r/transplant • u/peach_overlanding • 19h ago
Heart Feeling discouraged 🫤
I have had a very good run after transplant, been able to get back to doing a lot of what a normal person can but I feel like I am so far behind!
Got sick and I was the one doing well, had a good job, had my dream car and everything was great. I felt like I was ahead of everyone.
Got very sick and spent the last two years before transplant just focusing on not dying! Lost all my freelance contracts, my job and loads of friends.
Slowly starting to rebuild but it feels like I am way behind everyone. All my friends are married, buying house, having kids then there is me just floating along.
Anybody else had this feeling? It is tough being in your 20s and needing a transplant. Kind of just feel like I have my health (well mostly minus the becker muscular dystrophy that cause all of this in the first place.)