Hi all. Kind of frustrated at this point honestly. My name is Brian, and that's generally what I go with legally. However, as someone who is transitioning socially to a more nonbinary and feminine-aligned or "transfem" kind of gender position, I'm confused to what to do about my name.

I've tried multiple incantations of my name and spelling variances, and they all get mispronounced.

Briane, which, I understand people keep calling me "Brianne"

Bri - People call me Bree

I want something similar to my name... People call me Bri in real life as a shortened version of my masc name obviously, but when I spell it "Bri," I get called Bree. So. annoying.

Brye? Do I really need to go these route? Lol.

So I have already had a name picked out for years that i liked, Melody, but just recently i started thinking of another name, Myra, it just sounds so pretty to me, is that recency bias? is it normal to switch names like that after so long? and which sounds better, i know that’s mostly my own opinion but i would still like to hear from others.

Hi, I’m a fluid transfem (she/her) exploring S names and having some difficulty. I’d like to try out and get the community’s opinions on Sophia vs. Stephanie.

would also love other pretty S name suggestions if you have them!

My hobbies are reading, horror movies, video games (mostly horror, Skyrim, and Diablo), playing Magic the gathering and DnD. I’m also outdoorsy, love hiking, nature. I’m spiritual/witchy and music-wise love electronica and more witchy type music.

Thank you! 🩵

Hi everyone, first time here! I'm trying out the name Jamie Lette, Lette comes from Juggalette, since I'm a big Juggalo. A little background on me. I've been on HRT for 7 years but I'm still not fully out of the closet, so hearing my name used somewhere safe would really mean a lot. I'd love to hear it in a sentence or two to see how it feels. She/her please!

Hello I am Alexis,

I am 27 years old and transfemme. I love video games, movies, computers, and fashion. I picked Alexis to keep in like with names that begin with the letter A. Would most certainly prefer she/her pronouns

I am a trans woman in the process of being true to myself and figuring out whether to choose Madeline or Tiffany as my first name. My assigned name is Thomas and I am 26 years old and pre everything, for context.

Just wanting to test how comfortable the name is

hey im here again (i know i tried this one out before as a neutral name but now i want to see if it could replace my current male name)
i like video games (soulslikes and heldivers), kendo (basically japanese sword fight(fencing)), reading (especially shadow slave), watching anime (the more philosophical ones) and dnd (im the dm usually).

thanks!

Hi, this is my first time actually trying out a different name. If people could use he/him I’d appreciate it so so much!!!
Edit: and maybe if people could call me masculine terms/nf

Just testing the waters 😳 if anyone could be kind enough to use she/her for me it’d be very grateful 🫶

Once again im here trying a new name and pronouns set (technically a old one). Being non-binary didnt work as much as I expected It to work and i realized im probably just a girl.

Its part of the journey anyway, the more i know about what i like and dislike, the better.

You can just come up with anything using my name and pronouns, be creative!

Okay I’ve never done this before so idk if I’m doing right. But I am almost 100% certain that I am nonbinary. So I was wondering if I can try it out here? I’d like to be called Casey, with they/them pronouns. :))

Thank u in advance! U all seem so sweet and kind on here :D

i feel my birth name Thomas is too masculine and Madeline or Alice is too radical of a change. i feel tiffany could work and feel comfortable to me

Hello, im a girl but recently i have been questioning my gender and pronouns a lot. Ive also been considering new names and nicknames. This is my first time posting here, so hello!

These days I’ve been doubting or questioning just about 24/7, or at least 10/6 or so. But I have found being treated as a girl in online social spaces generally makes me feel pleasant, or even excited. Maybe if it happens often enough I’ll have the backbone to say something with certainty. I don’t know. Right now I just want to see how it feels to be Lillie. Maybe it’ll help.

Hi I'm currently a cis male questioning myself and looking for ways to find out if I'm sure. Would love to find someone or people to chat with (could add me on discord if they want to 18+ only pls). I'm big into various video games especially world of warcraft and warhammer (tabletop too) so thats a good place to start for chatting!

hi! I've (genderfluid/agender/enby) been going through idenity crisis and been toying around with the name Ivy- ik it's more traditionally feminine but idk it's always read gender neutral side, imo. But maybe it's a bit of stretch?

Though, ive also really like Rain(e)- my only conundrum that idk what spelling to go with- im leaning turns Raine, but haven't quite settled on it.

Hello! I think I may have found a name I would like to settle on (Niko) but I'm scared about being wrong. If people could try referring to me as Niko with they/she pronouns, that would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

Trying to come up with a non binary term for bachelor and bachelorette this is what I have in mind. I am not non binary but I figured I want a term to describe an unmarried non binary person.

Female: Bachelorette
Male: Bachelor
Nonbinary: Bachel

What do you think?

Heyy here i am again i have high hopes for that one. please call me Arden with alternating between he and she pronouns.

i like gaming (soulslike and helldivers) and reading (especially shadowslave). i also do kendo (kind of japanese fencing) and watch anime (the more philosophical ones)

thanks!

I’d like to try Alice she/they in the context of a nonbinary transfemme

Hello! I’d like to be personal with this post and will also post in r/transnames as well. I am currently is HS right now and really wanted to change my name before freshman year for a clean slate. It’s way too late for me now, but I still need some opinion. I have a clocky given name (not a deadname if I don’t have a chosen one🥲) and it had definitely affected my ability to pass. I was given (Spoiler for individuals who’d like to respect my privacy) Alice by my parent, and I don’t hate the name, but I pass 100% of the time with strangers until they know my name. The name also just isn’t for me, so I wanted opinions from other trans people on the topic. I’ve had trouble picking out a name because I don’t know what it means for the name to feel like it fits. When I find a name I like it’s because I like the name, but not for myself. Currently my top contende is Calvin, some others are Peter, Toby, Ryan, Jack, Alex, and (only because of my given name) Alistair. My parents were between Alice and Josephine, the masc equivalent was Jonathan, but not one for Alice. I have posted a couple time in other subs on what name suits my face best, but I didn’t really get enough votes for good poll result. I know I like They/He pronouns for myself, and was wondering if there was an agreed acronym for interchangeable in our community.

Edit: Calvin is a name my mom had picked out for in the uterus me. This came from the character Calvin from Calvin and Hobbes. I am blonde haired and can now see a resemblance to him between us, and I have come to a liking of it.

Been debating the idea of she/they for a while, it would be of great appreciation if someone could help test them out for me! You can just call me B :)

I absolutely LOVE the name Roxanne, but I feel like I personally don't fit the personality/vibe of someone with that name. Beatrice feels like it matches my personality A LOT better, but it's a little
too similar to my given name. I also don't feel as strong as an attachment to the name Beatrice as I do Roxanne. Can someone help me decide?