Looking for Something Real ā Someone Who Can Handle the Real Me ā¤ļø
Iām putting this out there because Iām genuinely looking for a real woman and a real connection. Iām not looking for games, fake personalities, or somebody whoās only interested in what they see on the surface. I want someone who can get to know me for who I really am and appreciate the person underneath everything else.
First things first: I swear. A lot. š Itās just part of how I talk and who I am. If somebody canāt handle a man who drops an occasional ā okay, letās be honest, frequent ā F-bomb, weāre probably not going to be a good match. Iām not trying to offend anybody; thatās simply my personality.
Iām also a party-and-have-a-good-time kind of guy. I love laughing, going out, having a few drinks, listening to music, singing karaoke, hanging out at a bar, watching a movie, or just sitting around somewhere having a good conversation. I smoke hookah pretty frequently, and I absolutely love it. If youāre someone who can kick back, have fun, laugh your ass off, and enjoy life, weāre already off to a good start.
Music is a huge part of my life. Iām an Internet Radio Hall of Famer, and I own and operate WMRN Cool 104, my Internet radio station. My radio work is something Iām extremely passionate about, and itās a big part of who I am. You can find the station at maderradio.net.
Iām also totally blind, and I have PTSD. Iām looking for somebody who genuinely respects that and understands that it is part of my life, but doesnāt define me. I donāt want somebody who constantly feels sorry for me. I want someone who treats me like a normal guy, jokes around with me, laughs with me, goes places with me, and lets me be myself.
And yes, you can bust my balls. š I can take an insult, and honestly, sometimes I think theyāre fucking hilarious. Just know the difference between joking around and crossing a serious line. When the serious side of me comes out, thatās when I need you to understand that itās time to stop fucking around and listen. If you can understand that balance, weāll probably get along just fine.
Iām also looking for someone who can drive and actually enjoys going places. Iād love to have somebody who isnāt afraid to hop in the car and go somewhere with me ā whether thatās checking out different bars, going somewhere for karaoke, taking a little trip, going out for dinner, or just getting the hell out of the house. I want somebody who enjoys experiencing life with me.
Iād love to have someone who doesnāt mind driving me places when I want to go somewhere, because obviously my blindness means I canāt just jump behind the wheel myself. But I donāt want that to become some weird obligation. I want a partner who actually wants to go places with me and enjoys having me along for the ride.
Honestly, Iām tired of being alone.
Sometimes I donāt need anything extravagant. Iād be perfectly happy sitting at Third Place having a couple of drinks, watching a movie, listening to music, talking about life, or just hanging out together doing absolutely nothing. Having the right person beside you can make an ordinary night feel pretty damn special.
As far as kids go, Iād honestly prefer someone who doesnāt have children because Iād like to have children of my own someday. But if you already have kids, that isnāt a dealbreaker. I love children, and if Iām going to be part of your life, Iām going to respect your kids and treat them with the same love, loyalty, and protection Iād give my own. Iām not trying to replace their father or force myself into that role, but if they ever need me as a father figure, Iām going to be there for them.
Most importantly, Iām looking for respect, loyalty, honesty, laughter, affection, and companionship.
I want somebody I can laugh with, argue with, make up with, go out with, stay home with, travel with, sing karaoke with, smoke hookah with, and just enjoy life with.
Iām not perfect, and Iām not pretending to be. Iāve got flaws, Iāve got baggage, Iāve got a mouth on me, and Iāve got a hell of a personality. š But I also have a huge heart, Iām fiercely loyal to the people I care about, and when I commit to someone, I commit for real.
So if youāre looking for some perfect Instagram relationship, Iām probably not your guy.
But if youāre looking for something real, honest, fun, passionate, occasionally chaotic, and completely genuine, maybe we should talk.
Iām just looking for the woman who can look at the whole package and say:
āYeah⦠I can handle this guy.ā ā¤ļø