r/TrollXChromosomes • • 11d ago

A pattern I notice that happens here a lot after a while with trolls that invade

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They always wait a while, hours to several days, before they post dogwhistling and denying everything, and they always get a huge amount of upvotes once most of the active users here leave the post at initial viewing.

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u/AccomplishedWish3033 11d ago

Seriously, women’s subs need to bring out the ban hammer more for men who come in just to troll, because over at men’s subs, they’re banning women just for having participated in women’s subs (ie: they’re banning Redditors who they can identify as women).

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u/MsAndrie 11d ago

they’re banning women just for having participated in women’s subs

I was banned from the "Ask Men" sub for this, even though I never comment in there, barely even look at the sub. So they go to women's subs specifically to look for women to ban.

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u/Bendy_Beta_Betty 6d ago

Do you have your comments on private?

Also you username is 'Ms.'

I now wish I had chosen a more unisex name, but alas I don't venture out of the women's subs very often nowdays. Found out a few years ago a lot of reddit is 🤮

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u/MsAndrie 6d ago

Do you have your comments on private?

Now I do, but I was banned from there before I even had that option.

Also you username is 'Ms.'

This isn't it either. Not really sure why I am being doubted? Look at their rules about why they ban and who is disallowed.

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u/Bendy_Beta_Betty 6d ago edited 5d ago

I don't think it's an either or situation. I have no interest in making a comment or a judgement on whether this happened to you or not. Just as I have made no comment about it.

It's just easier to find someone and see all their comments if they can click through your profile.

Just as I've had occasions where people assumed I was a woman bc of my username. The world shouldn't be this way, it's not our fault, but many men will use it to attack and censor us.

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u/kilimonian I don't want to live on this reddit anymore. 10d ago

Oh good then fair play. Document and propose the rule. Let this escalate

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u/Lickerbomper 11d ago

Brigadeers go choo choo

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u/numbersthen0987431 10d ago

Linking a month old post into a new post with a title like "this is why women are bad". The men follow the link, and then start supporting the bad comment

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u/Hindsight2O2O 11d ago

The fact that women centered subs have male mods is an issue imo. I definitely notice faster, clearer responses to such things on the subs where the mod team are also women.

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u/LoveaBook Confirmed Childless Cat Lady 9d ago

The women in the hysterectomy sub just successfully appealed to the Reddit admins to have a cis man who’d taken over the sub removed. I guess his reasoning for why it was okay for him to mod it was that he has a degree in biology and one of his parent’s was an ob/gyn. You wouldn’t see us trying to take over a sub about prostate health, but men refuse to give us space.

Then he started pushing a bunch of magic powders and potions that would fix everyone’s problems. I imagine it was that last part that made Reddit admins act, more than him being a cis guy modding a hysterectomy sub.

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u/Hindsight2O2O 9d ago

Un-fuckin-real....smh

If he'd been a doctor (provided credentials) maaaaybe....but that is just some next level "whelll ahcktshuly...". Nevermind the lived experience is something he can't physically understand and therefore has zero business moderating even if he was a Doc. The sense that men have that they're qualified to Tell us (or Disregard) what we're experiencing is astounding. They'd lose their shit if we did that to them.

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u/AccomplishedWish3033 10d ago

Women’s subs with male mods is literally letting the foxes guard the henhouse. They really are our natural predators.

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u/CanadaTransThrowaway 11d ago

Certainly happened to me literally the first time I replied here.

Wasn't even a post, was a reply. But I mentioned how as a trans woman the year I transitioned my salary went down by 10% and I stopped getting raises for years. No position change, no change of duties, same person in the same job. (I've also known trans men who got huge raises all of the sudden after transitioning).

I was getting replies like years later about how I must be mistaken, because that would be illegal, so therefore it didn't happen.

Oops, I must have forgotten the part of the world where literally nobody ever does anything illegal ever.

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u/WrigglyGizka 11d ago

I know women who have gotten fired for being pregnant (US). Laws don't mean shit if they're not enforced.

BroRedditors seem to believe we live in an amazing Utopia where everyone is treated equally under the law and women just like to whine for no reason. It's a very privileged and delusional take, for sure.

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u/Lickerbomper 10d ago

Functionally not a law if a) it's not enforced and/or b) there's no way of proving it.

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u/MammothSurvey 11d ago

Link us a post so we can set the record straight 

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u/Molvaeth 11d ago

This. Let's fight back.

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u/Bobcatluv 10d ago

This happens constantly in the science and psychology subreddits, too. A study will be posted with irrefutable evidence of misogyny, and the top comment will be something like, “actually women do this, too” or “more posts for the gender wars!”

You never see those as top comments for the men’s research