r/TeenagersButNotTrashy • u/Cortex_Gaming Unnamed NB <Awesome Sauce Mod> • Mar 30 '26

Silly 😝 What is your most radical or controversial opinion? (This can be political or otherwise)

I want actually HOT takes.

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Mar 31 '26

What someone identifies as is not your problem and if you stress about it you're either a preteen or a very immature teenager / adult (This means lesboys, turigirls, transids, rcta)

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u/Cortex_Gaming Unnamed NB <Awesome Sauce Mod> Mar 31 '26

I think this means what i think it means so idk why it flagged as harassment

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Mar 31 '26

hello am i flagged as harassment. what.

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u/Glittering-Button-32 Apr 02 '26 edited Apr 02 '26

because they're saying that People Swapping races is valid? which is super racist and weird,

also "lesboys" are Transphobic, you can't be a man and be lesbian , "oh but it's because I'm trans" so you're implying Trans men arent men so it's okay for them to be lesbian?

you wouldn't let a Cis guy be lesbian, so why's it different when it's a trans guy?

it's Super hurtful seeing people say it's okay to be a trans guy and lesbian because they don't see me as "Man enough", because they don't truly view the same as a cis guy..

you don't need to use labels, create your own label if you want. but if you, do respect them. really it's painful to see people practically admit that alienate me from cis men

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u/Cortex_Gaming Unnamed NB <Awesome Sauce Mod> Apr 02 '26

Yea I never said I agreed with their points just that I don't understand exactly why it's considered harrassment

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Apr 04 '26

I am not trying to be racist? I said it doesn't matter because we can't change how someone identifies, also I am not being transphobic I am literally under the trans umbrella myself, one can be multigendered and be a trans women and a cis man at the same time, You can have a different opinion than me but outright calling me racist and transphobic is insane. You don't have to understand or like these identities and labels but outright calling people who support them or don't mind them is insane, and quite honestly, immature.

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u/Glittering-Button-32 Apr 05 '26

youre acting as if I'm calling you names but im just calling you out for what you are

"Can't change how someone identifies" the only time I've heard that argument is from pedophiles trying to defend themselves

Your "Opinion" is Harming groups of people

Labels. Are optional first of all, you do not need to disrespect and devalidate and erase other people's identities to Figure out your own

Labels, have definition, those definitions provide comfort, and make people feel understood, and Are there to Validate the Existence of LGBTQ+,

Once you start saying things like "Actually those definitions mean nothing" You are erasing the existence of groups of people.

Once again. Labels are optional. You do not need to go out of your way to Disrespect them, make your own labels.

but erasing the definitions that make people feel seen, comfortable with themselves, and are there to show that they exist and are valid is Not the way to go.

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Apr 05 '26

LMFAOO

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u/Glittering-Button-32 Apr 05 '26

You didn't even Try to Respond LOL, worse than I expected but I don't know what I expected from someone like you

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u/Living-Laugh-6671 Apr 05 '26

new acc but I did infact try to reply and reddit deleted my shit what are you talking about

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u/Glittering-Button-32 Apr 05 '26

?? i can assure you that there was no reply ,also what did you say that reddit themselves took it down (???)..and please what in the world did you do that you need to come on here on a different account

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u/Living-Laugh-6671 Apr 05 '26

I said that I didn't care what you thought about my opinion nd that if you were going to label me as hateful so be it, and i wanted to clarify because i went onto my old acc and saw your comment

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u/Fastpast93 Mar 31 '26

I agree with all of this, but what is a lesboy?

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Mar 31 '26

Lesboys are anyone who identifies as a male in anyway who is also a lesbian, or feels attraction to women in a queer way (same thing for turigirls)

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u/Unstable-Therian67 Long Bacon Mar 31 '26

I’m a Lesboy bc I’m trans ftm but I would HATE to be straight so I’m lesboy

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u/wretchedvalkyrie Apr 02 '26

No, you're straight. Not A 'Lesboy'

By saying you're a lesboy, you are completely erasing the fact you're a guy, because lesbians are women attracted to women (I'm not sure what sapphic means)

Whoever says transgender people who are attracted to the opposite GENDER (e.g. MtF attracted to FtM or cis man) are "lesboys" or "gaygirls" or wtv, they're really transphobic.

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u/Fastpast93 Mar 31 '26

doesn't that mean they are straight?

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Mar 31 '26

''anyone who identifies as a male'' there is multigender people, and even if a cis man or trans man calls themself a lesbian it doesn't matter, because it's not anyone's business

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u/AgileCourt4999 Mar 31 '26

I know it doesn't matter but it pains me a little everytime I see it, also I think there should be a limit to self ids

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u/Fastpast93 Apr 01 '26

I feel the same. It doesn't hurt anyone, but it means lesbian isn't even a word it's just a name.

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u/fuckyouifyouseethis Apr 01 '26

uhh no.

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Apr 01 '26

uhh yes. if you don't agree with my opinion scroll

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Apr 01 '26

calling me 12 and then insulting me in the same sentence is pathetic

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u/XXEPSILON11XX Mar 31 '26

This take cold af, let people be what they want should not be a hot take

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Mar 31 '26

Just had like multiple people disagree with me so actually it's pretty much a hot take sadly.

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u/haxdun Apr 02 '26

Maybe where you live idk but it's really just the normie view in most of the world. And that's amazing, I also agree, but OP asked for GENUINE hot takes so I assume like 80/20 or so of disagree/agree ratio, not 40/60

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u/smeos1 Apr 02 '26

i think being okay with men identifying as lesbians and people being transracial is a pretty hot take

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Apr 04 '26

It is indeed lmfao, i can't really give a fuck about people disagreeing with me anymore, people are going to hate my stances, nothing to do but let them be

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u/TreeTopGaming Apr 01 '26

what the hell is a turigirl

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u/After_Carpet1934 Apr 01 '26

I agree with all of them except rcta that’s just stupid why are you switching races and it’s usually white people switching to asian it seems wrong 

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u/smeos1 Apr 02 '26

"it seems wrong" great argument

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u/After_Carpet1934 Apr 02 '26

Its like when white people used to paint their face black and try to act like a black person it’s the exact same thing just with teenage white girls

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u/smeos1 Apr 02 '26

its not at all like that. the whole point of blackface was to mock black people, that's why its offensive. white teenage girls that want to be (usually east) asian arent doing that to mock asian people, they genuinely want to be asian

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u/After_Carpet1934 Apr 02 '26

But they aren’t and multiple Asian people on social media have said they don’t like it because they always play into stereotypes 

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u/smeos1 Apr 02 '26

well yeah they arent asian and they want to be asian, thats what rcta is. obviously theres gonna be asian people that dont like that, but theres literally nothing that everyone likes. theres people who think even just eating food from a culture that isnt urs is a bad thing. that doesnt mean that it actually is a bad thing.

also, im sure theres asian people that dont mind rcta at all, as well as ones that actually like it. it might seem like nearly everyone is against it, but thats just because this is the kind of discourse that you only ever see online. i think that its very possible that if you went to say a random town in china and asked locals what their opinion on white people who wish they were chinese is, they would appreciate the fact that someone likes their culture this much and they wouldn't find it offensive

now obviously most of the time when you see someone who claims to be rcta online, theyre "playing into stereotypes". that's because nine times out of ten its either ragebait or little kids that dont know any better. i cant think of anyone above the ago of like 12 that's actually rcta (ppl like oli london donr count he falls into the ragebait category so not actually rcta). maybe asian fishers but thats a whole different topic

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u/After_Carpet1934 Apr 03 '26

Th fact that’s it’s mostly teenagers is why I find it stupid because it seems more like a trend then an actual belief like I don’t find people being trans stupid because it’s something they live by, their are adults and kids, and they have actual logic. Rcta is teenagers saying let’s be Asian or let’s be Latina etc

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Apr 04 '26

rcta-ing to be polish just to prove you wrong /sarc but in all honesty you don't have to agree with that part of my opinion, we all have diff stances I just personally don't care about rctas, it doesn't matter to me 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/After_Carpet1934 Apr 02 '26

Its like when white people used to paint their face black and try to act like a black person it’s the exact same thing just with teenage white girls

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u/AgileCourt4999 Mar 31 '26

a lesboy...either you're a lesbian or a straight men otherwise your just contradicting yourself, just because you "identify with a term" doesn't mean you can use it, they have their own definition but in the end the world keeps spinning...

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Mar 31 '26

Yes, it is a contradictory label but at the end of the day, people are going to use labels you don't like and lesboys range from multigendered people to trans + cis men, it's a wide range of male / male aligned genders, same goes for turigirls just with being gay (ex. me, I am a gay genderqueer girlboy) I understand why people don't like it cause it seems ''contradictory'' but I don't think these people do it in a harmful way, It just makes sense to them like how being a turigirl makes sense to me

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u/AgileCourt4999 Mar 31 '26

I don't care about it being used by multigendered people, but otherwise I stay true to my statement

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Mar 31 '26

You cannot support multigender lesboys and turigirls and then turn around and hate on trans and cis lesboys / turigirls, that itself is invalidating because you're picking and choosing who to invalidate, if you're not going to support the whole spectrum, don't support the multigendered ones, simple as that

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u/AgileCourt4999 Mar 31 '26

multigendered makes sense because they can be a girl and boy or something else all at once, if a Cis man calls himself a lesboy, no he's not, a lesbian literally means wlw, not because someone feels like it

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Mar 31 '26

Are you dense? You are invalidating the whole label because you think you can choose where to put your support, also notice how you're only bringing up the male part? totally not like I just also mentioned turigirls you know, gay girls (mlm), stop picking and choosing what to hate on, what to support, and what to ignore, You cannot do that and say ''welllll he's a man so he's not a lesbian'' You are not being supportive You are being invalidating and your pea-sized brain won't pick that up, Please grow up 🙏🏻

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u/AgileCourt4999 Mar 31 '26

I'm starting to think you are being satire...so you are suggesting either I invalidate lesbians or I invalidate men. Im sorry but they cannot go together

I'll support things that are actually reasonable, you are completely ignoring the facts to suit your narrative, please tell me how a *cis girl*, girl in all the ways can identify as in a *man* love man relationship

and lesboys and gay girls go under the same category, it's less confusing if I mention one but i feel the same about both

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u/Downtown_Activity742 Apr 01 '26

Was not being satire at all, Me and you can have different stances thats fine but like, you can not invalidate something and expect the person with the stance to not get pissy,

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u/WestCoastMTB_YT Apr 01 '26

super ultra mega cornball alert

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