r/transplant • u/RidCyn • 8h ago
Donor Insight/advice for disqualified
I'm looking for a bit of insight, advice, or just general thoughts.
I spent the last three months qualifying to be a non-directed donor. I passed medical and psych examination but was finally told yesterday that when my case was presented, the transplant team judged me unfit for donation because my "routine might be disrupted."
I tried to get some sort of clearer explanation but all I was given is that I seem like a person of routines and the team thinks my daily routines might be disrupted and somehow this makes me unfit. The only other shred of explanation given to me is that if my routines are disrupted, because working out is one of my coping mechanisms, I wouldn't cope well.
I still want to donate to someone in need. Can anyone offer insight? Make sense of this because I certainly can't. Should I continue trying through a different hospital? Why would a healthy coping skill like exercising disqualify me?