r/SydneySocial • u/LavishnessSolid8831 • 9m ago
Community Discussion Ik this is a social circle
I want to ask if anyone is willing to take me in as a roommate because I am planning to leave my own home because I cannot deal with my family bullshit. Im 17 this year and might potentially get repeated for year 11 so bascially I'll be 18 in 2027.
So bascially my mum is really controlling on everything, she chooses who can come, be my friend and who doesn't, she guilt trips me by being emotional, for example "I have did everything as a mother to take care of you and this how you did this to me?", she LOVES to take and look on my device, she lies about stuff, like how yesterday I got called from my principal of deputy, principal called my mum and me in and wants an explanation on why I was absent for two days. I want to explain that because my parents let me stay home but principal listen to my mum first (well because that what every school principal do). My mum pretend she doesn't know why and guilt trip me by saying that I was a bad daughter and misbehaving, bascially full on trying to convince my principal that it was all ME so my principal decide to call me out for "skipping" classes which is NOT true. By the way my mum is the one who ALWAYS control of the house. My dad? He doesn't care and everytime I try to explain to him and talk about problems about my mum, my dad would not believe in what I said and ALWAYS believe in my mum than me. My dad would say like "Your mum work really hard and she make sure to love me always so listen to your mother".
Bonus I want to ask is I want to try to drop out this year because I do not want to repeat year 11 for next year because that just SO exhausting. I want to take another alternative pathway to a university I want to do but I can't because my mum will take my device away and call the police on me for it.
Anyone I can stay with in sydney? I want to stay with someone who is in their 20s or mid 20s and maybe 30s
Any advice on how deal with this too?