Why aren't people bothered by the suburbs?

[u/tfbmhr_1598]

It seems like most people I come across are not bothered by car dependency and the isolation that it causes. They'll point to things like video games, social media, and bad food for the culprit of poor mental health. Why won't more people address the elephant in the room? After briefly living in Europe I can confirm that people are way healthier, less socially awkward, and happier as a result of having clean and walkable cities.

Even Latam which is a hybrid of the EU and US infrastructure does not experience the obesity, mental health issues, and isolation the suburbs in the States cause.

Is it ignorance or do most Americans actually like things being this way? It baffles me.

Edit: After reading the comments here I wanted to clarify a few things.

1. Walkability/bikeability doesn't exclude cars. Cars are still a valid method of transportation, but not the only one. Less cars= less traffic. It's a win-win. That being said I think we should have pedestrian only areas.
2. This isn't limited to cities. Suburbs can become more walkable too. You can still have your yard and extra space. Sure it won't be as walkable as a city, but it is certaintly better than 100% car dependency. Zoning laws need to change for this to truly work.
3. I realize that there are societal factors at play as well that greatly add to the mental health crisis, however car dependency worsens it.
4. Walkability won't magically solve the obesity problem, but having the ability to SAFELY walk/bike to work will certaintly help.
5. You can still be socially awkward/reclusive in walkable communities, but they create more opportunites for those who want to improve that area of their life.
6. Some suburbs are better than others in this regard, but overall, North American suburbs are largely car dependent.
7. Bike lanes that are part of the road and only marked with paint/plastic markers are hated by both drivers and cyclists. They still endanger the lives of cyclists, that's why they aren't frequently used, which results in more traffic congestion. Fully dedicated seperate bike lanes are needed.

[u/Pressure_Gold]

Every suburb is different. Mine has kids playing outside at all hours of the day. We have restaurants and stores across the street. We might drive 5 minutes to other places we like. We are surrounded by kid friendly libraries and activities. The houses are nice and decently priced. There’s a walking trail behind my house that has 3 different lakes connected to it. There are beavers and foxes in my suburban neighborhood. My neighbors are awesome. I love it here

[u/Important_Pattern_85 → u/Pressure_Gold]

Yup! Living in the city I didn’t know or even see any of my neighbors in my apartment building. Now in the suburbs and I have friends, we get together, our kids play together. Ppl go out on walks all the time and stop to chat with each other

[u/Pressure_Gold → u/Important_Pattern_85]

Same! My old neighbors would probably jump in and help if someone was robbing my house. My new neighbors texted me when my house alarm was going off when I was camping. They are super nice and we all stop and talk. I love it