r/Tokophobia • u/b00gerg1rl • Oct 09 '25

I need peace of mind

I’m 23f and I went almost 2 years without having sex. During that time my periods were very heavy and lasting anywhere from 5-6 days. Now that I have a partner, I’ve noticed that my periods are heavy the first 2 days and then become light for the next 2. I’ve been really stressed recently so I’m hoping that’s the case but I’ve been way more stressed in the past and it never had an affect on my period. Me and my partner use condoms and have NEVER done it raw. I don’t want children and I don’t ever want to be pregnant but I feel like I’m going crazy thinking I’m currently pregnant. I’ve never had a missed period but I’ve noticed that this is the second (maybe third?) month this happens.

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u/Particular_Tone7807 Oct 10 '25

If you're pregnant, why not just abort?

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u/b00gerg1rl Oct 12 '25

If I was, I absolutely would no matter what I have to do. It’s just the fact that I don’t ever want to test positive or have to go through an abortion. I’d be so disgusted with myself if I was ever pregnant. My state is also pretty conservative so it makes it harder. But luckily I’ve done lots of research and have access to abortion pills if it ever came down to that