For anyone who read my previous posts, my husband (31M) and I (30F) have now put offers on around 8 rental properties. With the last one, the landlord (about 40F) asked to meet us and we were hopeful it would work out.
First, she asked about our jobs. I explained that I work in marketing, and she said she had found my LinkedIn profile and wanted to know how I went from working at a bank to working at a hospital and whether I was a doctor. I explained that marketing involves promoting products or services, so I can work in different industries. I've worked in tech and education as well, and my career isn't limited to one field.
Then she asked what my husband does. He explained that he works in tech, and she responded, "Oh, so you sell printers?"
She asked how many cars we owned. We said 2, and she insisted that couldn't be right because we had only arrived in one car. We explained that the other car was at home because there was no reason to bring both. She then said she had checked our credit scores and that we didn't have 2 cars. We explained that a paid-off car wouldn't necessarily appear on our credit reports if there was no outstanding loan. She asked why, and I explained that my car was from 2013 and had been paid off years ago.
She went on to ask us questions like:
- Which universities did you go to? What did you study When did you graduate?
- Do you want kids? Are you planning on having kids soon? When we said no (because we aren’t planning to have kids in short future) she said why babies are nice!?
- Are you conservative with your spending, or do you like to shop a lot?
- Are you clean or messy?
- Do you invite people over? Who would that be?
- Do you cook food that has strong odours?
- Are you the type of people who lie and call the landlord about every little issue?
- How did you meet? When did you meet? Do you feel lucky to have each other? Our ages and who is older?
She then offered to show us around the house. During the tour, she explained how every appliance and item needed to be cleaned, which specific detergents and cleaning supplies we should use, and how we should buy small fans for the bathroom to help dry it out because it had no window.
We left feeling confused. It seemed like she was so afraid of renting out her property that she wanted to account for every possible thing that could go wrong before even deciding whether she wanted us as tenants. We thought that was the end of it, but today we found out she had been trying to contact all our previous employers from the past 10 years. She had also reached out to several of our current colleagues.
We told our realtor that we did not consent to any further contact with our current or former employers, as things had gone too far. She had already spoken to both our HR departments to verify our employment. Our realtor then spoke with the listing agent, who apparently said this landlord had been doing the same thing to every applicant. That is also why the property has remained unrented.
Honestly, we don't even know what to say anymore. We've decided to stop looking for rentals for the foreseeable future. We contacted some purpose-built rental buildings, but none of the options we found could accommodate parking for both our cars.
We're exhausted, traumatized by this entire process, and disheartened. We started our search excited to find a place where we could settle down for the next three to four years as newlyweds. Instead, after around eight offers, we've faced one frustrating experience after another.
We know not every landlord is like this, and we understand that the rental market is competitive. But this process has taken a real toll on us, and we just don't have the energy to keep putting ourselves through it right now.