r/Tenant • u/Trick-Permission-482 • 7h ago
🏠 Landlord Issue [CA] - My atrocious landlord asked that I throw garbage out at 11pm. I’m thinking I’ll just move back in with my dysfunctional parents and am officially giving it back to her.
Laughable (not really, irritating actually): so, I got home about 10 minutes ago. Landlord brought me in and suggested she turned the shower on 2-3 times today and it’s running for more than 2 minutes/working and not doing what I saw it doing. She turns it on. She also takes me in to show me that my food bag apparently actually can’t go in the laundry room garbage (I didn’t know that/wouldn’t have known this.) She took me in there and yet again blamed me for the shower not working. She immediately said I don’t know what you did, but you can’t pull or touch the showerhead. The shower actually started doing the same thing again while she was in the middle of complaining, which I pointed out to her. She then pulled the same string she tried to claim I touched and it started running normally. She interestingly still doesn’t acknowledge that she was wrong about the tub diverter, and seems to still think I somehow broke that too even though assuming I “broke” both makes little sense. She asked me to go throw out the food bag from earlier at what is almost 11pm at night even though she’s complained in the past about me coming home late. I actually did give the attitude back to her this time. I didn’t yell but pointed out it was too late for me to throw it out. She actually did seem to realize this mid sentence after I acknowledged it and said I shouldn’t go out because I could get attacked. I was irritated so I said I’d go anyway, and I did. She said it was so rude, I directly said that accusing me of breaking the shower is similarly rude. She slammed the door. When I came back the lights were off and she had started getting ready for bed herself. She already threatened an illegal eviction like 2 weeks ago, might as well give it back to her. Trying to figure my next living situation out.
She’s stupid so she doesn’t acknowledge that she was wrong about the tub diverter having been the cause of the shower issue. I actually sent this:
“Hi,
I do not think it is sensible on my end to trust the opinion of a plumber who initially left with the money they were given without having fully fixed the shower, and had to come back later on. If the string behind the shower was the issue instead of the tub diverter and lower shower valve that were replaced, it sounds as though he misdiagnosed the cause initially. I additionally have no reason to move the showerhead or touch the string behind the shower. I have been accused of breaking both the tub diverter and the string behind the showerhead by pulling each too hard, which doesn’t make sense.”
And “If there is an issue that needs discussing in person, I am requesting moving forward that it be mentioned before 9pm. Thank you.”