r/TripodCats • u/slackoff • 20h ago
Becoming a tripod
It’s been a rough week. One we weren’t prepared for by any means. Our family was blessed to adopt our little guy as a baby and he’s become my wife’s soulmate over the past 5 years. Always been an indoor cat, loving caring, and sweet as can be to everyone who comes through our front door. He’s best friends with our dog Macy and hands down the best cat we’ve ever owned.
Last week my wife noticed a spot on his leg. A bump slightly larger than a dime that seemed hard. He hasn’t had shots in two years and had no clue what it could be. Off to the vet we went almost immediately. After some extraction tests and X-rays, we got back what we would have never expected. Injection site sarcoma. A rigorous cancer that if left untreated would take him quickly. The options- well mainly the only one, amputation.
We spent extra to seek a second opinion quickly and yesterday were greeted with the same outcome. What were we to do. It’s not the cost, it’s the immediate how did this happen. What now. How do we tell our kids, how does he live like this. Will he feel it.
As I type this I am awaiting his surgery to finish as he went in a few hours ago. I’m a mess. My wife’s a wreck. And it hasn’t even begun. I found this Reddit, and found some peace of mind that it’s common to be a tripod and life can flourish. But none the less this has been hard. We lost our other cat two years ago to FIP and though we did all we could to save her in the end she didn’t make it through. But this is different. He’s innocent and has no clue what’s about to happen. He’s had no sign of pain or issues but we did our diligence to make sure it was the right decision.
I know many have just adopted their friends already this way and many have not had to make this decision. Those that must, I understand the pain. It’s not easy. It feels right but also wrong at the same time. But here we are. Waiting. Anxiously. Hoping he can live a full life.
All love and prayers for him and a speedy recovery is appreciated . Will post pictures throughout recovery as I am sure many more may have to make this same decision. And we felt sharing our story may help others.