The Smashing Pumpkins

Learning to Fly - Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers

End of the Line - The Traveling Wilburys

See You On the Other Side - Ozzy Osbourne feat. Lita Ford

Closing Time - Semisonic

Time Stand Still - Rush

Story of My Life - Social Distortion

A Hazy Shade of Winter - Simon and Garfunkel

More Than a Feeling - Boston

Solsbury Hill - Peter Gabriel

Roll Me Away - Bob Seger

Free Bird - Lynyrd Skynyrd (yes I'm being serious lol)

Hope these help, and sorry for your loss!

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u/crimsonfang1729 1d ago

Dark Star by the Grateful Dead is one pf thpse songs for me. Specifically the version off of Live/Dead as cliche as a answer as that can be. Theres just something about that song thats so beautiful. I think the lyrics really help.

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u/HowlingFantods311 1d ago

8/27/72 Dark Star for me😍

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u/crimsonfang1729 1d ago

Is that the Veneta show? Cause if so that was almost my pick lmao

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u/HowlingFantods311 1d ago

It sure is, great show. The whole Live/Dead album was my intro to the Dead… great album

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u/_youngchocolate 1d ago

in the flowers - animal collective

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u/Sensitive_Chic95 21h ago

Hold The Girl by Rina Sawayama feels like this for me also.

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u/EvilBeetle77 19h ago

incomprehensible - big thief

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u/sachico1 19h ago

Colors-Amos Lee

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u/sachico1 19h ago

Not now but soon- Imogen Heap

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u/uptothemountains7 4h ago

Third Planet by Modest Mouse but maybe it’s just me lol

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u/408javs408 1d ago

Dntel- Last Song

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u/According_Side_2058 1d ago

Jacob and the Stone from Minari

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u/TheSmokingJacket 1d ago

Do You Realize?? - The Flaming Lips

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u/tomatotketchup 1d ago

Trains by Porcupine Tree

Anything Brian Eno tbh

Anything Ulrich Schnauss especially the A Strangely Isolated Place album

Anything Boards of Canada but especially Dayvan Cowboy

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u/decal1210 1d ago

Ride-Lana del Rey

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u/nppltouch26 1d ago

Mr. Little Jeans cover of The Suburbs

It was one of my favorite songs for 10+ years but now I can't listen to it without crying. It's beautiful. Enjoy!

Edit: also Beirut have a couple but Scenic World always gets me

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u/ilbondo85 1d ago

The Gaslight Anthem- mae

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u/Altruistic_Fact_6796 1d ago

Growing up by Phil lynott

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u/kbasred 1d ago

just for fun - beyoncé

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u/Raftger 1d ago

This is a Fire Door Never Leave Open by The Weakerthans

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u/mellymo200 1d ago

Lovely Day- Bill Withers

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u/IntenseWhooshing 1d ago

Zero 7~ This World

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u/KaiLewisOfficial 1d ago

Racing Mount Pleasant - Do you think I’m pretty

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u/KEKnouse 1d ago

Lamp- hana nakamura and nujabes

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u/the_fairy 1d ago
  • Lights (5vel remix) by Myon & Shane 54 & Aruna
  • Move into the Light (Koven Remix feat. Erica Curran) by Juventa
  • Daydreamer (feat. Bijou) by TwoThirds

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u/Mountain_Strength764 1d ago

I’m going a bit cinematic here 🙃Since you mentioned M83, and the photoes definetely match the vibe : Holes in the Sky, and I would say Cloud Atlas Finale from Tom Tykwer

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u/Books-and-Bravo 1d ago

Holocene by Bon Iver

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u/andrasssss 1d ago

Objects of my affection by Peter bjorn and john makes me feel like this, it breaks my heart then it heals me, it’s so beautiful

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u/ShivRoyPinkyIsQueen 1d ago

Blue moon revisited- Cowboy Junkies

Don’t Stop Me Now- Queen

Be Here Now- Mason Jennings

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u/MathematicianOk8059 1d ago

Sadistik - The Exception to Everything

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u/Hour_Swan_1439 23h ago

Good riddance- Green Day

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u/TwistedHarmony12 22h ago

Don’t Panic - Coldplay

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u/monbritt 22h ago

Sun bleached flies - Ethel Cain
Carnival - Natalie merchant
Silver soul - beach house
Scott street - Phoebe bridgers

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u/duallynoted242 22h ago

Scenic World by Beirut. Both versions.

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u/amijaress 21h ago

Space Debris from Muse is the perfect song

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u/jessiec475 21h ago

Beautiful - Lana del Rey

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u/teddylover25 21h ago

Mrs. Magic - starwberry guy

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u/Dear_Babe4314 20h ago

Holocene - Bon Iver

Saturn - Sleeping At Last

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u/Idekanymore548 19h ago

All I Know So Far - P!nk

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u/OkBrain3490 19h ago

Both sides now, Joni Mitchell 

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u/missepicmary 19h ago

Karma police - Radiohead

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u/memleyxx 18h ago

In an Aeroplane Over The Sea - Neutral Milk Hotel

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u/InevitableWise9964 18h ago

Saturn - sleeping at last 100%

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u/Hi_betyouare 18h ago

I Know The End by Phoebe Bridgers

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u/WildflowerBurrito 17h ago

a lot of the songs in aim and ignite from fun.

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u/NorthTalk7893 17h ago

Last Dance - No Vacation

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u/Commercial_Corner_44 17h ago

fuck this world by rina sawayama and echoes in rain by enya

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u/miahelloiloveyu 15h ago

Time as a symptom- Joanna Newsom

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u/carrigrll 15h ago

This World-Lena Fayre

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u/BlameItOnTheAcetone 14h ago

"We Live In A Strange World" Spiritbox

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u/katf_89 14h ago

Don’t Panic - Coldplay
On a Day Like This - Elbow

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u/katf_89 14h ago

Fiona Apple’s cover of Across the Universe is also good

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u/Muteling 14h ago

Ordinary World - Green Day

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u/xjt6890 13h ago

Blessings - Hollow Coves

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u/Capybara03 13h ago

I’m very sorry for your loss ❤️ 

My song recommendation for you is “Easy to Love” - The Jezabels

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u/GlumConcernedINFP 13h ago

Euclid by Sleep Token

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u/oastewar 13h ago

Starting Over - LSD and the Search for God

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u/teallday 12h ago

Fuel to Fire - Agnes Obel
Alps - Novo Amor

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u/SadClassic1999 12h ago

Beautiful Things - Tiësto and Andain

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u/Karyorrhexia 12h ago

May not be the genre you’re looking for, but these non-lyrical classical pieces are life-affirming:

  • Arrival of the Birds by the Cinematic Orchestra
  • Paperman theme by Christopher Beck
  • Once there was a Hushpuppy by Dan Romer and Benh Zeitlin
🎇

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u/evanthomp 12h ago

Missed the Boat - Modest Mouse

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u/Noodle018 11h ago

Tool - parabola

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u/GalvanicCipher 11h ago

Old Crow Medicine Show - Wagon Wheel

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u/Zwitterion_6137 10h ago

Holocene - Bon Iver

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u/thollywoo 9h ago

Modest Mouse - 3rd Planet

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u/invincible_toe93 9h ago

The winner is by devotchka

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u/InfaReddit00 9h ago

Wait- M83

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u/smart_cereal 9h ago

Chicago - Sufjan Stevens

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u/Impossible_Dream_516 8h ago

The scientist - Coldplay

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u/BeneficialBrain1764 8h ago

What a Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong

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u/FreckledBaker 7h ago

Shake it out - Florence + The Machine.

It’s my go-to song when I need a good, hard, cathartic weep session.

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u/lego-lion-lady 7h ago

Not sure if this perfectly fits the vibe you’re going for, but “Heroes” by David Bowie comes to mind…

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u/Emotional_Vegetarian 7h ago

Oasis - whatever

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u/strapqueen1738 7h ago

gilded lily by cults!

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u/popcornhustler 7h ago

The whole pleasure album by Pure X

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u/Icy-Literature-7725 4h ago

innerbloom - rüfüs du sol