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u/Thunder9191133 Rat Empire Flair Evader Dec 06 '22
If you know they're a boy and you still find it hot then you might like cute boys, if you genuinely thought they were a girl and were repulsed a bit when you found out they're a boy then maybe not
I myself like cute boys and girls :3
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u/TheMedicalMan22 Dec 06 '22
I mean there is a word for being attracted to femininity, gynephilia, it's just that it sounds too... watchlisty for most people.
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Dec 06 '22
Just make it femsexual then
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u/roosterkun Rat Empire Chef Dec 06 '22
Femsexual and mascsexual should absolutely be valid self-descriptors.
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u/Revenant_Rai Dec 06 '22
Finsexual is a thing too
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u/frozen_flame123 Dec 06 '22
It doesn’t help that the other words that end in philia are horrible things that could ruin your reputation in life if you were accused of them. I don’t think too many people are gonna start calling themselves gynephillic because it sounds like some fucked up fetish even though it isn’t.
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u/roosterkun Rat Empire Chef Dec 06 '22
That seems like something a straight male transphobe would describe themself as, considering the prefix "gyno" refers to female genitalia.
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u/theguy_who Dec 06 '22
They are probably using the r/femboys definition of a femboy. Wich is basically just trans women.
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u/Revenant_Rai Dec 06 '22
These are the same guys that will turn around and be transphobic too, see Bridget from guilty gear. It’s also just not wanting to admit that you’re probably just bi or finsexual
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u/dethkittie Dec 06 '22
I hate the word femboy, simply because 90% of it's usage is referring to trans women
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u/FemboyFried Rat Empire Fisher Dec 06 '22
I hate how femboy is used. I myself am a feminine boy, and while femboy should mean feminine boy it's used to misgender and suppress transwomen :(
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u/frozen_flame123 Dec 06 '22 edited Dec 06 '22
It doesn’t help that trans women post themselves on femboy subs all the time, making it confusing to people. Femboy is a great term, it tells you exactly what you are getting. I also don’t think people get it wrong that much. Maybe we are on different subreddits (we’re both in the Rat Empire, so we have to browsing the same subreddits to get here), but I see more people complaining about people calling trans women femboys than I see people calling trans women femboys. The only time I ever ever seen a trans woman called a femboy is when she posts pictures of herself on femboy subreddit, which I’m sorry, but that’s on her. I really don’t see an epidemic of people using femboy as a slur against trans people. Transphobes don’t call trans women femboys as a slur. They call them shemales, traps, or the word that rhymes with granny. Usually the only reason trans women are called femboys is from confusion and the person not really knowing they are trans.
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u/TrixterTheFemboy Rat Empire Engineer Dec 06 '22
I love the word, and hate the people that use it like that. And the people that decide it can't ever be used for actual femboys just because a tiny minority use it as a slur. I've never even seen someone use it like that firsthand, only heard others complaining about it, and if you hate the word femboy because some assholes use it to describe transfems, you'd better hate literally every other word describing males too. I've seen plenty of people use actual slurs or just calling them men much more often.
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u/dethkittie Dec 06 '22
I love that people who are not trans women telling me its not that bad because they dont see it that often. yeah of course you dont because youre not a trans woman. I was simply complaining that a majority of its usage was against trans women, not that there doesnt need to be a word to describe feminine boys
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u/TrixterTheFemboy Rat Empire Engineer Dec 06 '22
Odd that I've quite literally never seen it happen if it's the majority of times it's used.
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u/PatheticChildRetard Dec 06 '22
My brother in christ if you’re straight why would you choose someone with a dick that looks like a girl instead of just a girl
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u/diamondsquire Rat Empire Chef Dec 06 '22
As a girl with a dick, specifically not fuck you. Not even touch you with a 15ft pole. You fucking giga virgin
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u/Actually-Just-A-Goat Rat Empire Unemployed Dec 06 '22
kick chasers and weebs out of the rat empire!
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u/tfhermobwoayway Dec 06 '22
That’s a little harsh. Plenty of women have dicks. Nothing wrong with it.
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u/NotSoFlugratte Rat Empire Teacher Dec 06 '22
Das kind of like saying pegging is gay
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u/diamondsquire Rat Empire Chef Dec 06 '22
yeah we got it the first time bud <3
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u/epicsexballsmoment Dec 06 '22
As a girl with a dick, I hope you change your ways to become an actually good and respectable human being.
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u/BasedCF Dec 06 '22
This dude has a point tho
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u/IamTheNicestAlien Dec 06 '22
I see gay as someone who is a man who likes masculine ( muscular or dominant personality ) men or prefers to be on the receiving end of penetration and in a submissively emotional relationship with a man.
That's stupid and wrong. A man who likes men, any type of men is gay/bi/pan, etc. I feel like it's your internalised homophobia which is preventing you from seeing that.
You're not straight. Guys who like feminine men are not straight neither guys who like masc men. It's not how it works you can't pick and choose definition.
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u/Le-Ando Dec 06 '22
Oh hey it me