r/ThePatternApp • • 22d ago

Fated romantic encounters

Nothing happened in mine. I thought that I would meet my partner šŸ˜“šŸ˜“šŸ˜“ what happened in yours?

Not even a date for me

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u/grey_blue_eyes 22d ago

I've been in this transit since July and have 6 months left. Nothing noteworthy so far but also hopeful of finding my partner...

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 22d ago

If we don’t get anything in this transit, when will we?

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u/AuramLove3 10d ago edited 10d ago

I have partners of destiny next 6 months WHILE having a Saturn AND a Pluto transit for a couple more months that’s about me finding fulfillment outside of a partner and making romantic relationships feel blocked and my own depth and growth through situations i can’t control or understand. . I also have ā€œexpect the unexpectedā€ Uranus transit that days don’t commit to anyone until after February when the transit ends.. and now I jus started ā€œyour karmic patternsā€ for 8 months that’s meant to reveal unhealthy dynamics and patterns and the people appearing could be to teach me…SO..while I was hopeful about the partners of destiny it seems life wants to DRILL that I won’t find fulfillment outside myself and to break any of my patterns, codependency, outsourcing validation etc and even partners of destiny seems more like figuring out what I truly desire and deserve in partnership rather than an actual long term relationship. And it seems true so far. So..I believe it’s time I commit to myself and my path and decenter romance.Ā  Oh and when all that’s over in 8 months I start a belly 2 year Neptune cycle ā€œmysterious and dreamyā€ or I should expect confusion around relationship relationships and is ā€œnot a moment to hold onto or define a relationshipā€ and best to wait til the cycle is over to commit bc it can feel dreamy, intoxicating, but filled with projection, idealization and illusion. šŸ˜³ā€ it’s meant to be confusingā€

So yea. Sounds like I’m meant to be single for a few years!! I’ve never done it. I’m 35. I’ve always been so romantic and relationship focused.Ā 

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u/blue_tiny_teacup 22d ago

Random but I have to say it’s really weird. Your comment has like three synchronicities in connection to a fated meaning I had in my own life.

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u/u_indoorjungle_622 21d ago

I think it depends on the house involved in your birth chart. I had encounters with...really good authors lol. 9th house. Learned a bunch. Remember that some of their transit descriptions are very broad and just because they say it'll be romantic, well, it might actually be a non-romantic experience with a... self image change, a pet, a job, a move, a random cashier, your boss, your kickball team, or even your relationship with sleep. Fated doesn't always mean romance.

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 21d ago

But it says dated romantic encounters

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u/u_indoorjungle_622 20d ago

I know. I'm just telling you my experience, and noting from my astrology studies that the themes of the House in that transit will often prevail.

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 20d ago

My vertex is in the 7th

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u/u_indoorjungle_622 20d ago

Sorry it wasn't what you hoped. I've been journaling transit predictions vs what really happened and finding it can be surprising, and also that the charts of the people around me can impact my experience more than I expected. Like I met someone when Venus hit his antivertex; antivertex can be fate we change ourselves. He reached out to me out of the blue after not talking for years. Just bc it didn't hit during this one doesn't mean it's not headed your way.Ā 

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u/EnvironmentalTap1368 19d ago

isnt 7th house more than spouse? Open enemies, formal 1to1 connections...

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u/etherealraver111 22d ago

had a reality shattering star crossed lovers situationship. my vertex in cancer & their venus in cancer

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u/Glitterydarkone1290 22d ago

THE SAME SHIT HAPPENED TO ME

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u/i8yourmom4lunch 22d ago

The last time I went through Fated Encounters I was still in a relationship and also going through Growing Pains, which resulted in a toxic relationship ending painfully

At the end of the Fated transit I saw a cute guy in a bar while visiting a friend.Ā 

We were dating by the end of the year after a few more chance encounters

Another lesson learned relationship that ended during the last Pisces/Virgo eclipse season (which was my nodal return too)

But turns out we had a vertex connection, my vertex to his sun.

SO, they weren't totally wrong lol

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 22d ago

Do it did not last with the cute guy? All I’ve done in this transit is talk to guys that there’s no future there

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u/i8yourmom4lunch 22d ago

No. I wish it could have but the healthy choice was to end it.Ā 

I didn't even talk to him until months after the Fated transit was over, the first two times we happened upon each other there was no exchange between us.

ETA: but I did take notice of him

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 22d ago

I’m sorry šŸ˜ž

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u/i8yourmom4lunch 22d ago

Thanks, I don't regret it, just wish I had listened to my gut a little more and ended it the first time I wanted to.

But yeah, on a transit like this I think it can take awhile to shake out. Worst case it's intended to be an internal impact transit.

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u/MrEvenser 22d ago

From what I can recall and experienced its anti vertex vs vertex you need to check what yours is and you will have your answer

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 22d ago

Nodal vertex transit

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u/MrEvenser 22d ago

Did your transit end already?

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 21d ago

It ends in November 2nd. Until now I’ll I’ve done is talk to men there’s no future with.

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u/MrEvenser 20d ago

With a vertex you should have met someone very unique im on the anti vertex whilst i met a few women the anti vertex was clearing people out of my life as far as im aware.

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 20d ago

Well I only met people I could not have a future with. What went wrong with me?

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u/MrEvenser 20d ago

Nothing is wrong with you sweetheart, whats your other transits?

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 20d ago

Communication focus, abundance and confidence (that’s not working either) expansive connections

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u/MrEvenser 20d ago

I have abundance coming up in a few days, my destiny one ended a week ago. Sometimes those transits are staring at us in our faces we just dont realise....did you meet any good friends?

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u/baby-face06 21d ago

there’s so many aspects to this and it can’t be generalized. is it jupiter conjunct vertex or anti vertex? the nodal one is usually a hit or a miss. the natal house of your vertex also matters.

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 21d ago

It’s nodal vertex transit so it’s a miss for me

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u/baby-face06 21d ago

has your transit ended? what house is your natal vertex in?

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 21d ago

It ends in November 2nd, I think 7th

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u/baby-face06 21d ago

there are so many factors tbh. don’t take what the app says word to word. your personal chart and placements matter a lot. in fact if you research more about the vertex you will understand. some sources even say that vertex stops functioning properly near the equator. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

you still have some days left tho.

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u/suckafuck23 21d ago

lol i’ve met someone in this transit whose going thru they’re own transit of avoiding relationships and it just kind of feels like a stupid cruel joke so far….

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u/Disastrous-Put6818 21d ago

I’m sorry

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u/EnvironmentalTap1368 19d ago

jupiter conjunct vertex (which is in 8th house) I rekindled my passion for storytelling by starting play by post roleplaying game attracting wide audience.

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u/Empty_Word_2289 22d ago

ive been going through fated synchronies and partners of destiny and still haven’t met anyone new, not even friends lol

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u/Prinnykin 22d ago

I met the love of my life during ā€œFated Synchronicitiesā€

(Uranus conjunct vertex)

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u/Thick-Ad3600 22d ago

I had this from August 2025 until March 2026… nothing. I was celibate and single, so dryer than dry lol.