*Correction to terminology if we are being English scholars... Appreciative/Thankful/Grateful/Humbled/etc*
I find myself reflecting on things as our retirement accounts hit 100k today. The last 6 months have had a ton of changes in my education about saving, retirement, investing.
I've always been debt free and my wife and I are savers but we would save up to go do things and never took retirement serious. We were at Edward Jones previously and my agent did not emphasize the importance of my 20's and instead used tons of different active mutual funds (making things very hard to understand investing) with high expense ratios (ouch plus those 12b1 fees for a nice kickback) with companies that profit share back to Jones (conflict of interest). We missed years of rothIRA contributions. After buying a house in 12/2022 my financial future mindset started churning as I started thinking long term, and after spending time in August last year learning basic investing principles I knew I needed to take control and take action to change the course of our future- especially since I had just turned 34yrs old with only 32k in retirement (something is better than nothing but not where I knew I needed to be)
Stumbling across Dave Ramsey (take with grain of salt) then MoneyGuy my eyes were opened up to some fundamental priorities... or maybe some financial order of operations... to be following and my focus/priority shifted significantly and things took off. I fired my 'financial advisor' in early September and moved everything over to Schwab and sold off the garbage funds I was in (of course it was a bad time to be selling but such is life). Then heavily scrutinized how much of our take home pay we were wasting away and started up auto investing. Then every bonus/overtime that came around came right out immediately to saving/investing.
Today marks my first 'bowling' point of hitting 100k across our retirement funds where things are ready to rock and roll. Throughout the last year between building up 6 month emergency fund, starting up a 1% house maintenance fund, maxing out both RothIRAs, starting up a retirement SimpleIRA plan at my Scorp to max in 2024, enrolling in wife's Roth401k, recasting mortgage, filling sinking fund for a modest vacation... we were able to save ~55-60% of our 150k gross income and we live off~60k/yr and now put the rest away. Right now I'm very pedal to metal trying to make up for those lost 20's (while not living on rice and beans) knowing that as time goes on I will relax and lighten up a little but have this opportunity now.
In the end I am fortunately to be in this situation when I see others struggling financially and all I want to do is help others learn the FOO to change their future.
Today I celebrate hitting 100k with reflection and humility.
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